At the time, I was a poor student of 28, really lonely. I had a history of short relationships. I found a stable family environment with him (divorced living w one son, who is now 19). His hope was that I would get a great job and we would have money someday. He's a poor immigrant, w/ many friends and family. I am a loner. I asked him to move to another state with me because he had all my stuff, and I didnt have the money or heart to make the break. I see now I was wrong, but we lived together for 4 years in the new state, with his son. More arguments though, and no sex. He is really counting on me to help him out when he is old (he's now 50) as he helped me when I was younger. Now 40, I am living apart from him in another state now for the last 2 years, but he still is planning for our living out our lives together later on. I date other people but have hard time keeping relationships, partly out of guilt. I want someone new, but I fear being alone. Help!
2006-06-20
02:44:32
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rosebud
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