My parnets saw me kissing a boy ive been talking to for 1 year,and well now they think hes a bad guy now just because he did.Hes a wonderful guy and well now they dont want me to see him :(.. hes 19 im 16.:( he knows what i am going through my life and how my past has been especially the fact he knows now my parnets arent so great. hes in college and he has 2 years to go i dunno wut to do .. i really love him.
2006-12-24 14:06:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your parents may just be over protective. Have a sit down with them and let them know how you feel about this boy. Also let them know that you are a responisble young lady now and assure them that you woun't be doing anything stupid with him. If not, see him any way.
2006-12-24 14:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by phe_03 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can explain that it was only a kiss, and the boy is such a good guy that he's waiting until you finish school to have sex with you (Oh damn I'm dreaming again).
The only thing you can do is have the sex talk with your mother (no boy is ever good enough for a father), and if you really are still a virgin let her know. Keep your grades up, and introduce the boy to your parents the correct way. Let them really get to know him. They may still decide they don't like him, but it won't be because they caught him in the act of molesting their daughter.
2006-12-24 14:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl, emotion are not enough. Could your emotions feed you? Could your emotions secure your future? Look at all aspects and the blessing of parents is very important. The Lord blesses us through our parents. If your parents curses you, you will be forever cursed. But if you ask for apology and start all over again. I know your parents will understand and forgive you. They love you so much. You know, my dad just forgave me because I hide a relationship with my boyfriend. And he forgave me. I'm so grateful. Think about it. And i would like to say that the book "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" by Joshua Harris is a good book for realtionships. the title seems odd but its a great book. God Bless You!!! May I be your friend? I'll be glad to help.
2006-12-24 14:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mari 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing. You are old enough to kiss. He is being a respectable young man. He is in college, and looks to have a bright future. If anything they should be grateful you didn't bring home a dropped out of HS drug using bum.
2006-12-24 14:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you really define love?Maybe its a crush,but not love.I know teens are capable of feeling love for others,but people even adults don't really know what love is until an angel hits them with an arrow.Its just kissing,at least its not sex then your in big trouble.
2006-12-24 14:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by MaMu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he didnt "violate" u did he? as long as he isnt planning on it or u are...( or ur parent sfind out u r) then its ok....tell them how you fell and that they cant deicde everything for u. and the only way u can learn from ur decisions is that u take full responsibility for it...ur going to leanr sooner or later and if ur parents dont atleast ry to be fair with you and explain themselves as to why they feel like this then thats just going to push you farther away from them and closer to trouble
2006-12-24 14:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do, just be careful. if you are not sexually active with him let your parents know. If you are, all the more reason to be careful, because even though you wanted to have sex with him, your parents could still charge him with rape. do you want him to go to jail?? try talking to your parents and see what happens. most importantly, be honest with everyone involved.
2006-12-24 14:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by tatersma1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with this older guy! As for the kissing thing, they (your parents) will get used to it. They will always worry about you, that's just what we do!
2006-12-24 14:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 07:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by lesniewski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss the situation with your parents. Explain your point of view and LISTEN to theirs. . . a compromise can be reached.
2006-12-24 14:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋