Other - Family & Relationships - 27 July 2007

do you have faith in yourself,and sometimes fell in a deep hole for your over courage? or sometimes u feel that you are uncapable of acheiving your aims

2007-07-27 07:19:00 · 12 answers · asked by A's 4

My husband and I love each other very much, and have a good relationship. Our daughter is married, so we have no distractions at home. We are both healthy and active, and both have full-time jobs. The problem is, I have no desire for sex. It has nothing to do with my love and affection for my husband. I don't have ANY desire at all. Period. I know my husband does, but he is very good about not pushing me to have sex. He never asks why, and I know he doesn't cheat on me, because we are together except when he is at work. It never used to be this way. I always loved sex and the intimacy with my man, and never had any problems with reaching orgasm. I think it all started with the birth of our daughter at age 34 and just got steadily worse over the years.

I really hate to feel this way. But I can't seem to help it no matter what I do. I went thru menopause about 5 years ago, but I know that has nothing to do with my problem.

Can I fix this, and how???

2007-07-27 07:14:33 · 25 answers · asked by Barbi T 3

I want everyone reading this question to do/say something nice to the next person you see. Let's make someones day! They might do the same for you :-)

2007-07-27 06:38:18 · 23 answers · asked by Joe 6

2007-07-27 06:19:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you are sick of being abused by friends and family and people dating you because they feel sorry for you when you aren't even desperate for love and affection and attention(you don't even look for any of that because you know you won't get any of that)...would you:

isolate yourself? And be surrounded by pets?

Or would you find a way to change yourself so you won't be abused?

Or other? If other explain.

2007-07-27 06:03:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love this wonderfull man named Todd. we plan on getting married, the only problem is Todd cant have children, and i really wanna be a mom and he wants to be a dad, but we dont want to adopt. do you have any advise for us.

2007-07-27 05:55:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

his turn to rub my feet
John left at 11:30, and he's been rubbing my back since 9:30
Whassup wid these lazy men?
I need a toe job at noon

2007-07-27 05:52:24 · 16 answers · asked by tinabadina 3

WELL MY BABY'S DADDY IS BACK IN TOWN AND WE WERE COOL AT FIRST, THEN WE HAD ANOTHER BIG ARGUMENT. SO I TOLD HIM I DON'T WANT TO DO IT AGAIN. (I MEAN TRY TO WORK IT OUT), ANYMORE WITH HIM. NOW HE IS COMING AROUND TO SEE THE BABY AND I MISS HIM BEING ALL OVER ME AND TOUCHING ME SO. SHOULD I TELL HIM THAT OR SHOULD I MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE. CAUSE I KNOW HE IS MESSING WITH SOMEBODY ELES AND I CAN'T TAKE THAT, IT HURTS ME WITHIN AND MAKES ME SICK. BUT I DON'T WANT TO BE ALL PSYCO YOU KNOW. WHAT SHOULD I DO??????

2007-07-27 05:52:19 · 8 answers · asked by antoinemommie 1

IN LOVE not obsess or just like that person.
I mean really in love with that person, loose sleep, thinking about the whole day non stop. If you don't understand than look up "in love"

2007-07-27 05:38:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-27 05:32:41 · 1 answers · asked by Noot 2

2007-07-27 04:42:01 · 22 answers · asked by sweet_pie 1

He is my ex from 6 yrs ago that lives upstate NY he was a very successful man when I was dating him. This man has his own business was so sure of himself which made me fall in love with him. To make a long story short he was having money issues and set me to SC to be with my family until he got things straight. Well he called me everyday when I was there but then the calls turn into week and then months...to find out he was dating someone else and got married. Now this man is divorce and was only married for 1 1/2 and he stated to me it was the biggest mistake. I'm trying to find forgiveness in my heart. I'm not living in Boston and we are 6 hrs away from each other. I haven't seen him yet and he now lost his business but he is working for another company which is from 6 to8. He tells me its hard from him to make time to call me. He does call me...but I express to him if he cared about me he will be calling in the morning when he gets up at lunch and night. Please be honest

2007-07-27 04:32:21 · 12 answers · asked by HersheyKisses 1

2007-07-27 04:23:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-27 04:21:17 · 1 answers · asked by Matthew 2

We've been together for like a year and 3 months. I can say that I really love him but now im not quite too sure anymore. The past few days as I think of breaking up with him, I feel so sad and depressed. And now that I've made a decision and that's to break up with him, I feel so good and happy inside. It seems that I'm not as bothered as I was before.

2007-07-27 04:14:35 · 11 answers · asked by faiwee queen 2

2007-07-27 04:06:38 · 1 answers · asked by eltsacreehs 2

sleep with a women even if he was not attracted to her?just to get a s**g?

2007-07-27 04:00:44 · 2 answers · asked by kate robo 2

and why are all Mexican men named "Jose" or "Juan"??
and why do all chinese people have a first name that is only 3 letters long?

2007-07-27 03:59:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Broke :<

2007-07-27 03:17:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately it seems that no matter what I do the people arround me have no faith in me whatsoever.
If I say I plan to go to uni they laugh and tell me there's no way I'll end up going. If I say I want to travel they are exactly the same. It doesn't matter what it is I'm always being told that I'll never do anything by the people who are supposed to be encouraging me (my mother, boyfriend etc...)
It really gets me down.
I argue back and tell them they're jealous and that unlike them I'm not spending the rest of my live in the place I live now(and have lived my whole life) but it's still so frustrating.
I know I can do all the things I want to and I will wether or not I have their support but it would be nice to have that encouragement even if they don't think I'll follow through on any of my plans.
I'm just sick of trying to fight to prove them wrong all the time; most parents and partners wouldn't act like this.

2007-07-27 03:10:41 · 22 answers · asked by Rainbow-Taster 2

the woman or the man?

2007-07-27 03:08:14 · 12 answers · asked by Peace and Love 4

I am 30 yreas old and I am "falling" for a female that is 20 yrs old. I have told her that we should only be friends, because I am REALLY TOO old for her. She said that she likes older men. When I am with her, it feels right, but when I think of her age I almost feel like I am robbing the craddle.

Question for you:

1. Do you think that the age difference it to vast?
2. Do you think that we should just stay friends because of this?

Your honest opinions are welcomed!

2007-07-27 02:58:48 · 14 answers · asked by Andre L 1

2007-07-27 02:52:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i feel so lonely and depressed all the bad memories keep cuming in my head from my childhood.as i had a bad childhood aswel my mum was very abusive. ans still is .plz help.thanks

2007-07-27 01:16:41 · 22 answers · asked by silky1978 2

ok...this is both embarassing and frustrating.
We live in a very small town. A few months ago, a black man moved into the house next to us. Over the course of a month or so, we would talk ..just the usual "neighbor" stuff.
I found out his name is Terrance, he is recently divorced, and he works a 3rd shift in a town near us.
The more we talked, the more I became attracted to him.
I hate myself for that!
I find myself peeking out my window now - just hoping he is in his yard working (with his shirt off!)
I fantasize about this man every day -
I have never been with a black guy, so I am sure thats part of my obsession. I also think about the "myth" and black men.
I am happlily married - but cant stop wanting him.
We are alone in my house sometimes, and I get so flustered talking to him.....i can barely form words! lol
I've even started looking at interracial sites online - and that is so unlike me.
WHAT is my problem??
Why am i so drawn to this one guy?

2007-07-27 00:56:42 · 22 answers · asked by Kathleen M 1