I fell out with him because my furnace went out and the kids and I were very cold he told me he would come over and fix it in about an hour he never showed up. I called my mom so she could ask him to come over like four hours later he told her that he got his own **** to take care of and he hung the phone up on her. Now first he never called me on my b-day and whenever i call him he never answers the phone so i got really mad and i thru a brick thru his window then I got a call from him I told him to go **** himself. He was moving that week any way and the landlord didnt give a **** but any way this was in October and I have left him messages and tried calling a number of times it is Christmas time and my kids want to see him what should I do?
2006-12-24 13:39:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Appologise for being stupid and tell him your kids really want to see him
2006-12-24 13:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by richard r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over your self. You are grown and have children, it is not your brothers job to take care of you. Why don't you try calling the guy who got you pregnant to fix your furnace (or your landlord if you rent). You seem to think your brother is responsible for you and your kids, he's not. So if you want your brother to start talking to you again, try growing up a little bit.
The brick through his window was very childish, (how old are you?), then you make excuses instead of paying for it and saying you was sorry. The landlord probably kept his security deposit.
2006-12-24 22:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW CAN I GET HIM TO TALK TO ME? WELL YOU CERTAINLY DON'T GET PEOPLE TO TALK WITH YOU BY THROWING BRICKS THROUGH THEIR WINDOWS. GOOD GAWD. WHAT DO YOU DO IF YOU WANT A GUY TO MAKE WHOOPEE WITH YOU, BEAT HIM WITH A CLUB? SHEESH. IF I WAS HIM, I WOULDN'T WANT TO TALK WITH YOU EITHER. FOR ONE I WOULD BE AFRAID OF YOU GETTING VIOLENT ON ME OR SOMETHING. DID YOU EVER THINK THAT MAYBE SOMETHING OF AN EMERGENCY NATURE CAME UP AT HIS HOME DURING THAT TIME AND THEN YOU START IN TELLING MOMMY. WHAT HAS YOUR MOM GOT TO DO WITH THIS? STICKING HER NOSE ITO OTHER PEOPLES BUSINESS.
I WOULD SUGGEST WAITING UNTIL A FAMILY GET TOGETHER AND THEN GET HIM OFF IN A CORNER AND KISS HIS BUTT. TELL HOW MUCH YOU MISS HIM AND HOW YOU ARE SORRY ABOUT THAT BRICK THING. BE SINCERE AND MEAN EVERY WORD YOU SAY. BUT, IF HE DOESN'T COME RUNNING THEN YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT THAT. HA MAY COME AROUND AGAIN SOME DAY BUT UNTIL THEN GET SOME ANGER MANAGEMENT TRAINING.
2006-12-24 22:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by BOOMBOOMBILLY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
got any more bricks? throw some over there with the kids. only way he wouldnt see em would be if he wasnt there. believe me, he'll come out. and never have someone your close to do work for you. im sure you learned your lesson
2006-12-24 21:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? You made that choice when you threw the brick. While everyone should be forgiving, that's not easy obviously in your family and you folks are on a bad downward spiral.
2006-12-24 21:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you could of called someone to fix it! It is not his responsibility to cater to you and your every need. You messed up the minute you picked up that brick. i wouldn't forgive you
2006-12-24 21:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep throwing bricks in all his windows and doors and soon he will have to talk to you because all you will have to do is go to the broken window and start talking and he cant do anything about it.
2006-12-24 21:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
offer him drugs
2006-12-24 21:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋