Other - Family & Relationships - 16 September 2007

My parents, and my aunt are having a bet with me because I hate girls so they said that by the time im 13 I will have a girlfriend (but i dont right now) and they said that they will give me ALOT of money if i dont have a girlfriend. When i went to school last week one of my friends said he wont be my friend if i dont get a girlfriend soon and if i do get a girlfriend i will lose ALOT of money. Now when i go to school, people laugh at me because i dont have a girlfriend and most of them push, shove, and of course make make fun of me! What should i do: get a girlfriend and lose all my money or should i still stay away from girls?

2007-09-16 12:42:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin is mean to me because she's jealous of my beauty. I have nice wide side big eyes and thick lips while her eyes are a bit boring in comparsion to mine and her eyes are alittle close set. She also has thin lips. She scratched me and she pulled my hair once. Another time she smacked me. What do you think of this?

2007-09-16 12:08:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm talking about gut busting belly laughs, tears optional? and, if you do, how does that make you feel?
I am surprised when I get that reaction from my husband, but I get it often and I am so pleasantly surprised and happy!

2007-09-16 12:07:49 · 8 answers · asked by Guinness 5

Hi,
I've been dating my girlfriend for 14 years (on and off) and now have been living together for 2. I've noticed that she's constantly complaining, being negative, and criticizing people. Nothing is enough and every time we argue, I'm always at fault (it's always me: if I say something, my fault. If she says something, it's the way I take it, again my fault...). She then says 'I don't want to talk more about it' and that's the end of the conversation (the 'silence treatment').

Is this some kind of disorder that she's (we've) got? If it is, does it have a name?
Thanks bunch

2007-09-16 11:58:01 · 2 answers · asked by Young spirit 1

I'm 15 right now, by the way. Ever since I was a little kid, my parents have always been strict with me about girls and relationships. Now I've been in a meaningful relationship for the past 2 months and homecoming is coming up in about 3 weeks. I was just wondering if there is anyone that could tell me how to present this to my parents. Anything I should say that'll make them see with me eye-to-eye. They've been really strict about girls ever since I was 7. No girls whatsoever, no talking to them, no playing around with them, I can't even go to birthday parties with girls and I am frustrated out of my mind to how to come out and tell them I have a girlfriend, I want them to be fine with me, and I want to go to homecoming with her. Also I hope I don't get beaten. Please help me out here guys, thanks.

2007-09-16 10:48:28 · 7 answers · asked by Spartan1 2

2007-09-16 10:43:21 · 1 answers · asked by Desert Sienna 4

she showed alot of signs of liking me i berly know her but now all she does is ignore me and hang on this other guy that is her friend (there not GF and BF) could she be playing hard to get she still steals a glace at me sometimes and walk really close to me (in my personal space) and brush up agaisnt me a couple of times dont know if its on purpose or what but she lets me get close enough to her to touch her

i never really talked to her or told her i like her im just to shy and afraid.

Today i smiled at her when we made eye contact like a light smile and she seemed to start paying more attention to me

Does she even like me when im around her she constantly (i know this is sign of nervousness but idk if its me or some one else) straightens her clothes, fix hair and tils her head in my direction doesnt look at me though

2007-09-16 10:37:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've Been Giving A Promise Ring by My Boyfriend. I wanted to know What EXACTLY Its Sayin For Our Future!!

2007-09-16 10:31:19 · 3 answers · asked by ALY 1

There have been many issues with my parents. Ever since I was 12, there have been many arguments with my step-dad and mother. I have taken responsibility for my actions and agreed to change my attitude. Lately, now that I am getting closer to the age of 18 (I'll be 18 in 6 months), their punishment for my actions have grown in intensity. I have a girlfriend and she and I are very much in love. When my dad caught me making out in front of the house, he went ballistic and destroyed my cellphone. I thought it ended there, but the next day, he destroyed my playstation 2 for the same reason! I was devastated. But things cooled down. He bought me a new phone 2 months later. But when I came home from eating with my girlfriend's dad, my dad accused of lying to my mom about where i was. This is false. But, he didn't care and broke the new phone. He is extremely violent and calls me names and threatens to throw me out. My girlfriend wants me to move in with her. My mom wants me to stay. Help

2007-09-16 10:22:56 · 9 answers · asked by Lloyd D 1

Ok, I'm male too, I admit, I have looked at porn, but my 19 year old son is looking at porn almost all night, every night on the web. He is looking at freaky stuff too. I'm starting to think he has a problem. how do I know? Everything that goes on with MY internet feeds through my system so I can see who is doing what on the web.

So how much is too much, should I confront him, cut him off, or leave it alone?

Last summer we almost got sued for his illegal downloading music, so I setup a spy system. He would not stop not matter how much I threatned him, when we got a letter from an attorney, he finally stopped it and got freaked out. However, now he sits up all night watching porn, this can't be healthy?

I'm open for ideas, what would you do?

2007-09-16 10:19:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

its about 1 year ago story. i had a dog . very cute . i used to love him like a baby. he used to sleep with me , i used to make his food and so many memory with him. he was with me about two years . suddenly my mother in law came . y nature she is very rude and jealous. for her i had to take out my puppy. that time i was pregnent . my hubby didnt say anything. because he was not doing anything that time. he used to take money from his parents. i thought one day i will forget everything once i will have my baby on my hand . now i habe my baby . ts been almost one year but i couldnt forget anything. and also i cant forgive my hubby. when i miss my puppy i just star hating my mother in law and so much anger for my hubby . an any one tell how can i servibe this situation?

2007-09-16 09:59:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello everyone,

I found this guy's pictures on flickr.com accidentally when I was goofing off yesterday. All his pictures are about men's dress socks and they're just...

http://www.flickr.com/photos/otcdude/605152631/

Have a look at them and tell me what do you think...

2007-09-16 09:03:04 · 1 answers · asked by Emily P 1

I plan on starting a family when I get out of Graduate School. I live in the deep South. I am thinking about moving to California when I graduate to raise a family. I want to raise children with liberal and progressive views on things in life but with the conservative christian beliefs I learned as a child in the south. But I don't want my child to have the conservative, thinking inside of a box, closed minded beliefs we have in the south.

2007-09-16 08:22:56 · 2 answers · asked by Penny 1

did you ever go back to pursuing your dreams or did your life take a different turn and you never went back.

2007-09-16 08:12:43 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah J 6

if i called my dad an idiot and he slapped the back of my head very hard, is that abuse?

2007-09-16 08:07:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 07:04:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i didnt do anything. Ever since school sarted she acts nice to everyone but me. One time we talked and she said she was mad at the time because she doesnt get invited over anymore. But then after i did she was to busy over with her boyfriend that is to controlable makes her cry all the time and i recently found out tht he kissed another girl and she doesnt know! She makes everything my fault and i tried to be nice and talk to her at a football game and she just gave me one liners she pisses me off so much but shes my best friend and i care about her

2007-09-16 06:37:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whenever something bad happens in your life what can you do or what do you do?When im sad or depressed i just go in my room and cry alot and try to tell my self that everything will be alrgiht and also say to myself that my God is with me.So what do ya'll do when life sucks and you cant do anything about it,except that this is life and you have to go through this?or try to change it even if you cant?Or has anyone ever tried killing themself?Suicide?And why is it soo bad for someone trying to kill themself when life sucks?i mean its better than getting hurt all the time by actually living the life?

2007-09-16 06:35:13 · 7 answers · asked by BlossomMe 5

I have a boyfriend who gets jelous over on little thing, if i hug one of my friends, he gets so angry. Even if my friend is a girl! I feel trapped, and I feel like I'm being pushed away from my closesd friends. But I'm afraid to break up with him because I don't know what he's going to do. I really need help on this. PLEASE!

2007-09-16 06:23:47 · 3 answers · asked by Katie<3 2

Yesterday my brother went playing football at the local park and a group of older lads took his football. He rang how and me and my dad went down and there was 5 of them about a year younger than me (14 - 15 )

As i picked up the ball 4 of these lads had knuckle dusters on and one had a stick, so punched one that came up 2 me and knocked him after putting him to the ground twice. A few came for me and one with a stick my dad put him to the floor as a act of self defence so he didnt hit him. And thats the end of it.

30mins later 20 lads, the local gang turned up at the door so we rang 999 and now im receiving death threats and all sorts. The police wont do anything, im scared because they put a lad in hospital a few months back and they carry knifes so the chances are they will have a gun or something aswell.

Thank you

PS. Sorry i didnt no where to post this topic!

2007-09-16 06:16:46 · 9 answers · asked by Millsy 1

2007-09-16 06:08:06 · 11 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7

I am an 18 year old in my second year of university. I live at home with my dad (I commute to and from uni everyday). I also live with my older brother (21) who is literally allowed to do as he pleases..with no stress from dad. I, on the other hand, must be home by a certain time, can't spend the night at my boyfriend's, have to run everything by him... and he always gives me talks about how I need to be more careful. I need some freedom. This is driving me insane. He was never like this before I started dating someone, and now he's afraid I'm going to become a pregnant drop out on drugs or something. I have always been very careful and responsible and he has no reason to be so worried...other than I'm his little girl. My best friend and I have been talking of moving in together. Do you think it's a good idea? I'd have to take out a student loan, which my parents would give me grief over, I'm currently debt-free... I don't know what to do...

2007-09-16 05:15:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Especially if you knew they'd be funny about you saying anything

2007-09-16 04:30:28 · 14 answers · asked by JB 2

2007-09-16 04:19:56 · 19 answers · asked by cleopatra 6

2007-09-16 04:09:30 · 16 answers · asked by Mark E 1

he is sikh and about19-21yrs of age

2007-09-16 03:50:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 03:39:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father is always working and seldom home. When I was growing up as a kid he never took an active interest in my life, never taught me sports or technical stuff. Even when he is at home there is not much communication and he's always watching TV or reading a newspaper. He also gets frustrated very easily and vents his anger at work on me. Once he grabbed me by the hands and dragged me across the floor from one place to another to cane me. He also threatened to expel me from the home. He is always harsh with me so I tried to ignore him. I think he got the message and virtually ignored me as well. This went on for many years.
So here u have a 20 year old young man with low self-esteem and feeling like s.h.i.t. and a father who is workaholic and whom I'm still afraid of.

2007-09-16 03:09:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

everybody tells me i have a beautiful personality and a great laugh and i have sooo many freinds and not to sound conceited but alot of boys like me...and alot of people tell me that they love me and everything but i dont know why i dont feel it....i get really sad because i always start thinking about how nobody likes me and nobody cares for me.. but its not true...why do i keep telling myself that nobody loves me..i hate feeling this way....

2007-09-16 02:37:14 · 5 answers · asked by im so so crazy 1

What would you do if you were divorced with an elementary school child and had been with your boyfriend for three years, living with him for two. He treats you great and is wonderful with your kid. Then you suddenly find out that he regularly smokes pot and has been for about 10-15 years, so he's not likely to just up and quit. What would you do?? Just go on with life as usual or tell him that unless he's willing to give it up, your relationship is over?

2007-09-16 02:36:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous