Friends - December 2006

Out of respect and loyalty to my best friend, I try my hardest to stay away from him. I don't want to stab her in the back because she really means a lot to me. What should I do? My best friend and her husband are in their forties and I am in my twenties. My best friend helped me recover from drugs and alcohol and she is always there for me when I need someone and I am always there for her as well. But, I really do like her husband in a sexual way. To me, it's really sickens me that I have these feelings. I could go on and on, but the bottom line I want to fall out of love with my best friend's husband. Her friendship means more to me than a fling. Please advise on what I should do. Thank you in advance.

2006-12-25 05:09:07 · 20 answers · asked by Maria Gallercia 4

I'ma really nice person & the question I posted awhile ago some of those answers weren't called for but it's your opinion but like I was saying dont judge me if you dont know me so if someone says they are beautiful and pretty they are concited or whatever and deserve what comes from them I really think some of you have noidea what you are talking about until you have been in my shoes

2006-12-25 04:56:32 · 30 answers · asked by Popular Girl 1

The guys in my class keep telling me to bend over to the front and touch my toes What the heck does this mean?

2006-12-25 04:52:36 · 18 answers · asked by Thelma 2

my friend's boyfriend is moving due to his family, do you think they should break up, or try to do a long distance relationship??? they don't a lot when we are out of school and they really like eachother, but i dont think that is what i want my best friend to go through!!!!! what should i do, if anything to help her if they break up!!!

2006-12-25 04:46:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

She mean mugs me in the hall now she doesn't even call me that much anymore & i'm afraid it can lead to something really bad because I really dont want to hurt her I still love her and all but it's getting out of control

2006-12-25 04:44:44 · 21 answers · asked by Popular Girl 1

2006-12-25 04:43:54 · 9 answers · asked by Footballchick 1

I don't know how to stop repeating my past mistakes with my frailed friendships. I keep loosing them for the same reason every time and I can't seem to control it anymore. How do I deal?

2006-12-25 04:26:35 · 14 answers · asked by Snowwhite30 1

i used to like a boy but he likes my best friend and my friend is proud about the fact.what should i do?

2006-12-25 04:20:38 · 4 answers · asked by amelia s 1

I'm a senior in high school and for most of my time in school I've wanted to be friends with this one group in particular but I always felt held back. Mianly because I felt obligated to be friends with people who kind of attached to me and wouldn't really have any friends if it weren't for me. But anyway they all seem to have moved away or lost interest in me so at the end of last year I decided that the next year I would not worry about it so much, that I would try not to feel guilty because I had been held back for so many years and figured its senior year I should try to enjoy it as much as I can and make up for lost time. But anyway, I'm so shy that even though they seemed to be very friendly and seemed to give me an opening to be friends with them, I couldn't do it and nothing ever came of it. I tried getting a myspace to talk with them over the internet to show that I wanted to open up a little and stay in touch but i couldn't take the stress and got rid of it, I think upsetting them a little in the process, they were happy I got one. I recently got it back, but the stress is just killing me again and I think I'm getting rid of it again soon. Anyway, the last few months nothing really happened with this group A, but then another girl i like from group B worked on a project with me and one day asked me to sit at lunch with them for one day. I did for the one day but didn't want to look like I had chosen one group over the other because group A has been equally inviting over the years, so I just stopped going to lunch. This has complicated things so much and I just feel trapped. It's made my depression a lot worse, and lately, where I used to try to mingle in groups, I just sit by myself and don't talk, and I'm probably ruining my chances of having friends, but it's gotten to the point where I can't honestly say I care if I'm friends with them sometimes, but other times it just kills me, like when I see pictures of them together and think of what I could've had it makes me so depressed. I'm just getting ready to give up on the whole thing, since I only have a few months to go. Do you think I should do that?

2006-12-25 04:01:59 · 14 answers · asked by leena 4

And don't say well at least you have this at least you have that.
Ok heres what happens in my life.
I live in an old people neighborhood because my parents moved down in georgia.
In my school there is so much discrimination against me because im asian and there are very few asains in georgia.
My school is super hard and its a magnet school.
And wait thats not all
I said i live in Georgia
Well for all of those guys who thinks huh its all so and so well i came over from Ilinois and Don't preach that **** about well its cold up here be greatful for where you live in. But wait i have no friends people would call my mom a terrorist ***** and wait its worse, The other night someone busted into my house and tried to choke my little brother and the police came late so i beat up the guy with a strong wood stick and i held him down for 10 minutes with the help of my family. Now there is nothing like this up in Ilinois GOD DAMN the south is racist. Should my parents move back to Chicago?

2006-12-25 03:46:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-25 03:37:08 · 9 answers · asked by desperate lady 1

me and my mom fight about stupid stuff and i just went somewhere to get help and its working a little but i want to be the perfrect daughter but i dont know how to do that

2006-12-25 03:16:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-25 03:16:04 · 12 answers · asked by Reo 5

2006-12-25 03:08:12 · 12 answers · asked by MICKEY M 3

I have friends at school but there is this paticular group of people that I want to be with. So how do I become "one of them"?

2006-12-25 02:53:44 · 9 answers · asked by abbyskyblue 1

someone asked me a ? and then they stoped talking to me.

2006-12-25 02:45:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

but one of his friend said me that he is talking with other girls.i asked him about this bt he said that he and his friend had a fight,so his friend is telling lie to me.now i am confused wheater i should beleive him or his friend.if u have any suggestions then please let me know.

2006-12-25 02:42:57 · 2 answers · asked by safiya sweety 1

He is 26 and my friend is 15. She talks to him on the internet and even claims she talks to his mom via emails. She also says he's nice, and he's 3 hours away from her. She says she does not want to have sex but I am scared with drugs, and influence she could be pressured into having sex. I don't want anything to happen to her. I care about her safety and care about her.

What should I do?

Call the police department, tell her parents, tell her what I suspect, what?

2006-12-25 02:36:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

WOULD ANYONE OF YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE MY FRIEND???????? I AM 14,PREETY, SMART, BOLD AND BRAVE. I HAVE A CUTE SMILE. I ALSO LIKE TO MAKE FRIENDS.

2006-12-25 02:35:21 · 9 answers · asked by piyushaa m 1

2006-12-25 02:33:19 · 9 answers · asked by Dantopaz 2

female friendship with male only for time pass? but why?

2006-12-25 02:22:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-25 02:18:44 · 8 answers · asked by Arjun 2

2006-12-25 02:07:27 · 4 answers · asked by jehuan_waugh 1

You know what... suddenly I feel that I do not deserve this girl at all. She is way too perfect for me: Beautiful, kind, caring, friendly, et cetera. Even though I deeply care for her, suddenly I feel so lonely, so alone here. I feel that I do not deserve her.

I have told her my feeling but she said just want to be friends. Since then I am determined to wait for her, but suddenly, I feel that I do not deserve her...

Then I plan to give her something for her birthday next month, but... suddenly I feel that I should just keep it to myself despite the fact that I have made it and it is a lot of effort!
What should I do? Give her, give her not?

2006-12-25 02:04:40 · 20 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2

I'm a senior in high school and for most of my time in school I've wanted to be friends with this one group in particular but I always felt held back. Mianly because I felt obligated to be friends with people who kind of attached to me and wouldn't really have any friends if it weren't for me. But anyway they all seem to have moved away or lost interest in me so at the end of last year I decided that the next year I would not worry about it so much, that I would try not to feel guilty because I had been held back for so many years and figured its senior year I should try to enjoy it as much as I can and make up for lost time. But anyway, I'm so shy that even though they seemed to be very friendly and seemed to give me an opening to be friends with them, I couldn't do it and nothing ever came of it. I tried getting a myspace to talk with them over the internet to show that I wanted to open up a little and stay in touch but i couldn't take the stress and got rid of it, I think upsetting them a little in the process, they were happy I got one. I recently got it back, but the stress is just killing me again and I think I'm getting rid of it again soon. Anyway, the last few months nothing really happened with this group A, but then another girl i like from group B worked on a project with me and one day asked me to sit at lunch with them for one day. I did for the one day but didn't want to look like I had chosen one group over the other because group A has been equally inviting over the years, so I just stopped going to lunch. This has complicated things so much and I just feel trapped. It's made my depression a lot worse, and lately, where I used to try to mingle in groups, I just sit by myself and don't talk, and I'm probably ruining my chances of having friends, but it's gotten to the point where I can't honestly say I care if I'm friends with them sometimes, but other times it just kills me, like when I see pictures of them together and think of what I could've had it makes me so depressed. I'm just getting ready to give up on the whole thing, since I only have a few months to go. Do you think I should do that?

2006-12-25 01:36:50 · 9 answers · asked by leena 4

wigi bored?wat do they do

2006-12-25 01:25:18 · 5 answers · asked by caylee d 1

I've been in a relationship for 3 years, and I have friends that are males. And my boyfriend is freaking out because I still have a beer with them from time to time. They are just FRIENDS that I can talk to when Me and him are fighting . Am I wrong? Or is he insecure or guilty of something? He's accusing me of sleeping with them when we are alone . Which I'm not nor ever have. They are just friends!

2006-12-25 01:15:10 · 10 answers · asked by giggleswsb 1

even if you feel that person deserve it, because he or she was bad?

2006-12-25 01:11:08 · 13 answers · asked by Jagger Otto 7

like i try to help my friends with there lil probs but i create more for myself and i dk *confused*

2006-12-25 00:53:57 · 3 answers · asked by mynah_3 2

Hello there, and Merry Christmas to all. I have a little problem that's been bothering me a bit. It is my co-worker and friend. She is from another country, and about my age. We confided in each other, and I even stayed with her during her surgery last year. Our relation is mostly at work, where we hang out together, go to luch, etc. This has been going on for about 6 years. A couple of months ago, another girl from her country was hired, and now when we go to lunch, this newcomer always comes along. Soon after we sit, the two of them, start carrying on a conversation in their native language, which I don't know anything about. I often find my self sitting at the same table with both of them, but are not able to join in their conversation because I don't speak the language.. I don't like to interrupt people when they are talking, so I just sit there feeling uncomfortable and ignored. If this were you, what would you do?

2006-12-25 00:53:02 · 18 answers · asked by carisondamove 2