I am in great shape and am good looking. So is my wife, but she has the sex drive of a speed bump. I find myself looking around more than I used to. Any thoughts???
2006-12-29 12:10:01 · 10 answers · asked by P K 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-12-29 13:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careful. It is said that women's sex drive increases with age while men's decrease and I am living proof. I just turned 40. A woman needs to be made love to from the time she wakes up until it is time to go to bed. Kiss her on the neck and while hugging her as you reach for your morning coffee. Insist on helping with dishes and swat her lightly with the dish towel. Massage her feet while watching the news or better yet, listen to some music with her. Take showers with her or give her a massage when she gets out. Don't jump her bones as soon as she gets in bed. Gently run your hands up and down her body and shower her with light kisses on her face and neck. You need to make that connection with her. Quickies get old after a couple of years. Hot sex is fine alot of the time but sometimes we need to be romanced. Good Luck You can also talk to her and ask her to tell and show you what she needs but do it outside of the bedroom in a non-threatening way.
2006-12-29 12:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being good to your wife. You have to work with her more. You have to keep in mind that men are like microwaves and women slow cookers. So, you just have to work with her. Have fun.
2006-12-29 12:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am taking this into consideration before I ever decide, if ever, to marry. You'll hve to tell her how you feel. I think it is no problem to "compromise" sometimes, and sorry to sound crass, but that means she should oblige to spread her legs more often.
2006-12-29 12:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure you should take her in and have her checked out. a stay in a nice country hospital for a few months or a couple of years should be enough she should be able to return home after that and preform her duties as needed and you two should have a marriage where both of you know your rolls and do your jobs.
2006-12-29 12:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are a lot of reasons for her lack of sex drive....is she premenopausal? If so this is a common side effect !
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2006-12-29 12:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by CommanderJim 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Remember your VOWS - honor your commitment.
Do not dishonor your wife or disgrace yourself.
2006-12-29 12:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is the other way around for me sucks sometimes but we love each other and we have fun
2006-12-29 12:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get remarried
2006-12-29 12:13:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spank it
2006-12-29 12:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by jimdale38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋