Other - Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

Men are hard to come by. Really I want to know what you think a man is. Also for you men out there what makes you a real man. Thanks

2007-03-28 12:04:31 · 4 answers · asked by Ashanti W 2

It is sometimes said that when a child is born the woman carried the mans child?
but it is also said that the man gave the woman a baby which she desired?

when a child is born whos is it???

the mans or womans???

2007-03-28 11:57:53 · 7 answers · asked by Music fan 4

My ex gf of 4 years wants to get back together but I don't think I'm ready for a serious relationship again. We broke up a few months ago and I think I'm too afraid of the commitment. She's telling me that she is having a terrible time dealing with this and wants to get back together or move on because me being in her life but not as her bf is too hard for her. I love her to death and want her to be happy but I don't think I can be there for her right now like I used to. Do I suck it up and start the relationship back up or do I stick with my gut and let her move on. I really don't know what to do, I don't want to lose her but I don't want to see her in pain like this. I need help, fast...

2007-03-28 11:52:11 · 4 answers · asked by maximabullet 2

i know someone who's husband is a transvestite but also swears to be a devout christian. he acts godly but really isnt. he sneaks around the web and looks at tranny porn but at the same time tries to make everyone think hes the perfect husband and father. he treats his spouse and kids badly but never wants to take the blame. how do you tell his that you are on to him and hes a lying ***?

2007-03-28 11:49:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My long distance boyfriend of 2 yrs and I broke up this Saturday. It was a hard breakup, but it was clean. I was okay about it, and I thought he was too.

The problem is that he deals with his emotions with alcohol. Saturday night he drank and when he "woke" up, he had a concussion, fractured jaw, and something wrong with his rib. He says he was beat up or mugged and blacked out, doesnt remember anything.

He called me and told me all this on Sunday. He refused to get checked out because "I'm fine, baby."

It is now Wednesday and I have talked to him on the phone for about 30 seconds, and he was so vague about how he was doing, (I am worried, of course.) and didnt even say goodbye when he hung up.

I think this is ridiculous. He is being completely inconsiderate of my feelings not letting me know if he is feeling better or getting checked out.

My question is: What should I do? Am I overreacting? Should I call and try to get straight answers?? Should I just leave him be?

2007-03-28 11:48:26 · 22 answers · asked by love anyway 3

I have this credit card and I missed a payment.One week after it was dew I received this call from who ever they get to make the calls to people who are late paying their bill. Anyway she called me at least 5 times a day.I payed the bill by phone and the next day she called me again I told her I payed the bill and she started throwing all these question at me I got so mad and said look I told you I payed the bill it's up to you to check in once in awhile and hung up on her.I called my credit card co. and told them to please call this woman and tell her I payed my bill and to stop calling me.Well I'm late again. This woman has been calling me and calling me she won't stop and to make it even worse then before she only lets the phone ring twice and she hangs up as soon as the second ring stops . She has never left me a message what I want to no is it legal what she is doing and can I have something done about it. She is calling so much I have turned my phone off.
PLEASE DON'T BE MEAN !

2007-03-28 11:45:28 · 5 answers · asked by Teenie 7

Three weeks ago I signed a long term contract with a very popular designer that is going to use me and 2 other models in all there magazine ads. I met the two other models last week that I'll be working with & we hit it off really good. I went out with 1 of the girls last night for dinner & she told me that she has an eating disorder & has had one for years. She also told me that she is only 17 years old but her manager told her to tell everyone that she was 18 years old so she could model for this designer. Not only that but she dropped out of high school so she could model. She's not turning 18 years old for another 5 months. When I asked her what her parents thought about all this, she told me that they were the ones that helped her to leave school and that they know about her eating disorder but don't say anything about it. If I tell the designer label, I know they'll fire her. Should I keep this to myself? This girl has a lot to lose if they fire her but I'm really concerned 4 her.

2007-03-28 11:36:52 · 4 answers · asked by platinum_civic 2

I just recently found out my girlfriend could be pregnant. I also just found out she had sex with 2 other guys while we were going out. should I stay with her in case the baby is mine, or just say f**k it and leave her?

2007-03-28 11:32:06 · 5 answers · asked by kiatzu_shutendo 2

I would hate them both. Dump her and stop my friendship with him. What would be your reaction?

2007-03-28 11:27:12 · 15 answers · asked by Sami A 1

You have your sister in laws (husbands sister) email password, because she gave it to you ages ago to check for an important email when she didn't have access. You went in there at the time and found emails to her mum (who lives abroad) mouthing off about you something rotten. Making out like you're a bad mum (SERIOUS case of pot calling kettle black) and basically just being nasty. You let it go, because you wondered how you could bring it up, when you'd been wrong enough to snoop in the first place. You kept your distance when you could, but life went on. Now, you check the emails again, and you find an email to her mum again saying that your cat was killed and what a shame it was etc...and then you see the reply from her mum who says that you probably poisoned it knowing you. You love animals, you're a good mum, and these wicked women dislike you for no reason. You've never done them any harm. Your husband has little to do with his mum, because she favours his sister.

2007-03-28 11:26:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anon 4

My bf (23) and I (22) live together and whenever we have plans to do something, I have to sit around and wait up to an hour for him to finish playing games. Last night he said he'd help me fix the toilet since it has been broke for days, but after 15 mins I turned his comp off.

At this point, he looked like he was going to cry.. acted like he was going to punch me and then violently pushed me and threw stuff at me.

Was I completely wrong, or was he and isn't this a bit nuts?

2007-03-28 11:23:16 · 4 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2

I hate it when people who have a problem post a question and hope for helpful answers, and some dumbASS people post hurtful comments, like get a life!! Man nah!! If anybodi posts a hurtful comment then report them cuz all they doing is being stupid.

2007-03-28 11:23:13 · 1 answers · asked by AmberKitten 2

What can a woman do to make her man happy????

2007-03-28 11:18:18 · 4 answers · asked by grumpyme2003 2

when i was a little girl a man tried torape mine. he coud not recive what he want because in that day somewone entered in house. i didnt now what was happening so i trought that it wasnt important, so i didnt say it to a person. Now i am 14 and i realise what happend in that day. My mother and my father don't know nothing about this. IT'S A DELICATE PROBLEM!!!
SHOUD I SAY ABOUT THIS TO A PERSON???
PLEASE HELP MINE!!!!!!!
thanks

2007-03-28 11:17:35 · 6 answers · asked by Kitty 1

Where you think the week won't end? Also that you think like please get me out of work/school? I am feeling like that please be Saturday already! I really couldn't find a catorgory.

2007-03-28 11:13:01 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Allison♥ 6

There is this guy that I know, he's 20 years old, he has just come over from the middle east to England and we've become friends. But there is some things about him that I find a bit strange. I was using his laptop and from looking at his history, he's constantly on this 13 year old Disney Channel actresses website. He's on it all the time, especially on her gallery bit. He watches the Disney Channel a lot, the programs which are mainly for the younger kids. He's quite childish. Not in an immature way, but in the sense that he's a bit like a child. He collects action figures, he has them all over his windowsill. He is also a huge superman and batman fan, and he collects things about them, action figures, watches, stationary.... anything to do with them. He can't take a tiny bit of critisism, but he doesn't ever get angry, he just looks like he's close to crying. He's also never had sex before....Does this guy sound a bit strange to you, or is it just me reading too much into things?

2007-03-28 11:10:31 · 13 answers · asked by xXxStacixXx 1

Me and my boy friend go way back. We've grown up together and started dating at 13. I'm 20 years old now and we have been back together for 14 months. I'm 3.5 months pregnant with his child and my life, our relationship is falling apart as I speak. He had never been abusive towards me before..nor have I. But lately it's ridiculous. He has really been getting bad. The other day he hit me so hard that my ear rang for a half hour! He said he felt soo bad and felt bad as soon as he had done what he did. Last night we were fighting again and choke slamed me....a bunch of times. Called me every name in the book...which is nothing new and grabbed my face and bit my chin soooo freaking hard!! Everytime I try to leave him he just cases me down and begs me to make it work for our babys sake. Personally I dont want to bring my baby into a relationship like that. He dosent either, but both of us never seem to be able to let go. I'm confused and scared. I dont want to lose my baby. help

2007-03-28 11:09:44 · 9 answers · asked by abby h 1

This guy I like is about to break up with his girlfriend, should I comfort him when he dos, I feel bad because she waas cheating on him, but will that make it really obvious that I like him?

2007-03-28 11:09:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

well my cousin wants to throw away almost all of her emails because she has way to much. but she says that she is not going to delete the one that her friend-who lives in arizona-always emails her on and i told her that i would not email her anymore and so when i talk to her face to face we dont talk about it so should i just let it go or should i just talk to her about and see if she changes her mind?

2007-03-28 11:09:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Men or women?

2007-03-28 10:56:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just making you think. Would you date someone in this situation?

2007-03-28 10:55:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

the guy I am seeing for three months now watches porn regularly and doesn't seem to have the drive that I do. Guys, what do you think-Is he getting satisfied with that or is he just not that into me? ( I happen to have alot of self-confidence)

2007-03-28 10:55:11 · 1 answers · asked by Debbie 2

2007-03-28 10:54:23 · 4 answers · asked by Prolific 2

Michael seeking a female, and i am a male

2007-03-28 10:53:54 · 7 answers · asked by MIKE V 2

2007-03-28 10:52:23 · 16 answers · asked by Red&White 2

my mom abused me for my entire childhood. i always had bullies wherever i went because i was weak and couldn't defend myself. now that i'm older, i've put this mask on and never show who i really am because a part of me is afraid if i let my guard down, it will happen all over again. i never had any close relationships because i can't open up to people. i never got any chance to develop any self esteem or confidense. i'm so scared i will become like my dad (he was a victim too). he's weak and he never had any friends because he always felt inferior to everyone. he is withdrawn from even his family, we don't even know who he really is. it's as if we were just co-existing. i don't want to live like him for the rest of my life, although i feel i'm following his footsteps. how do you become normal and happy, like everyone else? how do you open up to people?

2007-03-28 10:28:09 · 4 answers · asked by mamuca 2

conversation? If I call you on the phone, guess what I might actually have had a reason for calling but after you talked AT me for 20 minutes I am so frustrated it dosen't even matter any more.

This happens with this person while we are physically together too and I have told him how annoying it is but he still does it. Is it that he thinks only his thoughts or opinions are worthy of being voiced? Sometimes I get so fed up with it I walk away and just say nevermind and then he acts like he is sorry and wants to know what I was going to say! But he keeps doing it to everyone so at least is is not just me.

He is also a notorious interrupter - In the middle of a sentence or statement there he is chiming in on something totally unrelated and random to the subject at hand.

I have talked to him about this several times but nothing changes. This is a serious issue to me because the relationship matters but I just can't see it as anything but rude and self-centered. Suggestions?

2007-03-28 10:26:15 · 1 answers · asked by jerzybuckeye 3

Prom night is soon, and i am begging my mom to let me get a ride home from a friend. We will be having a post-prom party at a friends house (whom she knows very well) and i hope to get a ride from another friend (who she also knows well) BUT she says no because 17 year olds arent allowed to drive after 12, and wants to pick me up. am i right to be mad at her for this, or is she in the right to not let me bend the rules?

2007-03-28 10:24:49 · 6 answers · asked by Vicky N 1

For those of you who heard about the guy who liked me in 2001 and moved on and blah blah blah. Well, i've found better ways to prhase myself. listen up:

I was shy. but he really really liked me. And I liked him. Even though 2001 was a lomg long time ago, he still looks mad at me. O r is he? I wanna say sorry, but it's hard to say sorry to someone, who is so mad, that they don't want to be near you. What's up with him.

PLEASE TAKE YOUR TIME ANSWERING I FEEL STUK, SO GIVE ME EVERYTHING YOU CAN THINK OF. thanks.

2007-03-28 10:22:47 · 2 answers · asked by hello there 2

Im a guy 18 and im friends with a girl shes 12 coz our familes,our parents are friends.but we are only friends nothing else.the real problem is im begining to like her and even love her.i like her and care for more than anything else.i havent told her anything and we keep our distance and are just friends.i like her and i want to try to get married to her when shes 18 or 20.i like her coz shes a good person.and i want to marry her so i can keep her happy and smiling and give her everything i can.its not lust or rape i just care for a person i like .i like her coz shes nice and caring so i care about her too.im hoping to marry her because i know if shes with me i know shes happy and getting a good life the way i hope.would it be ok to wait for this girl i care about and love and get married to her.i wil stay away and not tell until shes 18.but would it be ok for us..if she likes me too.is age difference a big deal even after shes 18.its only 6 or 7 yrs.people have 20 or more.so would be ok.ply try not to give negative answers.i really love and care for her.plz support me to and wish that girl i truely love.and that shes happy forever.
My love is based on caring for a nice girl and the hope to make and keep her smiling forever .its not based on sexual feeling.
Would it be ok to marry someone 6 yrs younger if you care for that person more than anything.i dönt mean now when she 18 or 20.

2007-03-28 10:20:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous