Other - Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

My boyfriend and I are having a lot of problems lately. His father has been diagnosed with cancer and is about to leave us and it seems like all his anger and frustration is thrown towards me. The problem is that's pretty much all the attention I get from him. He's not like he used to be and I don't know how to react. I just feel really left out and pushed to the side while others get all the affection from him. I know he loves me but I can't help feeling unimportant. What do I do? Should I be worried?

2006-12-29 14:38:55 · 8 answers · asked by heatherandbrian1826 1

I posted this question earlier in the Singles and Dating and I got even more confused...lol...but here's the deal...
My ex boyfriend and I still are casual aquaintances for about a year now. Last week for Christmas, he got me a gift as he says "just because we're still cool". He got me these little boxers boyshort and cami top to sleep in. He says that he thought they were a "cute gift" but I think the gift was something I might have gotten from him if he was STILL my boyfriend. BTW, I didn't think to get him anything if you're wondering. Anyways, was his gift a sign that he wants to hook up again?

2006-12-29 14:25:20 · 9 answers · asked by bunnychica1984 2

what are some things to do to keep my occupied when there's nothing to do and no license?

2006-12-29 14:09:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-29 14:05:23 · 4 answers · asked by Kyra G 1

my gf had a relation when she was 16 and it was her cousin. after 3 years she broke up when she knew that they were doing wrong. now she is 21 and we are in relationship for 6 months.she promised me that he is outta her life and they never talked after that.but last week, they started talking again as she says that now she thinks him as cousin only. but i dont like this guy becos i think he was trying to take advantage over her when she was immatured and i want her to keep him away from our life. we had a fight regarding this. and both of us are hurt and having some clouds between us. i would like to hear what you people say. i know that she is loving me only. but can't see him as her cousin, but her guileful ex. Is it my problem? i dont wanna lose her.

2006-12-29 13:57:06 · 9 answers · asked by idlewild 1

I'm 15 and don't feel prepared for sex, dont feel enough mature nor emotionally prepared. I'm more worried about my studies than about guys.

2006-12-29 13:50:08 · 12 answers · asked by Marta M 1

a friend of mine has just informed me that the guy one of my best mates had a major crush on is about to pop the question to his current girlfriend....my best mate realised about a month ago that shes in love with this guy still, even though he didnt want her....she'll be heartbroken when she finds out....how can i be a good mate and help her through this?

2006-12-29 13:49:47 · 6 answers · asked by belleoftheball 2

Just wanted to know can men be scared to have sex with women because they think she will get pregnant by them.

2006-12-29 13:42:57 · 1 answers · asked by Buckshot 1

it was first serious relationship for both of us. eg me in 20's him 30's known bachelor. we were good friends, kind of got together accidently i guess. things progressed fairly quickly, eg living together etc but i guess looking back now i wasnt ready for all that then. we eventually parted my doing, but he kept trying to get me back and at the time i didn't want to know. got involved briefly with someone else but when i did realised that i wanted to be with my ex. i couldnt be anywhere else. (we had been engaged)
we unofficially started seeing each other again, me going round his, but unknown to me, he was secretly dating a friends ex, and she even had a key to his place. this involvement with her happened not long after me! a friend first warned me about it but i wouldnt believe it. he had never lied to me before, and when confronted he said it wasnt true. eventu he drifted out of my life. just found out he married her 6yrs ag. still love him after 13yrs, and it affected my lif

2006-12-29 13:41:50 · 8 answers · asked by emzc 4

2006-12-29 13:41:19 · 16 answers · asked by fluxpattern® 5

What does love really mean to you? How would you describe it?

2006-12-29 13:35:51 · 10 answers · asked by Brittany H 1

All my boyfriend talks about is his car and it really, really bores me. How can I politely tell him that it is getting on my nerves???

2006-12-29 13:33:07 · 9 answers · asked by honey_kisses86 1

my husband made i comment that i dind'nt think was right he said that he should do what he wants when he wants for example when i come home im telling you where im going and im leaving now is it just me or is that very rude and not very conserderate

2006-12-29 13:13:37 · 38 answers · asked by cinerella19772 2

basically, i have this theory that once you break up with someone, they should just pack up and never be heard of again. No matter what relationship you are in, there are always comparisons to past relationships and we secretly decide who was better at what or who was worst, and i hate that idea.

i have been with my girlfriend for about 10 months, and her ex has done nothing but give me grief while my girlfriend lets it slide away because he is still her friend, despite his obvious feelings for her, she ignores them because she ' needs someone else to talk to besides me '.. he even text her the other day asking if he still had a chance with her.. my girlfriend just forgot about it as if nothing happened, and complained at me for trying to get them to stop talking..

ex's = sh*t ..
i've done evrything for this guy to get the f*cking message that it's tearing my relationship apart, and my girlfriend thinks that i'm nothing but jealous...

need help and opinions..

2006-12-29 13:04:55 · 15 answers · asked by 18/M/Scotland 3

so what you gonna do?

2006-12-29 13:04:52 · 10 answers · asked by lawrence 3

Before we were married I was at a party without him, he and I were dating but not married yet and I had a little too much to drink and I ended up having a threesome with two guys whom I never saw again. I never told him about it but I felt guilty, not so much for the threesome as for having held back the truth. Years later I finally decided to get it off my chest and just tell him the whole story. It felt great to finally tell him everything and at first he was okay and thanked me for being honest but now he is having trouble dealing. He says it is because he never did anything like that. It isn't my fault that he didn't and maybe he should have but it's too late now. We're married and too old for any of that experimentation stuff. What's his problem, how do I get him over it and did I somehow do something wrong by being honest and open with him?

2006-12-29 13:03:09 · 17 answers · asked by Barb S 3

Why is it that women can smell a shoe oder from what seems a mile away. I could have "somewhat" new shoes and instantly they are labeled stinky. I have had to leave my shoes outside in the cold dark stoop of the steps. Have you ever placed your warm foot in a 30 degree shoe? Wakes you up better than 2 pots of java.

I don't think they are oderly offensive, even used powders, sprays and washing but still stink shoe... Sigh

2006-12-29 12:45:04 · 5 answers · asked by Z 6

stealling, easily get mad,not
listening to his parents,lying,sleep very late at night
he separate himself from the crowed, he is always in the dark place. he will not look at you directly,ate very late and if he ate look like starving for how many days
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2006-12-29 12:38:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ca u guys give me some tips about dating. im a little bit shy. what does usually woman do?

2006-12-29 12:36:58 · 8 answers · asked by charie 1

She obviously favors my cousins T____T

she scorns me for the smallest things...she's so creepy when she points her fingers at me!!!!

2006-12-29 12:20:04 · 18 answers · asked by 2 days after my B day :) 2

Then after his friends left, he/she tried to play the sorry card and asked to have sex with you. Please help. I love him but I'm sick of his sh!#.

2006-12-29 12:18:56 · 13 answers · asked by Brittany B 2

my dad says I am a pig I guss I will cut my food to 1time a day or just quit eating altogether. If i even start talking a bout food he says that i eat to much

2006-12-29 12:15:20 · 9 answers · asked by hotcandysmacker 2

I am in great shape and am good looking. So is my wife, but she has the sex drive of a speed bump. I find myself looking around more than I used to. Any thoughts???

2006-12-29 12:10:01 · 10 answers · asked by P K 3

My boyfriend and our friend like to do things constantly and I told them I need a few days off. They ridicule me and call me anti-social. I tried to explain that I am not a people person but they don't listen. I don't want to make excuses because then they will think I don't like them.

2006-12-29 12:04:51 · 2 answers · asked by halfdrak 1

2006-12-29 12:04:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, Last question, my mom told me that having sex can mess me PMS, well i just wanted to know if this is true or not, im 14, and mine is really messed up, its not reguler....................
thanks LOTZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

2006-12-29 11:53:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-29 11:50:02 · 7 answers · asked by Megafunk 6

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2006-12-29 11:47:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

A man in my life quit smoking over three weeks ago. He is chewing nicotine gum, but has horrible headaches and he aches all over. He smoked a pack a day for almost 20 years and his mom smoked around him before that. Is it normal for him to still be de-toxing, after three weeks? Could it be the gum?

2006-12-29 11:46:53 · 4 answers · asked by jane 3

So theres this guy, that i dont want to say in love with, but i sure did care about him quite a bit.
and well after a few months of using me we broke up.
but he still hung around we would hang out, and even though in the back of my mind i knew he was using me i still cared about him and enjoyed hanging out.
well now my, no longer, best friend told me she'd rather have him than me in short.
im finally facing the fact i need him out of my life totally, which really hurts. but it needs to be done.

are there any tips of what to say *nicely* for him to stop im'ing me talking to me?

2006-12-29 11:46:27 · 8 answers · asked by Amber 1