so I was just wondering what guys look 4 in a girl...?
2006-11-14 03:02:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I can't speak for all of us but I know plenty of people that would agree with me on this.
Personality:
Communication: The dreaded question always seems to come up where a guy has to have an opinion about the girl's physique. Don't ask questions like "Does this make me look fat?" and expect to get an answer that wont piss you off, especially if you know that your body isn't as nice as you would like it to be.
Don't say things that could be interpreted in many ways. Be straightforward and honest with what you say to a guy, because half the time, we don't know the connotation of your sentences.
Listen with an open mind. From my experience, the girl usually listens expecting the worst. If a sentence can be interpreted as either positive or negative, assume the positive for both of your sakes. Believe me, the majority of us have good intentions.
A girl must enjoy the same types of activities as a guy. This varies from guy to guy, but I know that I wouldn't want a mate who is afraid of doing the kinds of things I like to do. I'm not saying I want to force the girl into those things, I mean that I'd prefer if a girl enjoyed what I like to do and does things that I enjoy doing. Don't be afraid to try new things.
Respect of partner's time. Guys like me like girls that will leave them alone once in a while. In a lot of relationships I've seen, the girl will usually complain that the guy does not call him enough. Once the guy adjusts, the girl says the opposite. We usually don't mind the talking, but if a guy has to leave the phone, let him.
Don't be materialistic. Anniversaries, Valentine's day and your birthday are just dates on a calendar. Not all guys can get you a diamond ring three times a year. Most of us usually buy feeling obliged, not because we want to profess our unconditional love to you. A ring or money is not a symbol of love, the fact that you're together is usually good enough for the guy if the relationship is working out. Let simple gifts work and instead try to enjoy the time with him. Also, most guys don't care much for receiving gifts either. It feels nice to give and to receive, but I know I wont feel bad if I don't get a gift for something. I often tell a person who asks not to bother. They really don't mean that much unless there is something symbolic tied to the item, like flowers.
I know this kind of contradicts what I said above, but try to be yourself. Don't hide anything. Even if you have undesirable traits to one kind of guy, you will find other kinds that will like you.
Remember this. If a guy that is not so ideal in your eyes comes up to you, give him a chance to at least talk. I'm not saying let anybody hit on you. I mean, there are some guys out there that don't look like they've got a lot to offer, but really do. We're all scared of rejection, so it makes some of us timid and seem less than desirable when approaching you.
Looks:
This isn't a major issue, but most guys also consider looks.
Most of us enjoy a natural look. Don't smother yourself in ridiculous nail polish and heavy mascara or extremely noticeable lipstick or other sorts of makeup. It only takes away from what most of us are naturally attracted to. Obviously there are some things we like to see groomed, just don't go overboard with it.
As for your body. We like to see a girl who at least looks like she is taking care of herself. I don't mean she has to be skinny or anything. She just has to look healthy. Some fat on the body adds to the curves and sometimes is more attractive. But if you completely let go and start going on binges of eating or starving yourself, you're going to loose his interest.
2006-11-14 03:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by Tolga K. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the guy I look for someone honest, trustworthy, outgoing, likes sports, smart, funny, and utmost respectful. There are a lot of different things guys look for so to answer your question would be to say what kind of guy are you looking for and expect the same out of him if you want a lasting relationship. I know some guys will read this and think that is crazy but what I expect out of a woman I do the same for anyone I date. Respect is the most important thing. Most people to much emphasis on looks I know you have to be attracted to someone to want to spend the time to get to know them and they are important but the other is more important so I hope this will help out some
2006-11-14 03:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by jds31177 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the looks and a nice body is helpful, but its about personality and attitude cos alot of goodlooking girls are shallow.
2006-11-14 03:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jamieson 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good looking. Smart dressing not too heavy makeup more natural I prefer. she should have a nice figure and a great smile
2006-11-14 03:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. They are all different.
2006-11-14 03:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cant tell depends on the guy, and you dont want to redesign yourself based on that anyway. be you, and yours will find you.
2006-11-14 03:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by David B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sexy, sweet, smells good, doesnt talk you head off!
2006-11-14 03:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by Texas Made! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your mom
2006-11-14 03:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋