if you really like a girl....and things are "heating up" between yall ...... and you REALLY wanna "go all the way" .... but then she gets outside her comfort zone and thinks that it is too soon and she is not ready...... would that make you like her less?
that sounds really low, but answer honestly... i dont know any of you anyways
2006-12-24 15:00:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A guy who dumps you because you don't want to have sex, doesn't care about you anyway. He's just looking for the free milk. Let him go and don't shed a tear. Wait for the right one. You are young and have a lot of time to deal with those things later.
Sue
2006-12-24 15:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer-well, yes! That's very frustrating for a guy. He'll feel like you are leading him on. If you are not ready, it's best to not give him any indication that you are even considering it. That way he won't be anticipating something that just ain't 'gonna happen.
To make him feel like he's getting close and then shut him down will make him think some really negative things about you.
That's an honest answer for 'ya.
Good question!
2006-12-24 23:07:50 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the level of understanding between the two
the girl should reply in negative but all the time she should not hurt his feelings
she should behave as if she is all his but need some time to be ready for the BIG thing
2006-12-24 23:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by shaikh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through that with a girl about 10 yrs ago and no I didnt love her less. I respected her feelings and we waited til she was ready and it was much better. I still think of her alot.
2006-12-24 23:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by Borg_MonkeyDrone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if she is up front from the start. What pis__s guys off is when they are led up to the moment, and then let down all at once. It is alright to be cautious about sex, but don't be a tease.
2006-12-24 23:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Road 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would actually make her a more mature and better woman if someone did that. If I were you i'd wait till the time is right, but don't wait to long.
2006-12-24 23:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold it in till marriage because just a couple of years of sexual tension will take a life time to release . It would make me love her more because tension will make want her more.
2006-12-25 00:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by James C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll get rather bothered , and mabe angry ..
unless she don't really like to do ..
but ( too soon ) !! it annoys !!!
2006-12-24 23:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by horras 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girly when you are ready you will be ready dont rush be sure
2006-12-24 23:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do anything you are not ready to do..for no body..
2006-12-24 23:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋