I was seeing an older man. At first i knew it was phyical attraction but then i grew to love him. he also had another women in his life of 24 years. he would bounce back and forth between us telling me that his first lover would always be in his life. well i understood that because of my past with my husband. but when i wanted to talk to my ex he would get pissed off. i had a car of my own and was very sweet and honest with this man. i still having feeling for him he he continues to call me all the time but i don't talk to him, things ended bad. but when i did talk to him he told me he loves me and misses me and wants me back in his life again. what should i do? should i give him a chance or what?
2006-11-07 13:51:43 · 7 answers · asked by thumperprice26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Find someone new.
2006-11-07 14:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am only 16 but since he is making his problems out to be bigger than yours you might not want to give him another chance. Does he take you places and give you more attention than that other woman? If he does then go for him. But if he starts getting mad over simple things, that is a sign that he may hit you one day; get out before that happens. I know this because my mom was in this situation and she tells me the ones to watch out for.
Good luck! You know what you really want, do what you feel. Don't let anyone talk you out of what you want or you'll never be happy.
2006-11-07 22:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by texasbootscootin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing, how old is him? if he is too old, hes using you and is playing with you. He got experience, thats why hes using you. This guy maybe have another woman . Dont be one of the fool that is following his game.
2006-11-07 22:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by El guapo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he hasn't got the balls to choose, you have to do it for him... Tell him to make a choice or get lost, you don't deserve to be second fiddle to anyone. Good Luck!
2006-11-10 22:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dear you are on line asking strangers about this....hmmmm i think you already know the answer and what you should do...Listen to your heart & good luck!
2006-11-08 11:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by lil redneck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No second chances, unless you always want to be second string.
2006-11-07 21:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your gut felling will tell you what to do go with it 99% right
2006-11-07 22:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋