Other - Family & Relationships - 24 December 2006

I am suffering with post tramatic stress which turned into severe health anxiety after a few months struggling with getting better and trying to feel normal.I have been to two doctors that have said that other than depression im ok.I have been trying to be normal and do things everyday that I havent dont in awhile which is a real achivement for me.I had severe flu for three weeks and it was horrible .Im getting better and getting around.Yesterday my wife was called by family members and told of her father possibly being sick.She made all kinds of calls and got him into a hospital and personal doctor.We live a long way from where he lives so we couldnt be there.he is in no danger other than flu,but she worried so I consuled her as best I could.I have been with her 4 years and its been one thing after the other that I have been strong for her and been there for her.Now thatt I need her to be a little help for me ,she says what have you done for me lately .She forgot about the past 4 year

2006-12-24 16:27:26 · 6 answers · asked by LL B 2

Well this is a follow-up to my post from last night about me and my neighbors mother in-law fling last evening in me and my wifes house..actually it happened on our couch and the master bed..
WELL today after walking up I went thru my usual routine here at the house. I prepared for the Christmas party at my Neighbors house which was tonight. Me and my wife went to the party and I pretended like nothing had happened last night with "Helen". My wife finally met "Helen" and I was not a bit nervous..thanks to your postings last night to pretend nothing had happened! The party went well, we ate, socialized..and when my wife went to the restroom "Helen" noticed her chance to come over. She gave me a big hug and told me how awesome she was feeling from last night! I smiled with a grin :) and she leaned over and whispered in my ear that she was up for it again..I told her my wife was leaving for work tonight and that she could stop over. WELL she did..and yes you can imagine what happened...

2006-12-24 16:24:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its on the same subject about his dad reading the messages on myspace. I want to know how long we will have to wait to talk to each other. Because i love him

2006-12-24 16:16:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

What's the best new years resolution you've ever made?

2006-12-24 16:12:45 · 2 answers · asked by trenay0023 1

2006-12-24 16:05:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

she keeps on calling me and my friends sl uts and plastics. what do i do? they think they r so cool and they are only in the sixth grade. wat do i do?

2006-12-24 16:03:49 · 4 answers · asked by j♥ 1

Ok, theres this girl i really like. I am an indian christian guy. and she is an iranian (im not sure but i think muslim ) girl. I really like her. But the thing is i dont know if i am allowed. My religion/culture (mayalam) says that were are not allowed to date/marry someone of a different religion. My question is, is it weird or bad to like someone of a different religion if your religion says you cant. I honestly dont care about culture or relgion in this case. But my family will. PLZ HELP ME!!!

2006-12-24 15:54:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-24 15:46:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I was 14 I met this young man and found him so amazing yet my parents thought he was not good enough for me. He was to dark or to tall or didnt applied in his studies or maybe the sun was not shinny enough...I dont know. Still we allways looked for each other and made the best of it. We became high school sweethearts and we had plans to go to college and even married in the future. But it did not worked out that way. Still the thing is that after so many yrs I came across him and we had a great after noon. I think it was one of the best one ever. We made plans to meet again, he share with me his future and his plans to marry and we were happy. Yet, 6mo later he was dead by a drunk driver.

2006-12-24 15:33:50 · 6 answers · asked by ♥*~ღ~NYSunrise~ღ~*♥ 4

2006-12-24 15:32:33 · 9 answers · asked by Adam 2

2006-12-24 15:25:47 · 12 answers · asked by Reo 5

It seems that every one of us, male AND female, have this crazy tendency to be hopelessly attracted to people that are obviously bad for us; only to ignore and refuse the advances of people that would be make great choices for us.
I mean, I constantly run into girls that are only interested in men that are aloof and sometimes even abusive; only to look right past the "nice guys".
Whereas the guys always seem to be head over heels for the girls that couldn't care less about them, only to look right past the girls that would do anything for them.

What's up with that?

2006-12-24 15:18:51 · 9 answers · asked by negrito con sabor 4

i have a friend who is attracted to girls. I am in no way biased or homophobic of any sort ( i'm very comfortable with my sexuality).

I do, however, feel uncomfortable around her sometimes because she has hit on me in the past, which I have confronted her about, but it hasn't helped.

She has recently gotten out of a bad relationship, and i would like to be there for her, but I'm afraid she might get the wrong idea.

I know she still has feelings for me, so how can I help in her time of need without putting myself in an uncomfortable situation?

Thanx all! :)

2006-12-24 15:15:54 · 8 answers · asked by p00mkin 2

ok so i really like my boyfriend a lot and want it to last ....... and he always tells me that he likes me alot also ..... and i think he is actually surprised about how he feels about me and didnt expect it ..........

i am a virgin and he is not [he is 16 and i am almost 16]..... we havent been going out that long, and we have already gone pretty far ..... i am not very comfortable with REALLY doing stuff with guys and going all the way is a serious thing to me ...............

he has kinda been pushing a little bit into going really far.... i have been very hesitant but i like him so much and it is hard to say no to him.....

what should i do to keep my ground??

2006-12-24 15:08:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you really like a girl....and things are "heating up" between yall ...... and you REALLY wanna "go all the way" .... but then she gets outside her comfort zone and thinks that it is too soon and she is not ready...... would that make you like her less?
that sounds really low, but answer honestly... i dont know any of you anyways

2006-12-24 15:00:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i relly love him!!!!

2006-12-24 14:53:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

mine was when i used unicef money to buy pickle spears.

no........that was actually worth it.

it was probably when i plugged the toilet at my grandma's house on her birthday with a huge dump and then i made her plunge it.

2006-12-24 14:38:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-24 14:31:56 · 13 answers · asked by LiL iGGY 1

i've been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years now and ive decided to move closer to them for college. this is tearing me apart and its getting closer to the day i have to decide.

1) would you rather go to a good school that you absolutely love and rent a room in someones house nearby, do the long distance thing, (problem the school isnt in the best area in town)

2) or live with happily with your gf/bf and go to a school that would be your second choice and close by?

3) or drive an hour and a half everyday to the school you love and live with your gf/bf at the same time? (problems: gas expenses and time consuming)

2006-12-24 14:28:32 · 5 answers · asked by blob888 2

I was going out with a boy for a month and then broke up and then went out with him for another month. It has been a month since we broke up the second time. I bought everything he said like that he wouldn't hurt me again and that he thinks hes falling in love with me. Now my friend are getting pissed because I'm not over him. Any help?

2006-12-24 14:15:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

After 3 years, and much much thinking, I decided that it was best for me to end my relationship with my now "ex" boyfriend. I was no longer happy in the relationship and actually put off ending it to spare his feelings. I couldn't have made a better decision. Now, I am put on a guilt trip through my ex boyfriend, who says he is absolutly devestated, which kills me because I hate to hurt him. My mother constantly reminds me that she thinks I made a "bad decision." Although my friends supposidly "support" me, I am constantly being asked by them if I feel as though I made the right choice. I feel as though I am happier than ever being single, and I want to keep it that way for now. I hate having to scold my mother, friends, and ex for questioning my decision. Has anyone ever gone through the same thing? How do I "ward" off the negativity that I'm receiving from the people whom I need the most support from? Thanks!

2006-12-24 14:09:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parnets saw me kissing a boy ive been talking to for 1 year,and well now they think hes a bad guy now just because he did.Hes a wonderful guy and well now they dont want me to see him :(.. hes 19 im 16.:( he knows what i am going through my life and how my past has been especially the fact he knows now my parnets arent so great. hes in college and he has 2 years to go i dunno wut to do .. i really love him.

2006-12-24 14:06:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

If it helps i live in Seattle, and i am kind of tried of going to the movies.

2006-12-24 14:06:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-24 14:04:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fell out with him because my furnace went out and the kids and I were very cold he told me he would come over and fix it in about an hour he never showed up. I called my mom so she could ask him to come over like four hours later he told her that he got his own **** to take care of and he hung the phone up on her. Now first he never called me on my b-day and whenever i call him he never answers the phone so i got really mad and i thru a brick thru his window then I got a call from him I told him to go **** himself. He was moving that week any way and the landlord didnt give a **** but any way this was in October and I have left him messages and tried calling a number of times it is Christmas time and my kids want to see him what should I do?

2006-12-24 13:39:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my girlfriend had an amazing relationship before and all of a sudden she changed...my feelings for her havnt changed on bit but i feel like hers have because shes not the way she use to be.i know once your with someone for a while things kinda calm down but it seems like she has a little more than she should have.iv spent the last 2 months trying to find ways to make things the way they were cuz im very very unhappy that things are going the way they are.it seems like things are going back the way they were but then it just starts to fall apart again..and i feel like things arent ever gonna be like that ever again and that thought makes me really depressed...i dont wanna give up because iv never ever been that happy about anything in my entire life but i feel as if nothing is ever gonna change and i feel like i will never be happy with another person.

2006-12-24 13:29:26 · 3 answers · asked by lifeless 1

Hi, i am 24yo, have two toddlers, i am alone evryday with my kids and sometimes i feel down having the same hair style since high school,,,groan! i began to style my hair with an curling iron, i liked the outcome and began to style my hair now and then,,not everyday! cos it takes a good 30 mins to do it. my husband started to complain to me, said i was being selfish, that i dont need make up and i dont need to style my hair, cos i have kids and should concentrate my time playing with them, i know hes right but sometimes i want some time for me even if its just to make myself feel better and i think make up and hair styling is relaxing, makes me feel better i dont want bed hair all day long! so now i sometimes style my hair at weekends and i dont wear make up during the week either, but i am being a selfish mother for thinking about my appearance? must i look like tired worn out mother everyday?

2006-12-24 13:19:12 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2

Hi people ! Getting my gfrend this for her birthday soon : http://www.annsummers.com/single.asp?gid=7&cat=13&pid=4036 , the basque, thats fine - but for the love of god i cannot work out what the 'entice string' is below it - i can only assume is the string that attaches the basque to the stockings, but...can any knowledgable women / men enlighten me as to this one ! Thanks a bunch and merry xmas!

2006-12-24 12:41:46 · 7 answers · asked by Rajjo 1

I have known him for 6 months. Was to be married on July 2. Just found out he will be going to prison for 2 to 10 years. Charged with unlawful conduct with a minor of 14 that lived in town and picture trading with teens online but the age could not be found out. I just don't think it would be a good start to a new marrage. He don't want to wait until he gets out. I was told a bit about this when I met him and became his gf but he said it was not true. I love him and want to marry him but not like this. I just don't know what I should do. I do have two teen sons that like him and he is good to. What would you do and how would you talk to him about it? If I don't marry him he thinks I never loved him.

2006-12-24 12:23:53 · 21 answers · asked by Tammy W 1

In the New Year..? Old angszine

2006-12-24 12:18:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous