This guy I like is about to break up with his girlfriend, should I comfort him when he dos, I feel bad because she waas cheating on him, but will that make it really obvious that I like him?
2007-03-28 11:09:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well comfort him if you wanna give him a little sign that you like him. because that can be a really good thing :) and plus he will probably need the comforting so comfort away
2007-03-28 11:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by Lina x3 Pete Wentz is the sex! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know that she was cheating on him? If it will make you feel better to tell him then you should, but respect he might be feeling a little hurt and upset. He could probably use a good friend to talk to. If you like this guy, just give him simple hints at first that you really enjoy spending time with him. As things progress Just let him in on how you really feel. It's always better to keep things open and get things off your chest because you don't want to wonder "what if"
2007-03-28 18:12:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you definently should. Bring him some cookies or something, because afterall you are friends. This is totally your chance to let him know YOU'RE the one HE deserves. Be very patient when he talks to you, and try not to ask so many questions and make it a FBI case. Let the guy feel comfortable and only speak comfort words...also try to be empathetic. This way he can see that you may be totally worth falling in love with!
2007-03-28 18:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by j.adore♥pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont comfot him too much but just to show him that ur there for him and start the relationship from there because he prolly wont want to go out with anyone for a couple of weeks. But anyways comfort him the best that u can and maybe youll get what u want.
2007-03-28 18:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by benzer444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how close u r w/ him right now, if hes like ur friend, then definitly comfort him, itll just seem like ur being a good friend. If hes not really one of ur friends, then lay low for a couple days, then be like, "so i heard that u and sally broke up." then just keep talking about it like that. Make him feel like it wasnt him that wuz the problem.
2007-03-28 18:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by Blondi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think by comforting him, you are just trying to be a good friend. I mean, I would think that the guy would want to be comforted after his girlfriend did such a nasty thing to him.
2007-03-28 18:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by chexmix30203 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, go for it! All's fair in love and war. Plus, the guy needs you right now. Just be sure he's not on the rebound if you decide to get involved with him.
2007-03-28 18:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by Kathy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are his friend before, then no. if you all of a sudden start talking to him 24/7 then ya. talk to him, comfort him, find a common thing between you to chat about to help him cope. but be sure to steer clear of being a super close friend because then thats all he will think of you as. good luck!
2007-03-28 18:13:29 · answer #8 · answered by mmeghannn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u friends with the guy? if so then go for it friends comfort eachother all the time and he might get the idea that u like him it all depends on how u act and what u say i say try it and see what happens
2007-03-28 18:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by Princess LovAngel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ofcourse but give him time and go for it all is fare in love and war if is ex is going to be like that he might need a little time to get over the break up but he will be willing to be loved so it can be a great chance for you. hope this helps!!!
2007-03-28 18:15:34 · answer #10 · answered by babygurljam1995 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋