2007-10-23 08:05:06 · 5 answers · asked by JEFFREY L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometimes it feels like it but, I don't think so. It's the change you made in your life after those "skeletal events" that dictates who you really are. Our not-so-great moments don't define us, it's what we do afterwards. Did you become a better person? wiser? Or did you become a worst person?
The past can only tell you a little about yourself, it's the present that decides who you will become.
2007-10-23 08:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. It's what someone does after acquiring those skeletons. How they learned from their past says the most about them. Some people are doomed to repeat their mistakes, while others wouldn't go down the same path for anything in the world.
2007-10-23 15:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Bridey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup - skeletons mean you are a felon (just kidding) .
Your past may define a part of you but not all of who you are. Who you are is ever evolving based on the decisions you make each day. If you have regrets about your past you need to learn from those mistakes and move forward. Try to make one dynamic choice in service every year - volunteer it will really change you and your perspective.
2007-10-23 15:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By skeleton in the closet, i guess u mean hidden things bout you that u are reluctant to review. The answer is yes, they tell alot about you.u are sensitive to what people will think about you.The best thing is to determine the best opportunity to reveal the skeletons. although revealing them is the best thing..it frees ua mind and soul... if not well timed, it come do more harm than good
2007-10-23 15:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by Capecon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you let them. If you have skeletons, face them head on. If they require resolution, resolve them, then they have no hold on you any longer.
2007-10-23 15:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by lotsandlots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋