2006-06-05 10:35:16 · 16 answers · asked by grycld1967 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Perhaps because you don't know each other well enough yet??? LOL
2006-06-05 10:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by bigbadwolfe_2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you should not have sex until the wedding night (old fashioned). This way you get to know each other, be friends, and make sure everything else works well in the relationship, which is what it's truly about.
2006-06-05 10:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Howdy! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people would prefer to know about a person before having sex with him. With STDs, preganacy, and married men to worry about, it makes sense. Additionally, some people don't know right away if this person is one they are attracted enough to for sex to become an issue.
2006-06-05 10:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by Terri C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good reason to wait (other than religion or if you are a virgin) is to get to know the other person and create trust. the best sex is always with someone you can relax and feel comfortable with. that doesnt always mean you have to wait, it just depends on how comfortable you and your partner feel around eachother. just make sure you use protection until you are monogamous and ready to have children.
2006-06-05 12:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships aren't based on sex. Relationships change, some get better and others get worse.
The focus should be on growing together and learning one another at the level they are at.
2006-06-05 10:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by nhiz__image 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There usually is.
The reason for not having sex early in a relationship is because
the people need to take their time to make sure that they are not making a big mistake.
2006-06-05 10:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by Matty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not something to take likely. With sex comes responsibility.
2006-06-05 10:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very important to get to know a person first; sex is a very intimate experience; do not jump into something so serious blindly.
2006-06-05 10:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess life takes over - my wife tells me that if it's too often (like every day) then she's afraid i'm going to get bored with her and look for someone else - it also varies with how she feels about herself. to be honest i'd rather do it less often but know that my partner is in it a 100% as opposed to often but knowing that it's more out of "duty" than for pleasure!
2006-06-05 10:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by measureoflove68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No use in putting your life at risk for someone who you will probably hate in a few weeks. You should wait and see if the person is someone that you really care for.
2006-06-05 11:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by Still a Sexy Momma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you commit to any relationship she will do anything to keep you.... but once she has you she knows she doesn't have to do anything.... they are all the same (women) unless you get lucky and find one that is a nympho but then everything else is screwed up..... good luck and if you are not married to her i recommend that you don't because it will only get worse.....
2006-06-05 10:42:52 · answer #11 · answered by john d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋