Other - Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

I recently found out that my married brother has been having a five year extra-marital affair and has fathered a 9 month old child.
My brother has not told his wife about this and he is not aware that I have heard about this either.
Like most men do he has taken the punk way out and has moved his family to another town in order to avoid everything.
As far as I know, no other family members know about this yet.
He also has twin children with his wife that are only a few months older than the other child. To make matters worse his wife is under the care of a psychiatrist.
I am so upset with my brother that I do not want to look at his face. I never really connected with him anyway. He has been calling me and I have not returned his calls.
Should I confront my brother or should I stay away from his house? I miss my sister-in-law and my nieces and I am worried about how this will affect them when the "ish hits the fan".

2006-11-14 03:15:17 · 2 answers · asked by anosey1 4

My girlfriend and I have been in a year and a half relationship off and on .we have both cheated on each other.we moved in together at first ,but didnt work out .( too fast for her daughter) she got her own apartment but couldnt make the rent payments so they locked her out and now she is living with me.she has a daughter and I have a one bedroom apartment. we looked at a two bedroom and we were happy and excited about moving in .all the sudden she has told me that she wants to move back in to her apartment. but still wanna be with me.she says she loves me but she really doesnt show it. I have caught her with another man just over her house. so I dont trust or understand why she wanna go back to her apartment. I love her with all my heart what should i do

2006-11-14 03:07:40 · 6 answers · asked by dswiss707 1

so I was just wondering what guys look 4 in a girl...?

2006-11-14 03:02:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He doesn't want aftershave, slippers, dressing gown, pyjamas, cd's, the usual stocking fillers, whats left to get?

2006-11-14 02:44:46 · 9 answers · asked by JULIE F 1

Here is a conclusion ive come up with. judging from the people ive run into who live in suburban communities with white picket fences and parents who make 250,000 dollars a year, ive come to notice that many of them glorify the life that ive lived and have seen and been a part of.
Im from Atlanta, have lived in a rough part of town, father is on drugs, have seen many of my friend die or go to prison, have seen their blood on the concrete pavement, have lived in an apartment where someone used to get shot everyday, went to an all black poor school, and used to almost go hungry when i was a kid because my mother couldnt afford to buy food sometimes.

This is kind of life that MTV, VH1, rap/pop magazines, teeny boppers, pop culture, and suburban kids seem to glorify nowadays. while they try to become a part of it, im trying to get out of it now by saving up money for college.

2006-11-14 02:38:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

we sit in colums and rows in my class and hes in my row but not colum when i put my head down on my desk he alway has his head there and he stares down the rows right to me! and if i need help with something hes always helping me we arent really freinds but does this mean he likes me??

2006-11-14 02:35:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-14 02:34:09 · 16 answers · asked by curt1f 1

so my x boyfriend borke up with me and i was tlking to him to see if he likes another girl and of course he said yes. and now he is telling me how shes better and hotter then me and everything. how can someone say that when we went so far in our relationship. i mean what is he trying to do to me?

2006-11-14 02:29:41 · 18 answers · asked by californiababe 1

what do i do now? do i follow my dream or just leave it as that..a dream?
it was about this guy i want.

2006-11-14 02:11:00 · 6 answers · asked by melz 2

I first met cousin when we were both "adults", he was 28 and i was 26. As wrong as it is, we fell inlove. We kissed and did almost everything but fortunately we didn't have sex. I knew it was wrong for us to do that so i called it quits before long.... Now i'm failing to accept his girlfriend, I'm jealous of their relationshp though i have a boyfriend of my own. what should i do

2006-11-14 01:59:55 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-14 01:46:13 · 40 answers · asked by ? 2

2006-11-14 01:43:47 · 8 answers · asked by jamie k 2

we two understand eachother n also a happy couple we have a amazing sex life and we enjoy it always ,the otherday we were having talks about sex and we were on topic threesome and couple sex..as we talk so much on it he askd if we give it a try once with someone faithful to us...it was a new idea for me as i wasnt think about it,,i want to know is that ok to do like that and what do u guys think about it pls help me in this..pls...

2006-11-14 01:21:18 · 28 answers · asked by zoozy 1

taking into account the circumstances under which we are going through?

2006-11-14 01:20:25 · 9 answers · asked by P@u P@u 3

Is it possible to find someone's UK address from their phone number - sort of like a retroactive search? I'd appreiciate any pointers to an appropriate web site.

2006-11-14 01:19:54 · 6 answers · asked by spear_1021 3

you cant control the way you feel about this person...life is so complicated!!

2006-11-14 01:13:41 · 56 answers · asked by Lydia K 4

I am looking for ways to annoy them, any suggestions

2006-11-14 01:06:43 · 5 answers · asked by Jim 1

I'm too shy in skool. Especially when someone talks to me. Plz help.

2006-11-14 00:37:42 · 17 answers · asked by xrainbow_muffinsx 2

What makes you step in and speak your mind is it when children are involved, domestic violence, politics, or what ?

2006-11-14 00:37:14 · 11 answers · asked by Chi-Girli 3

how can i know my boyfriend is lying to me as he keep on avoid me should go to talk wiz him or should i relook my style i mean hair dress and go for a dieting to lose some weigth to get him bak

2006-11-14 00:21:09 · 17 answers · asked by lovena 2