Other - Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

I am out of high school, graduated this year in the summer because I didn't try in school, despite me having CP classes and having a intelligent mind but not intelligent choices. my mom wasn't on me because I was actually focusing on school. she tells me to get a job. I want to get one now because I just turned 18 etc, etc, I know I need one, I definitely need the money. I was basicaly forced to go to a JC college very recently and I understand the concepts, even know most of what my teachers are saying already. but I don't study, I haven't put any effort because I have been accustomed to failing since junior year in high school. back then I was drinking more than anybody else could, and doing drugs like crazy.
now I sit at home not doing anything, while my brothers go to HS and college, and my mom works, and I do nothing. I have gone online, played video games, and done enough drugs to know what it has for me.I just dont know how to change. I want to change, but I dont have the motiv

2006-11-07 15:39:06 · 8 answers · asked by l u m i n o u s 2

2006-11-07 15:37:34 · 8 answers · asked by leena 4

to tell him something and they told me he didnt work today so i ask her again to make sure if he didnt work today and she said he didnt so i called his house and his not their either and he was suppose to be home like 3hrs ago

2006-11-07 15:32:17 · 5 answers · asked by Lore 3

I dont think its right that he hangs out at her house to visit his son, while she's there. He is old enough to be alone. Its not for an hour its more like 5 hours, so my question is...Was I wrong to tell him not to be hanging out at her house? He can take him somewhere else and yes he takes him every other weekend. I need some advice please.

2006-11-07 15:26:43 · 22 answers · asked by Crazy 6

I really need to know because I honestly don't want to be with somebody if they don't want to be with me...

2006-11-07 15:23:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is very sick and he is deteriorating rapidly. I've been warned to think twice about going to visit him as I might be shocked when I see him, apparently he doesn't even know you're there anymore nor can he communicate anymore. I can't decide whether to go because if I go there it would only make me sad and depressed and it may be the last image I have of him.

What should I do?

2006-11-07 15:12:40 · 24 answers · asked by Rachel R 1

In the US, UK, Italy, Spain? anywhere else. Is the government in your country supporting younger families in any way?

2006-11-07 14:57:35 · 1 answers · asked by Alex 2

does anybody need a babysitter this week?

2006-11-07 14:44:46 · 3 answers · asked by marie h 1

2006-11-07 14:43:25 · 50 answers · asked by Blue_Bell 1

i lost trust in my ex b/f.. but we are hanging out again.. i want to trust him again ... how do i do it? how does he regain my trust?

2006-11-07 14:42:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you had any situation where you totally misjudged the situation because of previous experiences with similr situation??
if yeah what was the situation and how did it affect you

2006-11-07 14:20:15 · 6 answers · asked by huichongkim61 1

after my wedding,i had gone thru so many problems. my huasband dont spend time with me.we never been anyware for past two years.he always wanted to spend time with his mother and sisters. i feel very lonely. i dont even know,how to talk to him about my feeling.but love him a lot.

2006-11-07 14:19:57 · 7 answers · asked by catwomen 2

when your boyfriend lives far away from you and none of his friends will tell you anything and you ask him and he said no but you don't believe him i need help i really love him but i can't go on thinking that he is i need to now i don't want to get hurt

2006-11-07 14:14:30 · 15 answers · asked by Adisa D 1

I really didn't know that another man is the father of my little girl. I just realized that he couldn't be the father because of incompatible blood types. The problem is that we are soooo happy, especially him as a father, and she as his daughter. She is 2.5 years old. I don't think it is fair for him to raise her since she is not his, but I think telling him the truth will Destroy him. Should I just take this secret to the grave? Believe me, it is the truth is eating me alive, but I deserve it. I just wanted to sew my oats once before I settled down...what an idiot. Please ladies, don't make this mistake.

2006-11-07 14:09:46 · 18 answers · asked by One I 1

my girlfriends uncle is in hospital and in a very bad way, I made a prommise to her last night that he would be ok and make it through his ordeal, insted I get a message from her saying that she now has to stay in Perth, WA because he has got worse...
I just emailed her to say how sorry I am about making that now broken prommise :(..........i just hope he makes it but what she now needs is support, she has it from her aunt-uncles wife, her uncles mate and me of course but I am wondering should I fly there from Launceston, Tas to be with her and help her through this???

Ideas please and GENUINE ANSWERS ONLY
I feel so terrable and just want to be there with her but dont know if it'll make her feel even worse or not..

Mitch

2006-11-07 14:07:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was seeing an older man. At first i knew it was phyical attraction but then i grew to love him. he also had another women in his life of 24 years. he would bounce back and forth between us telling me that his first lover would always be in his life. well i understood that because of my past with my husband. but when i wanted to talk to my ex he would get pissed off. i had a car of my own and was very sweet and honest with this man. i still having feeling for him he he continues to call me all the time but i don't talk to him, things ended bad. but when i did talk to him he told me he loves me and misses me and wants me back in his life again. what should i do? should i give him a chance or what?

2006-11-07 13:51:43 · 7 answers · asked by thumperprice26 1

If it's work or bands or his computer, I always come number three or four to anything else.
I need a hobby. Someone suggest something not so costly I could get into that is intellectual and stimulating.

2006-11-07 13:32:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont know what to do.Its good but its not what a want right now I don't know how to tell him.He gave up his whole life for me and I just really want to get out of it without him wanting to become suicidal.Help me please

2006-11-07 13:23:06 · 6 answers · asked by dee 1

he always smiles at me but i dont know if he likes me as much as i do. help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-07 13:15:46 · 9 answers · asked by anna m 2

Someone gave me a rock awhile back as a special gift. I got too emotionally involved in this person's tragedy and ended up infringing on this person's space by contacting the person's family online. The rock to me is a reminder that I unintentionally hurt someone and brings back bad memories. I want to get rid of it because it makes me think about what I did wrong and because I'm trying to block out the memory of the person who gave it to me. But everytime I try to throw it away, I feel guilty and can't bring myself to do it.

I no longer contact the person who gave it to me and do not involve myself in other people's business anymore.

Please help me, what should I do with this rock?

2006-11-07 13:11:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-07 12:52:40 · 21 answers · asked by Chely 2

a date

2006-11-07 12:50:37 · 3 answers · asked by la naca 6

sex session with two other women! It is only a fantasy of mine, but hubby wants me to do it in front of him.
Surely this is betrayal? He says no because he will be there!
He would not like it if I went with another man, so wot’s the difference?
Sex with someone else is sex regardless of their gender is it not?
Wot is it with men being turned on by women having sex with each other?

2006-11-07 12:37:39 · 42 answers · asked by Welshchick 7

I am not shy but I dont want to be embarresset
She was in frount of my other friend and she knows my personallty.

HELP best anser will be chosen on 11.7.06-11.10.06

2006-11-07 12:36:02 · 1 answers · asked by VbyKM 3

2006-11-07 12:16:51 · 9 answers · asked by Sir Gentleman 1

me and my boyfriend finished 4mths ago... he is now seeing someone else, he knows i want to get back, he said he cant at mo coz he still hurt with how things ended, he has just started seeing someone else and i am letting go but weve been through so much with him. He told my friend, he still loves me and is not 100% sure he is doing the right thing not being with me but he still hurt over things and just cant get back at mo but doesnt want me to hang on and try and get on with my life but if its ment to be it will... i am letting go as he has starting seeing someone... is he still in-love with me, is this just a male pride thing?? x

2006-11-07 12:11:00 · 15 answers · asked by M 1

2006-11-07 12:06:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-07 12:05:08 · 6 answers · asked by Queen 2

2006-11-07 11:51:33 · 7 answers · asked by dmaryjane 1

I am solely responsible for my two handicapped grandparents because the rest of the family lives so far away they can claim that distance as being an obstacle, and because I love them for all they have done for me and all of their adopted kids over the years.
My grandmother has dementia and regularly says some awful things about me, especially when she thinks I left, or not there.
My grandfather is oblivious to reality, solely focused on his TV and nothing has ever changed that for long.
I pay their bills, buy their groceries, take them everywhere they want to go even if it conflicts with my time to do homework, and am at their total disposal if they should call me. They can't afford any help because the other kids have ran them so far in debt that they don't have any free money.
I am a full-time college student, responsible for my own problems and bills, but because I love and respect my grandparents I am bound to endure such things that most people would never tolerate.

2006-11-07 11:47:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous