Why women are looking to more thug loving then good men,then they always turn around and say they can't fine a true and hard working man.That will love them no matter what,but thy want someone who..isn't really in love with them just sleeping with them.Reality check here folk we have thug women also.just yesterday morning five young males setting in a SUV in Boston Mass were killed while setting (5)people not one .This is getting crazy,but we always seem to over look these people they are human .They feel this is the only life and it's not,some may hold jobs and some not.The point here is why do women want to be with thugs instead of a good man.I would like to hear what you have to say about this.And don't be so quick to judge me either,and i want you...Ok then theses women bring them inside the home where they have kids and say well the lovin is good he don't beat on me .I actually had a poster say that to me, it was a shock..and she's lovin it nuff saidQQQ
2006-06-20 01:25:30 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some just haven't grown-up, women (bad as I hate to admit it)can be vulnerable creatures and tend to look for love where ever they can find it and alot of those thugs can seem sweet, kind and gentle, til they get what they want. Lots of times if niether have never really experienced true love, think sex equals love. I used to think all the "good guys" were taken. Then I met my husband and he has a little age on me, he's sewn his wild oats and he is a wonderful caring person who puts our family first and I know that I have been blessed. Just keep in mind that we all learn from our mistakes.
2006-06-20 02:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question buddy. You have said so yourself that it is not all black women, therefore by your logic it is only some. And if you believe that some black women and not all date thugs then you should revise your question to "Why do some Black women, choose thugs over educated men?" I hope that I have not offended you with my analysis. We are still cool? :) And it is their preference to date these dudes. It seems a lot of women enjoy badboys. And it is not just black women who like bad boys, it seems to be a lot of women who love douchebags. And besides the majority of these women, it seems, are not women but girls who love that drama. Although there are some educated women out there who do love the occassional bad boy. Anyways I believe that it is who a person surrounds themselves with. If a person grew up in those environments they are more likely to be drawn to that type of character. And if a person claims that trouble follows them, then on some levels they must love trouble. So when these black women date thugs they are doing people like me and your brother a favor. Your brother should be happy that these thugs are taking the black women who do not want an educated man. And,myself, on the other hand, is happy that these women are taking the thugs so I will not have to deal with them.
2016-03-26 22:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some people haven't grown up yet, or they just feel overwhelmed or bored with their lives and want to feel rescued or something they think may be exciting. It's just drama, and eventually the girls see that and it won't fit in a responsible adult world. Especially if she ever plans to really experience love and have real relationships that are lasting and good.
2006-06-20 02:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably for the reason men choose dumb women with sexy bodies. That's the type they are physically attracted to. However there are still plenty of good women looking for a good man so keep trying.
2006-06-20 02:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to be like that, just like the thugs. I think that its because you feel a little power because of who they are and your hanging with them. I realized that it gets you nowhere in the thug life. Then they feel like they own you. I am married to a hardworking man and the greatest father to my kids in the world.
2006-06-20 01:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by mel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's like this, you crave the attention, you want to be like his homie and his ride or die chick. He will show you all the attention you want as long as you don't nag him about a relationship or dating. We are looking for security in these thugs and we know they can provide it, I think you have to learn how to make a man, you wont find all the qualities you are looking for in just one man, that's just impossible, so you have to build you a man.
2006-06-20 01:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by tonya_jones29 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thugs are dangerous and there is always this idea that they can change them from a thug to a good guy.
2006-06-20 01:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Women are attracted to "bad boys" the same way that men are attracted to "hotties." It's only when each gender actually grows up that they are able to get past their hormones to a real relationship.
2006-06-20 01:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some women are attracted to the "bad guy syndrome", they want the rough and fugly ...unemployed...no goals for future and uneducated...because they are lacking in their own self-esteem somewhere down the line...
2006-06-20 01:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because the think they can change them,but they need to realize that if the guy needs to change he's not what they really want to begin with.
2006-06-20 02:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by Troy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋