Ok, theres this girl i really like. I am an indian christian guy. and she is an iranian (im not sure but i think muslim ) girl. I really like her. But the thing is i dont know if i am allowed. My religion/culture (mayalam) says that were are not allowed to date/marry someone of a different religion. My question is, is it weird or bad to like someone of a different religion if your religion says you cant. I honestly dont care about culture or relgion in this case. But my family will. PLZ HELP ME!!!
2006-12-24 15:54:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
.If you are really sure you love her and she loves you, you have to broke the laws. Let's see the example of Romeo and Juliet..Because of a stupid unfriendliness between their family, they suffered: the families were peaceful because they are died you don't have to wait for your death. . Real love is very rare nowadays, almost impossible. If you sure you are in love go head but don't be crazy.You have to think about every decision.Talk to your family ..if they don't get it and you believe you love this person and she really loves you. You should go on your own..
Love doesn't have a religion.
2006-12-24 16:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by kaloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you're going through; I date a man of a different race and it has been difficult getting people to accept our relationship; even our families.
There's nothing wrong with liking someone of a different religion. One thing that you need to think about (and this may not be an issue for a while) is that when you date a religiously devout person is which religion you are going to raise the children. If they will be attending services for both religions, how will you split it? Will they take turns going with one while the other spouse stays home or attends their own services, or will you attend services as a family?
Some people find it easier to stay within their race/social status/religion for just that reason. But, if children are a way off for you, there's no harm in giving it a go.
2006-12-24 15:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by tulsasfynestdyme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No It Is Not Bad To Like Someone Of A Different Religion! My Girlfriend Is Of A Different Religion And We Have Been Together For 3 Year's!
2006-12-24 15:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your family that it's what you choose and that you love her and that you will try to see if you can make it work by celebrating both cultures and that you won't let her culture change your faith. That's why most Christians appose it, and I think that's wrong. I am a Christian myself and I would date someone of a different religion, you just have to make it work. If it's too difficult for you then it wasn't meant to be, and if your parents are too blinded by their faith to see what you truly feel for this person, then tell them sayanara, because you love her. Tell them you love them but you love her too and if they cannot accept it then you will have to make a heart wrenching decision and you're not sure they'll like it. They should try to warm up to it, given that they aren't NAZIS.
2006-12-24 15:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by bumblebeemeggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. i'm indian too, but hindu. anyways. if i found a nice guy who would never leave me, i would marry him and religion never matters. actually religion doesn't tell u that who u should marry and who u shouldn't marry. it's the culture and society that tells u who u should marry and not marry. and i think ur parents might get over it if u end up marrying her, cuz they r indian parents, they don't get so mad at boys (just the girls). and if it's just dating, i don't think ur parents have to know that u r dating, and when u guys plan to get married, u don't have to worry about it right now, who knows how ur relationship will be. anyways, goodluck.
2006-12-24 16:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who is going to mary that girl? you or your family? and why do you care so much about what religion says? go on...marry your girl...after all you are the ones who will have to bear whatever consequences, not your family or anybody else.
2006-12-24 15:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by thelordparadox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its human nature to fall for somebody & im sure God undertands. however if she is a muslim (me also being one) then religion wise like you, its forbidden for her to unless you are willing to convert... remember you arent the first guy to be put in this situation, do what your heart tells you to do.. Good luck.
2006-12-24 15:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Dee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is alot on this site people ponder on this , I believe in god and don't care if anyone else worships (satin,nothing,animals,themselves,or what)If your a good person and she is a good person and you like each other go for it!
2006-12-24 15:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its perfectly fine to be with someone of different religion as long as you don't mind.
2006-12-24 15:57:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her then the religion doseent mater
2006-12-24 15:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋