Other - Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

As I have mentioned before my ex-husband and I had decided to seperate due to being 2 different people. This was about a year and a half ago. Since the beginning of this year we have been spending a lot of time together and doing things as a family. We take our boys to the park, visit our families together, or go see family shows together (i.e. Disney on Ice)...he had stated before that we are two way different people and are not compatible.
If he wishes not to be together, why does he make plans for us as if we were together and a happy family? Does he maybe want to work things out? Or what? I dont know whether I should ask him or just keep going along with him....

please help me understand....

2007-02-05 05:16:32 · 8 answers · asked by Jacinda 2

Below are a few scenarios. Rate them from 1-10 ( 1 being the lowest form of love)

(1)-Miguel and Alma have been dating since the seventh grade. They never dated anyone else. After graduating they get married.
(2)-Dante us married, but attracted to a co-worker.They spend time together and have an affair.But dante doesnt divorce his wife.
(3.)-Anne(21) meets a professor(40) they get along very well. They spend lots of time together and end up getting engaged.
(4)-A woman meets another woman, citing "she is the woman of my dreams"
(5)-Jesus and Ana date for six years but break up because he cheated on her. Ana meets Jordan, six weeks later they get married.
(6)-While in college, Pete and Elvira date. After 8 months Elvira becomes pregnant accidentally. They marry. Because they think it would be best for the child to have a mother and father.
(7)- After meeting in a chatroom, Erin and duke meet. Instantly they feel an attraction, and erin invites him to spend the night.

2007-02-05 05:13:36 · 12 answers · asked by [Glitter*Sniffer] 1

I see my girls every other weekend, they are 13 and 5. My 5 year old is real attached to me and me as well. But I have been offered a Fed. Job. That will require me to more around 650 miles away. I have spoken to my X. She told me that she and her boyfriend are planning to move to my area in a few years. So I am confused in what I need to do...I don’t want to leave my girls behind, But I also don’t want to loose a opportunity of a life time.

2007-02-05 05:08:53 · 3 answers · asked by bob 2

I have a niece who is engaged to be married and has just found out that her fiance' is already married to another woman. He got married and stayed with this woman for less than 30 days. They never got the marriage anulled and he told my niece he was afraid to tell her because he loves her and doesn't want to lose her. She found out because her fiance's mother got a phone call from the long lost wife, and she called my niece and told her.

I have had these two over to my house before, and I know that they love each other. My niece's problem is that she now finds it hard to trust him. They were both in tears over this, but now she wants to call off the wedding. Anyone with serious advice I can give her.

2007-02-05 05:08:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 05:07:38 · 2 answers · asked by lilmiss 1

After my dad left my trust for everyone around me dropped to like zero, especially with my boyfriend. How can i learn to trust him again? We've had problems in the past with him lieing to me so that makes it even harder. How can i make myself get past all of that and trust him like i used to?

2007-02-05 05:04:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

And if so how often do you get to see them if at all?

2007-02-05 05:01:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i split these two people up with out them nowing that it is me that has split them up well helped a little how can i do this

2007-02-05 05:00:50 · 13 answers · asked by maxine p 1

I firmly believe that if a man were to ever hit me, that I would get out of the relationship fast...but what if the man hit me because I lost control and hit him first?

P.S. This is a hypothetical question!

2007-02-05 04:54:24 · 42 answers · asked by estephania2182 3

I don't want to have my franks and beans being messed with by a doctor.

2007-02-05 04:50:26 · 5 answers · asked by dank_vile 1

It started off as fun...chatting to a guy, and texting, we exchanged pics, he wanted to meet but I turned him down..he is 20 years younger than me, so why he is alone all the time I dont understand. Anyway, it has become boring now, he isnt interested in talking he just gets off on my voice.....so I deleted his number and ignore his texts. But on Saturday he text me, so i replied.....how I wish I hadn't.... I told him to leave me alone...he went mad.... asking if my husband knows i text other men...asking if my daughter does....he doesnt have my address or home number but i feel so threatened by him..He text yesterday I just deleted them.

2007-02-05 04:48:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had a dream that my bf was in the dominican republic, and he was having sex with another woman....he also told me in my dream that he had sex with this woman....what does that mean?

2007-02-05 04:43:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 04:43:45 · 1 answers · asked by Still Standing 4

I live with Mom--she's 60, works full-time, and owns our childhood home. She has many friends, but is single since divorcing Dad in 1983 and says she's content to stay that way. I live there with my 16-year-old daughter, and have been there since 1997 when hubby took off.

I asked Mom: what if Mr. Right shows up and we get our own house, etc? Her answer, in all seriousness, "I'm moving in with you, of course."

I know she's taken care of me all these years, and I DO appreciate it, but if I leave-and-cleave, I DON'T want Momma along for the ride. She is fully capable of caring for herself, and was before I moved in. She admits she just "doesn't want to be alone." When she WAS alone, she had a series of bad boyfriends, and was living with one guy for over 15 years before I moved back home.

I'm afraid if I DO move out, she'll have another bad relationship, just so she doesn't have to be ALONE. She won't admit she has a problem and get help for it, and she feels that I "owe it to her" after she took care of me for so long.

Is it my responsibility to take care of my mother EMOTIONALLY? I'm 37, and I don't want to wait until Mom's gone to start seeking my own happiness.

2007-02-05 04:42:10 · 8 answers · asked by SapphireLounge213 1

i don't think that i said 'no' to my parents enough.

i'm regretting that already but it's probably going to get worse as I get older!

aren't i a wonderful son?!

2007-02-05 04:29:51 · 21 answers · asked by Can I Be Your Pet? 6

I was wondering about relationship contracts, I was watching a show "Still Standing" and they drew up a contract to get their duaghter to do want they wanted. Then the husband drew up a contract for the marriage. do you think it will work? think its a good idea? Why or why not?

2007-02-05 04:27:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I are no longer, but I hate to admit I still have strong feelings for her. She's with someone else now, and not even a week ago, she tells me she misses me and loves me, wants to see me etc. We had a long-dist relationship, which of course didn't work out. I'm in the east coast for another 6 months, then I go back to west coast(where she's at). She knows this, but we still couldn't make it work, trust issues on both parts. I went to visit recently and even though she has someone else, when we saw eachother, one thing led to another. Two days ago she tells me she solely wants friendship, AND THAT'S IT! I know I should just say the hell with it, cuz this has happened before, yet when she saw me, SHE initiated contact first! Could this just be another mind game? Or could this be it?I figured,once a cheat always...and deep down I want us to get back together again one day. Am I just being a doormat, or second best?Why do ex's do that? Feel like they can come back any time?

2007-02-05 04:27:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is in Iraq right now, so his V-day present will be a little late because he comes home next month and we decided to do the V-day thing late. I have no idea what to get the man that has everything. I need some ideas, and nothing sexual either. I want to plan something nice for him.

2007-02-05 04:20:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

real neat experance's and as to how it worked or what to which way to work and accept it taking things slow at present but hoping as I have change my prevoius ways in dating thinking this is finally more succesfull!

2007-02-05 04:13:04 · 1 answers · asked by David H 3

Here is some background first. This is my first TRUE love and we have/were together for 4 and a half years. We have a 16 month old son. Now here is the problem... We have been going through some tough times and we decided to stop having sex until we get back on track emotionally. Well while we took this "break" he went to someone else to share his emotions and slept with her twice and had oral another time. Then told me that it's my fault cuz i wasn't there for him. (two and a half years ago i slept with someone while we were broken up...but we really were done at that time) And he says part of him doing this was to get back at me and that's another reason it's my fault. We broke up because of this...I mean who wouldn't...but i want to go back and work things out ...i know i can't do it right away..but what about a few months? I'm assuming you will all say i'm stupid for doing so but i guess i just need to hear it. It's so hard cuz we see eachother all the time because of our son..help

2007-02-05 04:03:29 · 34 answers · asked by Confused 2

2007-02-05 04:01:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 03:58:28 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I get my hubby for Valentines Day??? He doesn't NEED anything and he has most everything that he wants other than a few expensive things... I am only gonna be able to spend like 20 dollars this year, because of other reasons, And he does not like teddy bears, flowers, chocolate, jewelry, or mushy stuff like scrapbooks with pictures, or romantic dinners.. and he doesn't see any reason to spend any money or "stupid stuff" like Valentine's Day stuff... He is extremely hard to shop for.. (Usually I just get him a DVD because he collects them).. This year I want to do something different.. and his birthday is next month, so if anyone has any ideas for me on that, it would be great too!!!! Thanks!!!!

2007-02-05 03:57:07 · 14 answers · asked by Mommy of 2 5

I have been hearing so many things about the world LOVE but now i want to know the exact thing that is LOVE.
Please i need helps from all angel.

2007-02-05 03:53:06 · 4 answers · asked by chomy 1

This may sound strange, but I just got married and I dont like how my husband touches me sometimes, I was sexually abused as a child by my own father and I dont know if this has anything to do with it, also my mom didnt care for my boundaries too much and manipulated me all the time so I didnt learn to be very assertive, we had premarital sex a lot because I was so scared of telling him I didnt wanted to, I felt dirty and I felt stupid becasue I know is very irresponsible, he has repetedly told me that he didnt know I was so against it that he would have never forced me, most times I have sex with my husband without wanting to, but I dont let him know this, so Ive kinda developed some type of repulsion towards sex.
My husband wants to touch me sexually all the time, he gets frustrated because I am so scared of sex, he says that the urge kinda builds up on him and that he tries not to show much how he feels for respect to me, he has told me that he would never do anything I dont want.

2007-02-05 03:49:43 · 45 answers · asked by Alejandra 1

I have been dating my boyfriend for about three months...he is in the military and wants me to move in with him..I would have to give up my apartment and move about 40km away from my family which is not huge I know but still it is a change. He will be going overseas for three trips of 57 days each for the next year and a bit which I understand completely its his work. However when he gets back from the first trip over he will be going to soccer regionals in Ontario, his friends will be down to visit from across the country so he will be busy with them for a couple of weeks then he will be going to visit his family for two weeks in BC at some point as he gets a free trip....I may not be able to go to BC cause $$ I just feel like if I uproot my life for him it will blow up in my face cause he will be away so much that we will become different people. We are in love now and I understand that he wants to see his family and friends and has work commitments but I am nervous about change!

2007-02-05 03:48:31 · 12 answers · asked by valleygal 1

2007-02-05 03:45:58 · 31 answers · asked by fegnasse23 1

I want to make my ex realise what he's lost not because i necessarily want him back but because I want to feel better about myself too.

2007-02-05 03:45:22 · 9 answers · asked by katymillward@btinternet.com 1

I am looking for a sweet fresh smelling sexy girly fragrance not too over powering something that would really get my husband going

2007-02-05 03:42:53 · 39 answers · asked by Gossip81 4

2007-02-05 03:40:10 · 3 answers · asked by boobird 4