I've turned down many suitors because I kept on waiting for him to come back. We always communicate and hang out.. But till now, he never came back to me.. Instead, he found someone else..
2007-05-15 21:16:26 · 14 answers · asked by SoSick0fy0u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You do need to move on. He obviously has.
Occupy your time with activities you enjoy. Hang out with friends, volunteer in your community, go to baseball games... whatever it is that you like to do. There are guys out there, and the right one is just waiting for you.
Let your ex go. He isn't it.
2007-05-15 21:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by nightevisions 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor girl!!! I know how that can feel....
Grab a box of chocolates, put on as many sex in the city dvds as you can find and have a good cry, otherwise it will just build up.
It will take some time but you will get over him. Treat it like a death... morn your loss, take time to greive then heal. After all it's kind of like the death of your realationship. Don't move on too quickly though as it will just be trying to replace what you had. I wish you luck and know you will get through it!!
We all do... eventually
2007-05-15 21:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try taking a step away from him. that should move you.or rather, take a gazilion steps away from him! is he that perfect that you are just there waiting for him! you're wasting your time!if he wants to come back, he would have done so already! but no, he hasn't and maybe that's becuase he has no plans of coming back at all! gather yourself up, if possible, stop hanging out with him until you're completely certain that you are over him don't make things hard for you.
2007-05-15 21:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by cristal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, try to minimize the contact you are having with him.
This is difficult I know, I have been there...
And secondly, give yourself all the time you need.
This will take a long time but you WILL get over him!
And the pain will go away, in time.
I wish I could do more for you...
Good luck
2007-05-15 21:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by sweetera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear girl.........been there, done that........mine is even getting married soon........he was even my best friend.
So just cry some and cry lots........wish him all the happiness in the world and just walk on. I am hoping there is someone as good, if not better, somewhere further up the road. Best wishes.
2007-05-15 21:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by Inquisitive Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think that you have a soulmate somewhere is waiting for you...
I am not saying to hv someone this time... but you just think that he is not the one for you... and there is someone else deserves your love and care.
Salaam (peace)
2007-05-15 21:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by Eve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself some time. and stop turning down suitors
2007-05-15 21:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
many times in life, something will hurt when it happens. but with time, you will see that it happened for a very good reason.
you will be better for it, if you let yourself. go out and live.
2007-05-15 21:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by FiST 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has moved on.. and so should you..
it's time to know what's out there.. go out on dates..
make yourself busy with activities..
and accept the fact that maybe you guys are not meant for each other.. and if you are..
as what pacey said in dawson's creek..
"if two people are meant for each other, it doesnt mean that they are meant for each other NOW."
2007-05-15 21:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by crushmybones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry girl..
u will get other suiters, just dont make the same mistake 2x
2007-05-15 21:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by prettyinpink i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋