so my x boyfriend borke up with me and i was tlking to him to see if he likes another girl and of course he said yes. and now he is telling me how shes better and hotter then me and everything. how can someone say that when we went so far in our relationship. i mean what is he trying to do to me?
2006-11-14 02:29:41 · 18 answers · asked by californiababe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Aww! I'm sorry to hear about this...Sounds to me that he's trying to hurt your feelings and make you jealous. I would try avoiding him and moving on. I know it's hard for you to hear this, but don't let him manipulate your love life. Move on. He'll get what's coming to him...and it won't be nice, but remember you aren't the one who needs to worry about that. Good luck!
2006-11-14 02:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Rosalind55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a real scumbag to me. He is trying to bring you down by comparing you to someone else, thats real classy. Well let me put it to you like this, if you're not with this guy and she is then youre the one who is better off. This loser is now her problem and no longer yours so just cut your losses and realize that he's not worth your time nor the effort trying to figure out his intentions. You are single and no longer have him as your burden so think of your breaking up as not a door closing but rather a door opening for you to meet someone who I am sure is BETTER then this guy and who will also be a lil more mature and worth the effort that you make for him. Good luck and forget about this guy. All he wants to do is make you jealous, which is just something wrong with him and not you....
2006-11-14 02:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to leave him alone and move on. He's trying to make you jealous and make you feel bad, and you shouldnt let that bother you, because if it was all that about her, he wouldnt still b conversating with you. Move on honey I dont know you but I can tell that you are way better than that, and you deserve someone better and you will find you someone and you will not have to worry about that scum anymore. Its hard to let go of a love and then its even harder to know that they have moved on and you are still stuck on the past of what you two had. Save your self the pain and embarrassment and let it be. You have to learn to love and let love go. There is someone out there for you trust me and you are going to find that someone sooner than you think. Your ex is the past and thats where you need to leave him. He know that he is hurting you by the things he tells you and thats what he wants to do, now its up to you to stop giving him that pleasure because if not he is going to get to you all the time.
Love yourself sweetie!!!
2006-11-14 02:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy he has moved on with his life and you need to do the same. He is bragging and he is being a A HOLE instead of him just saying he has moved on he want to hurt you. So guess what you need to do the same to him but do not play games and once you do find that someone you stay with him not back and forth.
2006-11-14 02:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you torturing yourself? Stop talking to him it's just killing your self-esteem. Think of it this way he was dating you for a long time because you are super cool chick and he was attracted to you. Go find someone that appreciates you that way. So what if he's dating someone else you should take this advantage to go find someone better and quit talking to him.
2006-11-14 02:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are pigs. For men it is like buying a new car. Off with the old. Ya know, trading the old model for a younger fresher one.
2006-11-14 02:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a jerk you're better off without
and he's trying to make you jealous so you fight over him and make him feel like a big,bad, "hot" guy with all these girls sweating him
ignore him and it'll bother him so bad that he'll wonder y isn't she chasing me? cause people will always want what they can't have
2006-11-14 02:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by Lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to make you feel jealous or inadequate. His motive could be most anything. You need to put the incident into context.
2006-11-14 02:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being a cold hearted jerk. You should never have asked him about another girl, or discussed the sex. He is being hurtful, you, not so smart. Stay away from him, you are only hurting yourself.
2006-11-14 02:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS TRYING TO GET YOU JEALOUS, HE PROBABLY STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR YOU AND STILL WANTS YOU, HE'S TRYING TO GET YOU JEALOUS TO SEE HOW YOU WILL REACT TO IT. GO OUT WITH SOMEONE THAT IS HOTTER THAN HIM AND GET HIM JEALOUS, JUST LIKE IN THAT MOVIE BREAK UP. MY NAME IS HEATHER AND MY E-MAIL IS MISSRIP12102003@YAHOO.COM
2006-11-14 02:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by HEATHER V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋