Other - Family & Relationships - 8 September 2007

Please share your answers with me to enlighten me on this subject about when making Friends, bfs, gfs; does anyone else tend to "form" a pattern of making friends with certain people who end up being NOT-so-good influences on us, where they "let us down" where we get hurt in some way, AND we continue to meet those of this nature?
How would you "go about" breaking this "mold" ???? How would you change this situation within yourself?

Thanks for any answers. honest ones!

2007-09-08 08:16:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-08 08:02:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, i need help. Here is a short version. ABout 6 yrs ago i was going out with my first bf, i loved him to death, and 1 yr into the relationship he got arrested and sentenced for 5 yrs (when he was out he use to disappear once in a while) anyways while the time he was in jail we use to talk, i use to go and see him. 2 yrs 1/2 into his sentence i met a guy, and we started dating. i did so, to keep me company, but i fell in love and after the years we got engaged, (we have been engaged for 2 yrs, and also living with him) i have been with my fiancee for 4yrs. and all of those yrs i have thought about my previous boyfriend, and i did everything in my hand to forget about him, but always thought about him. 2 months ago he finally called me, (he is out now) i went to see him, we had sex, he knew i had a couple, and he does too, and we did it anyways. b4 i went to see him which was about 2 weeks, he use to call me everyday, now after that, doesnt call not once. he is hiding? what to do?

2007-09-08 08:02:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-08 07:28:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with my girlfriend last night. It is a long story, but basically she told me after being together for about 4 months , and after we just got intimate, she tells me she had had sex with over 50 guys before me. I can't live with that. I kept a low profile for about two weeks, then felt like the manly thing to do is to just break it off...let her find someone more open to that, and I could find someone more compatible with me.
She was the first girl I ever loved ( I am 26)..and she says I was her first love. She told me this info on her own...I would never ask it. Knowing she was promiscuous changed my feelings..it made me fall our of love.I see no future with hernow.
In the last 20 hours or so, she keeps leaving messages on my phone, saying she is going to hurt herself, and a bunch of crazy things. I am staying at a bud's house, because she won't leave me alone. I am worried she might hurt herself..should I call the police/other?

2007-09-08 07:24:54 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father is starting to annoying too much now, he is one of those motherish father. He says anything that is so annoying I'd pull my hair off and he won't stop but I am not the kind of a person that wants to stop him.
I've heard about the teenage mind changing thing maybe it's that. That starts me to ignore him and give him faces but wow he is unbelievably annoying and not just that he is retarded. And when i say something he have to follow up my sentence with something "useless". Also when i try to reason with something, he always try to talk back some thing that is nothing related to the topic or talk senselessly to the topic, i do not want to hurt his feelings but just too hard to deal with him.
Do you think i have mental illness of some sort or is that just my life with him? He is not a bad guy or at all, he is too nice to argue with but he does not understand anything i say and he talks back senselessly. please show a way to out talk him to not being "STUPID"

2007-09-08 07:20:23 · 2 answers · asked by FagBag :( 3

she wants everything her way and now we have to go somewhere where i do not want to go and she is going to make me lose it i love and she has alot on her but she is going crazy

2007-09-08 07:11:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

its about pouring ur heart out on a piece of paper right?
that involves hatred 4 the ppl around u. cuz that happens.

but arent u affraid that ull die one day and then ur family will read it and then get hurt by what u write about them. cuz if i write a journal then its gonna be filled with alot of tears and broken hearts because of others. and think about it if your sister/daughter dies and u are reminded of all the horrible things u did to them wont u spend days regreting it?

i just dont want anyone to read my journal after/before i die.
i want to keep my secrets, secrets 4 ever.

2007-09-08 07:06:58 · 21 answers · asked by Ewnet 3

So I know this girl who lives far away from me. She's a nice girl. We get along very well. I enjoy being around her and feel attracted to her. We haven't spent more than about a week together at one time, but we've known each other for several years. I kind of feel like if we ended up having strong feelings for each other, it would be very difficult for us to take the relationship to another level, simply because of distance and cultural differences. We also have somewhat different personalities. I'm the type that is very curious about a lot of things. She's less so. She's the type that just kind of goes through life on auto-pilot.

Do you think I should continue getting to know her and possibly have a relationship with her? Or should I stop now before something bad happens?

2007-09-08 06:47:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi.. i havent seen or heard from my ex boyfriend in 2 months...last night i went to some lounge by me with my friend and i saw my ex kissing some girl...im not going to lie, even though i moved on, it did bother me a bit...after he hooked up with her he was by the bar by himself so i went up to him and said hi and we started talking...after that i saw some guy who i knew and we started talking (thats all, i didnt hook up with him or anything)...i saw my ex staring at us that he even came up to me while i was talking to the other guy...after that i walked out with my friend and that guy and his friend and i kno my ex saw it bc he tried getting my attention..then he calls me and leaves a message on my voicemail saying "i want you" but ur with another guy".. i get a call from him the next day apologizing to me if he said anything bad the night before cause he was drunk. then he asked me how i been? and what ive been up to? i mean seriously what does he want from me??

2007-09-08 06:37:37 · 1 answers · asked by georgia f 1

In life we meet several peoples ,, and slowly we start trusting on few of them all though they are unknown to us ,, why is it so...?? ,,

2007-09-08 06:35:34 · 1 answers · asked by bond_007 1

r the children getting away from their parents........

2007-09-08 06:02:17 · 4 answers · asked by K.J. 2

we been grounding her and everything. right now, what pisses me off is its still the same things she does that i told her to stop doing with regards to putting clothes away coz she just leave it everywhere. you can find her undies at the guest bathroom on the floor. leaves the bathroom floor wet that i had to get down on my knees to wipe the water dry after she showers. she never do dishes even if we told her to do so.im 5 weeks pregnant now and i need help.im having a hard time with my pregnancy and i have a 19 month old baby.i all stressed out she doesnt listen to me.when i tell her my husband it seems like im the bad person coz for him she is a good daughter. i would be very much happy if she goes back to her mom.i am really exhausted i do all the chores even if i feel like im dying.i might lose my baby because of this.better yet if i cant take it i will leave them and bring my baby with me.

2007-09-08 05:13:01 · 6 answers · asked by tricia_c07 1

Okay there's this guy and i don't get to see him often =-[ because of his mom practically she won't let me talk to him or anything...well you see everytime i walk by him (when i do get to see him) he smiles and acts shy and laughs when i do something maybe that's funny or something he talks to me but not a whole lot i think maybe because he don't wanna make a fool out of himself or something he has played music for me off his mom's cell when i showed him my hula dance lol um he gave me a hug when i asked for one and he was all like Yeah!!! with a huge smile on his face...and i just don't think he can show me his feelings because his mom is in the way of things basically....see i asked him out before and he said yes but since we just met then he said he wanted to get to know me better and be friends.....=-) well later down the road i didn't get to see him or anything....=-( it was very depressing for me because i really like him like no other! and i just am not sure if he likes me or not he acts like he does my friend even said it seems to be he likes me but i'm wanting to know what you all have to say and think or something....there's more that he does when i'm around but i guess this is all for now... oh and he has told me where he lives (becuz he moved but actually he moved a block over from his old house lol) and stuff like that. Sorry if this isn't enough info. i'm trying to think =-)

2007-09-08 05:08:18 · 2 answers · asked by Skittles 1

i know this has nothing to do with singles and dating but how can i add someone as a fan? i dunno. someone please explain this?

2007-09-08 04:37:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex boyfriends new girlfriend broke us up by using witchcraft and threatened my life and our son's life, how can i stop her and get him back? or are we even suppose to be together how will i know

2007-09-08 03:50:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, theres a guy i like////love but i dont wana admit it, who (just my luck doesnt love me nor does he live in the same country he doesnt say he doesnt like me or nothing its just hes not exactly invitin me to live with him or atemting to tke my pants off, its like i will never have him but it hurts so bad cause i love him what did any of use do in this situation

2007-09-08 03:46:03 · 7 answers · asked by memememememe 2

I was at like at a church camp or somewhere and we were jogging to some where, the we is a big group of people and me and matt we were just jogging when this older man comes running up and passed us, he was laughing at us so i started running faster then the guy grabbed my wrist and yanked causing me to fall and apparently i got knocked out but before i fell all the way i saw matt chasing after the guy. Some how i ended up on the steps of this building and there was a crowd. Matt said there was another guy also then someone opened up the barn door and came out holding a gun, there was another girl there to apparently they took her to. First the guy asked the other girl if she went to church she started bawling and was trying not to get shot by saying no. Then he asked me and i kinda yelled yes and said where i went. I was ready to be shot when the goes, see this is what faith is, being willing to die for what you believe in. and he let me go down.

2007-09-08 03:41:42 · 3 answers · asked by Renée 2

She is so mean..she yells at us in the store...she doesnt listen to us when we tell her stuff...shes all about this guy shes talkin to...she even gets mad when we walk into her room cuz she doesnt want us to see her conversations on yahoo and aol...then this random guy calls our house and she starts talkin to him and wants us to leave the room....why does she do this....she doesnt have to sneak around...my dad found somebody else...so if she found a guy why sneak around??

2007-09-08 03:33:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

LOL ...... LET US KEEP IT HONEST & KEEP IT CLEAN ...... LOL

2007-09-08 02:53:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it changing for the good or bad?how does it affect both of them? how should we handle it?is it in some way positive or just negative?

2007-09-08 02:39:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-08 02:24:52 · 5 answers · asked by basketballgirl 1

I am 26 almost 27, and i have been with my fiance' for 10 yrs, and we share 2 kids and I have just lost my desire to have sex anymore. I don't want any kind of sex, but the odd thing is I am still attracted to him! When we first met we had sex like 3-4 times a day, and now he thinks we should have it at least 3-4 times a week. I don't agree with this and it is ruining our relationship. I just don't want any sex, and that's how I feel! I don't consider myself selfish but rather concerned with if he can still love me and we never have sex anymore. We have been through a lot and have made it work this far, so I hope me not wanting sex any more won't affect our relationship, but it is headed that way! I am sad and I would like to try to get help, like I said, he is still very attractive to me, I just don't get turned on anymore! Please help...... anyone!

2007-09-08 01:07:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-08 00:52:43 · 9 answers · asked by sexy joker 6