2006-06-05 11:21:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
11 answers and counting saying: Nope! I am proud and my faith is restored by the ongoing culture to realize that there is more to life in a marriage than sex. Cheating or promiscuity does not bring the desire, lasting solution for marriage problems but communication, faithfulness bring pride to a loving couple. swinging is a deceptive form to adapt to life problems, its reward is short lived but its bad consequences will be deep rooted.
2006-06-05 12:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way, and i speak of experience. when something is dull you pull your two minds together, you don't involve strangers just for a stupid physical rush. this is temporary, and it wears off and one of you or both of you will have a different reaction. Neither will be a benefit to the unity of your relationship. If someone wants to swing, perhaps it would be a good idea to not enter the realm of marriage which usually only exists with two people. We have evolved as a society and communication is much more provocative and arousing and intimate then any quick rush of sex with unknown lost people. Don't mean to sound old fashioned, but once you enter this area, you both have made a concious decision to taint the sacredness of you as one. good luck!
2006-06-05 19:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by driver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! I've never known a couple that after they did it, thought it was a great idea. You will constantly wonder if the other woman was better, did she make your husband feel something that you never have? Honey, rent adult tapes, buy sexy lingerie, buy a book on sex. Rent a hotel room and meet in the middle of the after for a "quickie". There are tons of ways...don't swing though!
2006-06-05 19:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not try swinging because if my sex life is dull I would pray to God and ask him to help me with ways to attract my spouse sexuallly and be more desirable to him.
2006-06-05 18:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by momof_12003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i would not at all... I would try to spice it up in the bedroom with my husband with new ideas toys and new posistions! You can make your sex life be boring or exciting it is your choice!
2006-06-05 18:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if you dont want to destroy your marriage, if u have any trust in ur marriage right now, there will not be any after u do that,there are otherways to spice up ur esx life with just the two of you
2006-06-05 19:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse not! Life doesn't revolve around sex!
2006-06-05 18:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! IF YOUR MATE REALLY LOVES YOU, THEY ARE NOT GOING TO ENJOY WATCHING YOU GET DOWN WITH OTHER PEOPLE. TRY ROLE PLAYING. BUY COSTUMES. BECOME A CHARACTER HE OR SHE FANTASIZES ABOUT. HAS YOUR MATE WANTED TO HAVE SEX WITH A DR, COWBOY, CHEERLEADER TRUCK DRIVER ETC. HAVE FUN USING YOUR IMAGINATION.
2006-06-05 18:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by wheezie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because when its done and over and even during someone is gonna be seriously pissed off !
2006-06-05 19:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by chemicalbrothers13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no-figure out whats wrong and try to fix it-dont cheat-thats how people get killed.
2006-06-05 19:10:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋