Marriage & Divorce - 5 June 2006

I take care of him and our newborn baby. He recently had an incident that put him in ICU I nursed him back to health.
The funny thing is that when he was in the hospital I called his job to call him off. When the secretary found out she ran down to the ICU department to check on him like 15 minutes after I called.
I was taking with the doctor and when I came back in she was there. She told me to leave my husband and let her stay with him, while he was in ICU. She gave him a $100.00 gift card and does other special things for him. I also found her cell number in his phone. When and several missed calls from her. When I called her on the cell of course our number came up but she gave me an alias number. He described her as having big breast. He says that I am just too jelous. He does not sleep with me and we are not physical much because the baby is 2 months. I have not got my looks back yet although I am working out again. Should I worry? Is she just nice am I just paranoid?

2006-06-05 11:55:26 · 27 answers · asked by Negrita 2

My husband is always so tired after work, he works fulltime and goes to school. It seems like when i want sex he's too tired and vice -versa. Also it seems neither one of us are good at instigating it anymore because we fear rejection. I don't want to be one of those married couples that hardly ever have sex...is this normal. I think sex is important though...and I want to do it more. Any ideas to spice up our sex life or promote more sex?

2006-06-05 11:35:06 · 14 answers · asked by Leslie S 2

if u read my last 2 questions u will know the situation. my last question is this. do u think i should have told my husband right away, or wait until he knows something is going on? my sister told him wat i did. he asked if i would have told him. i said no. i wouldn't have told him because i didn't see wat good it would do. i might have felt better not keeping a secret but he would have felt really bad. there was a possability he would never find out and then we wouldn't be going thru all this. so, do u think i should have told him? btw, if the situation were reversed i would not want to know and i told him so.

2006-06-05 11:34:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

will he do the same things to her as he did to me or will she be the one to get him to marry her. he told me he did not want to get married,yet we were together for 6 years. I uncovered who he was (self-centered,emotionally distant etc.) and he did not like it and ended our relationship.Then he became very nasty towards me,like jekyll and hyde, I never knew what he was thinking or what would make him angry. His anger was terrifying-I felt like the devil was inside him. But he was so sweet generally speaking and seemed so calm outwardly.None of his friends have seen this side of him..I had asked him to go on a cruise on Nov. 20th. That was the day he said he wanted our 6 year rlationship to end. But guess what! The week of Easter he took her on a cruise after only dating maybe for 2 months. I thought It was incredibly cruel of him to do that, but he thought absolutely nothing of it. Is that typical of this personality disorder? I can't believe his inability to see this!Am I crazy?

2006-06-05 11:33:17 · 5 answers · asked by fabfourfanmusicfan 1

I have a faithful husband who is the "nice guy". Recently he saw an old friend of his family at a wedding. She was nice to me when introduced, but continued to be very friendly with my husband giving him attention all night while treating me like i didn't exist. I felt this was disrespectful to our marriage. My husband insists that this is all in my head (he thought she was just being nice). He has other attractive friends that are girls that i do not feel the same way about because they take an interest in me as his wife and behave in a classy way around him. what is a polite way to handle this situation? I believe she was not trying to be rude to me but simply was not aware of how to treat a married man.

2006-06-05 11:23:56 · 31 answers · asked by sadie 2

2006-06-05 11:21:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I never dated the other person, though we were pretty good friends. Things are ok with the relationship I am in, but I think about her all the time and I feel like it is cheating. Help

2006-06-05 11:19:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

other than blow jobs

2006-06-05 11:04:24 · 16 answers · asked by tx80sgirl 2

2006-06-05 10:47:13 · 69 answers · asked by misssazzy jane 1

2006-06-05 10:46:15 · 11 answers · asked by mariposa 1

My husband and I are having marital problems and he has taken his wedding band off. He says he will put it back on when he is ready. We have been having financial problems. I don't work outside the home at this moment but I have. I substitute at my 2 childrens school. We have our good day and he still kisses me and and says I love you. I just am confused. I would really love have some good advice. Before this we always got along and joked alot. Its just since the financial problems we have been arguing alot for the past 2 months. Do most men leave their wives over this. I honestly and truely love him. PLEASE GIVE GOOD ADVICE!

2006-06-05 10:44:06 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2

i hate the chat rooms. are there other ways to me people on line? to talk to one person instead of 10 - 50?

2006-06-05 10:43:32 · 4 answers · asked by grandma 1

What and Who I have now is it true love? My marriage of 21/2 years, and dating this guy since 10th grade, Dating 6 years with an un born child on the way.

2006-06-05 10:38:22 · 1 answers · asked by Dominique 1

Where can i buy affordable furniture we are on a very tight budget? We are renting our first apartment and are in desperate need of furniture.

2006-06-05 10:36:30 · 1 answers · asked by ♥eLiZaBeTh♥ 3

2006-06-05 10:35:16 · 16 answers · asked by grycld1967 2

I am currently married to a man who when drunk is physically abusive. We have been separated for 11 months and 2 weeks ago I told him that I wanted to get a divorce. We have two young kids and I want to find a better father for them.

Now, I have a friend who is always nice to me and my kids. I told him about what’s going on and he expressed his immense love for me. Well after being separated for so long I loved all the compliments he had for me. He talked about how smart, beautiful and charming I was. I explained how I couldn’t have a boyfriend until after I was divorced. He agreed. I told him that it was fine if we remained friends while I was in the divorce process. We got together for lunch a few times and took my kids to the park.

Yesterday I talked to my husband and he was VERY repentant toward me. He apologized to my family. He talked about rededicating our marriage. He asked for one more chance. I agreed to give him ONE more chance.

Now what I’m I supposed to do with this other guy? Help!

2006-06-05 10:28:02 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2

This is to all the married people who are having problems in their marriage and exhausted all thier options, like going to marriage counselors that have not worked or whatever. Let me tell you what me and my wife did, I hated my wife, no that is not a strong enough word, I couldn't stand the sight of her face, her body, anything about her I ******* hated, every time I looked at her I wanted to spit in her face and then laugh. Well I saw a pamphlet for a weekend retreat call Retrouvaille, I figured well what do we have to loose. Let me tell you that weekend did something to me and my wife, I now love my wife and she loves me, she is again my best friend and I'm her's. It was a very emotional weekend that teaches you how to really communicate with each other in a way that you never would have thought before, if anybody wants info on this program or still wants to save their marriage, go to Retrouvaille dot com. Believe me it saved my marraige and it could save yours. Oh I forgot to say they do not turn anybody down because of finances you give what you can afford. It is a Catholic program but you do not have to be Catholic to join in the retreat, they take anybody. If you do go, bring lots of tissues because since it is a very emotional weekend there will be a lot of tears, but not bad tears, there will be tears of the remembrance of the love that you once had and want to have all over again. Like I said This Program does work, I swear by it.

2006-06-05 10:26:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm talking what steps one would have to go through (legalwise) should there be anything one should prepare for?

i'm speaking hypothetically, not getting married, but i've always wanted to know what was involved if one person was not a US citizen and they wanted to marry a citizen.

2006-06-05 09:54:01 · 9 answers · asked by kiss my wookie! 5