I was just wondering if any ladies out ther have lost the sex drive..
And is it a normal thing.??
I am 41 years old and my wife is 39..She has lost all interest in sex.
She says it is a pre menipause thing..
I have no idea..So I am hoping to get some real answers here and not a bunch of bull.
Please serious answers only..
And will she ever get the interest back.????
2006-06-20 01:37:55 · 10 answers · asked by tanear1964 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm 24 with no kids good shape and all that good stuff. And I loose my sex drive all the time. Its not that I'm not interested its just at that moment in time for however long that is not important to me. So its it normal? In my opinion yes it is. Don't worry just ride the wave and let time take its course. Just be ready when she is ready because you don't want to disappoint her. :)
2006-06-20 02:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by ronce_1118 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem am about her age i lost all interest it's like when hubby and i do it it's like lets just get it over with well some of it is depression but as a helpful sometimes it can be harder for women to orgasm so if u want her into it i would say foreplay or take care of her needs first then yours and things should heat up for u.
2006-06-20 10:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by hubbys2ndbest2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should see a doctor to be sure it is not something else.
There are medications she get get from her doctor to help her with that.
If you have been together for awhile you would know 90% of her "hot" buttons. If you don't that could be a contributing factor.
A usual winner is the head to toe love with an intermediate stop at the center for some love tongue lashing.
This could also be depression.
A visit to the doctor will confirm what the problem is..
Good luck, and God bless.
2006-06-20 08:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Nick R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some ladies find sex is not to their liking. Others consider it a major bother, as it's messy. Some experience pain while having it.
It's not really a loss of sex drive but of interest.
You both need to sit down and try to come to an understanding as to how a compromise can be reached.
But I'll tell you something, you want her involved when you have sex. If she lies there with that "get it over with" attitude, you might as well be celibate.
2006-06-20 08:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal or it's atleast a very commen thing. Best bet is have her go to a doctor. It may be something medicine could take care of. Problems in marriage? Go to couple counseling. Perhaps it's something deeper than a pre menipause thing. Good luck and have patience.
2006-06-20 08:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Peanut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 28 and I have lost a little of mine but I think mine has to do with me having 2 kids in less than 3yrs and I still have a little extra weight. Before I had my kids it was great and now its just hard to get back into the routine. She'll get it back, it may not be like it used to but she'll get it back. Please don't go out and cheat on her, then she will never forget it and then it will never go back to normally. Good luck.
2006-06-20 08:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a pre-menopausal thing she says,but i'll advice that you put in a lot of variants in your love making try something you've never done before.
She just might be tired of the same old thing.
2006-06-20 08:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by cyberpaul007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it could be the pre menapause she will need to contact her dr......if its not that would she use a vibrator?? i lost mine and im alot younger but use the vibe on the clit and boy its great i think about it all the time and cant wait to get my hubby into bed!!
2006-06-20 08:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure, women will lose their sex appetite quite early.
2006-06-20 09:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by Navin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not normal. u jst hve 2 mke her get into it...love her...love her...love her...do something good, help her out. ease her pain...whtevr, u can help her get into it again.
2006-06-20 09:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋