we been grounding her and everything. right now, what pisses me off is its still the same things she does that i told her to stop doing with regards to putting clothes away coz she just leave it everywhere. you can find her undies at the guest bathroom on the floor. leaves the bathroom floor wet that i had to get down on my knees to wipe the water dry after she showers. she never do dishes even if we told her to do so.im 5 weeks pregnant now and i need help.im having a hard time with my pregnancy and i have a 19 month old baby.i all stressed out she doesnt listen to me.when i tell her my husband it seems like im the bad person coz for him she is a good daughter. i would be very much happy if she goes back to her mom.i am really exhausted i do all the chores even if i feel like im dying.i might lose my baby because of this.better yet if i cant take it i will leave them and bring my baby with me.
2007-09-08 05:13:01 · 6 answers · asked by tricia_c07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If i was u i would beat her *** but i know that wont help. Shes probably doing this to get her way so you can leave. I think all that mess that she does just leave it and make your husband clean it when he gets home. Then maybe he'll understand how you really feel and put that brat to work.
2007-09-08 05:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT'S JUST WHAT U DO! Girlfriend, Girlfriend, Girlfriend. Let me be the barrier of good news honey child you BABY and your HEALTH is far more important than some stepdaughter and wimp *** husband that can't make HIS daughter mind you or him for that matter. He needs to step up and tell her little nasty self to do her chores around the house or go back home for that matter If he truly loves you and that baby and see's from your point of view that she is working you too hard with his sorry self not helping you either cause if he helped, he would see how hard it is to handle a toddler, pregnant, doing house chores, and cooking, then cleaning up after his nasty little piss ant. If he did all that he would have no problem in sending her little tail home, Its obvious that her mom didn't want her either that's why she sent her daughter to you guys so she didn't have to put with her butt again. If I were you, I would send her back where she came from and the husband too if he didn't see the light soon.
2007-09-08 12:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by Stricking Distance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a grip. That young lady didn't ask for a step-mom, but she got one. Leave her bathroom and her room filthy and let her live in it. You take care of your baby and yourself. You said that you do all of the chores even if you feel like you are dying. That is dumb. Why would you want to lose your baby over chores and a step daughter with problems. You talk like you have more problems than the teenage step daughter. Your hormones are running crazy and if your step daughter was a perfect helper you would still be a mess. Take care of yourself and your baby and let your husband deal with her and don't say another word to either of them. This is for your own sake and not theirs.
2007-09-08 12:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey be nice to her....... she most likely does not like you and feels that she does not have to listen to you... you are not her mom you are a women who her father married. sit down with her tell her because of your condition she must help you out. you are not going to lose your baby just because you have to pick up her underwear and why was it in the guest bath room she is not a guest she is her father daughter........... talk to her nicely .......... if you leave over those reasons you deserve to be alone.
2007-09-08 12:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by candies girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see im 17 yrs old and it seems like to me she is only doing that because your her step mom. She probly thinks that your going to take away her dad. She is only doing that to get on your nerves so you can leave.
2007-09-08 13:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to put your foot down, either she carries her load like the other family members,or she has to find a place to live,and you have to stand your ground! i had to do it myself a couple times, it break your heart, but it got the point across and things are much better.
2007-09-08 12:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋