She's really a good friend if you put this aside, but constantly she makes rude comments about how heavy her friends are. For example, yesterday she told me that "those pants you borrowed from me fit you.. once you finally got them on!" She's so overly confident about herself that she just puts her friends down without realizing that maybe it hurts them sometimes. She herself is somewhat skinny, but deffinatly growing bigger because her "metabolism is amazing.. i can eat an entire pizza and not gain a pound!!" trust me, she tells me that EVERY DAY!!
Me and my other friends have done everything we can to stop her from making these remarks, but she won't change!! We've talked to her, written letters, walked away every time she says something mean, but she doesnt understand how hurtful her comments make us. We've told her how much she hurts us constantly, but she won't change.
She's a really good friend aside from this, though. How can I get to respect others?
2007-05-15
17:01:25
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