My parents, and my aunt are having a bet with me because I hate girls so they said that by the time im 13 I will have a girlfriend (but i dont right now) and they said that they will give me ALOT of money if i dont have a girlfriend. When i went to school last week one of my friends said he wont be my friend if i dont get a girlfriend soon and if i do get a girlfriend i will lose ALOT of money. Now when i go to school, people laugh at me because i dont have a girlfriend and most of them push, shove, and of course make make fun of me! What should i do: get a girlfriend and lose all my money or should i still stay away from girls?
2007-09-16 12:42:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
always choose girls over money,and dont listen to your freind he shoould be your freind despite anything,and it depends if you really like a girl,if you dont just take the money and share it with your freind
2007-09-16 12:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you shouldn't be concerned about having to have a girlfriend right now. It sounds like you are being pressured to get a girlfriend and pressured not to get one. Unless you think you might be gay, you will have a girlfriend one day. But to try and get one because of pressure would not be fair to you or the girl, she would be just a tool you are using to make people feel that you are OK. Many a young boy has waited and I think most kids are dating too young. Just so you don't think I'm acting too old, I started at around 15 dating. My nephew is just starting to get interested and he is 16. So don't worry over it take the easy money and let your teens continue until you are ready.
2007-09-16 20:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by whippitch 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes courage and self dignity not to be swayed by money or peer pressure. If you know in your heart that you are not ready to have a girlfriend then YOU DO NOT HAVE TO. Having a bet is condoning yourself to gambling and taking risks. I'm sure your parents and aunt were fully aware of this circumstance. Benefit of the doubt either they are discouraging you to have a girlfriend now or they preparing you to experience the opposite sex. Either way I am sure their intentions were good. But will this be all worth the money? Peer pressure is when your classmates force you to do something against your free will...so WHY LET THEM??? Tell them to laugh and tease you as much as they want, BUT their bullying has to stop. You have to earn their respect by putting your foot down and not let them win.
I admire you for your courage and your respect for "girls"....don't let anyone change the kind of person you are. No one can tell you when is the right time to have a girlfriend - when the right girl comes - you will know (in your heart) that you are ready and the time is right!
2007-09-24 08:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by addicted too 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many problems.
The only thing you have to do in life is pay the consequences for what you decide to do and die.
So make your choice and deal with it
If you don't have a girlfriend then you get made fun of for christ sake you are only 12? You don't need a girlfriend.
If you get a girlfriend you lose money? What scared you won't make the rent?
2007-09-24 19:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by Crazy Train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u probaly wont get the money but if u get a girl u will be a man slut if ur under 16 so when people b mean just say '' i dont have a gf cause im not a whore like u
ps sorry 4 the language
2007-09-23 00:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you haven't learnt the rules about dating. If you like a girl, you ask her out, if there aren't any girls that you like at school, then don't ask any of them.
Your friend is being a jerk, and if you start going out with a girl you don't like just to save face, then you're being an even bigger jerk
2007-09-17 06:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by JoesyGirl22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if ur not interested in any girls right now then go for the money & as far as ur friend dont listen 2 him he'll still be ur friend, tell him about ur bet he'll understand & if he doesn't he is a idiot lol.
money money money mr. krabs ROCKS!!!!
2007-09-24 15:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would get away and be myself if that is what you want to do. don't let them push you because of peer pressure. you do what you want period. i mean hey its your life not theirs. you go at your pace and if its no girls then do it now. take care.
2007-09-23 21:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them your studying 4 priesthood.
2007-09-23 07:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋