I love my exbf or my bf i dont know what to called him yesterday we broke up and for silly reason cuz i go out to my cousin home and i didnt tell him !!!! but i called him and he talked to his friend and he didnt answer my call so i go out and then he saw me in the street and he called me i didnt answer then i answered and i lied to him i said im in my home but he told me i saw u then i told him i called u and u have a line then he start to say a bad words i never think that one day he will say it ( u r a ***** and sooooo ) then i closed the phone he sends many text msgs with a bad words !! and he said dont call me i dont what to talk with slut ...!
then at night i called him i said dont send msgs plz! my sis read all ur msgs he said she dont know that she have a bitchy sis ! so i close it and he didnt call and i dont want him again but i still love him !!!! he is my first love and i have sex only with him ! what should i do ?
2006-06-20 01:17:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hmm...the reason you two broke up in the first place..isnt good enough.. so, i'd sugesst the two of you meet up face to face and clear things off.. talk to each other.. but,before anything.. ask him if he still loves you.. and that you still love him too.. cse,if he doesnt then..theres no point of patching things up.. and hey, even if it doesnt work out.. theres still many mre others out there.. so, good luck..;)..
2006-06-20 01:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by Redweedplace ® 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it sounds to me like no trust and communication>you are lying to him and he's spying on you.Well take it from someone who knows i have had a lover that was is my true love for over 20 years ok.We talk about having kids but it never happen i moved to another state and went on with my life..and when i do always come into town i see him.He only deals with the females that's available to him,anyway what i am saying honey you got to cut the cord and say i am not looking back moving forward better things ahead.Yea i loved his butt , but he didn't know how to treat and respect me as a good and faithful women.This other so called lover knew i was always in the picture and she was jealious where she was calling his cell phone and acting like it was me using private??...Bullshit i told him how am i calling you and i am on my computer.I emailed him a few weeks back and told him i dare you to ask for her cell phone bill and her house bill.This will show you who's been calling you>he was full of **** and when he found out he couldn't even say he was sorry.(Men are like buses they never stop running,you can always catch one)...This is my own personal saying and i have tee shirts also i created.You both are in the wrong it's time to move on for the both of you and it is healthy.Don't waste your time just let it go but you can't beat a 20 freindship.Well good luck ,don't bring yourself pain find something to do...the man like i said was my first as well.
2006-06-20 01:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,first off even if you still love him you can move on maybe get with another man make him jealous if he sees you and him at a party maybe he will finally notice what hes missing and if he doesnt get jealous and want to get back with you move on it might be hard at first but you will realize that there are more and better people out there and he may not be the one for you.
2006-06-20 01:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks your playing games sit him down talk to him clear everything out and make peace
2006-06-20 01:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by a a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start sending him rude and angry messages and see how he likes them!!!
you should maybe talk 2 a counselor about ur situation. she may giv you better answers then me!!
2006-06-20 01:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by pb&j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is true love he will come back... try not to lie because relationships shouldnt be based on lies. trust me 5 years is a lot to throw away for one stupid fight..
2006-06-20 01:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by Star DUst 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋