I'ma really nice person & the question I posted awhile ago some of those answers weren't called for but it's your opinion but like I was saying dont judge me if you dont know me so if someone says they are beautiful and pretty they are concited or whatever and deserve what comes from them I really think some of you have noidea what you are talking about until you have been in my shoes
2006-12-25 04:56:32 · 30 answers · asked by Popular Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
because u sound conceated and cocky..it would be better if you were humble about it..
2006-12-25 05:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by drg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, sorry I was rude before. Let me tell you why people were disgusted by your previous question.
You started it with "I'm Gorgeous my friend isn't..." Right there, you just blurted out to the whole world that
a) you're not just cute, not just attractive, not just pretty, or even merely beautiful, but GORGEOUS: "dazzlingly beautiful or magnificent" (American Heritage Dictionary). That's not confidence, sweety, that's flat-out vanity.
b) your 'friend' isn't, and she's 'jealous.' Most people with your age and attitude toward life ("it's not MY problem they think I'm a *****, it's theirs!") treat everyone around them like garbage, never thinking twice about how their words or actions might hurt someone. That's why most people are assuming that you "deserve whatever is coming to you." Nobody here REALLY wants to see you get beaten or mugged-- trust me, they'd feel really bad if it happened. They're just acting like it in an effort to make you think twice about your self-centered attitude. Look up the words "modesty" and "humility" and know they are VIRTUES.
People don't dislike you out of jealousy. They dislike you because you're being stuck-up, conceited, vain-- take your pick. You don't see that because you are young, headstrong, and almost hopelessly convinced that you are gorgeous in every way and can do no wrong. The fact that you bothered asking this follow-up question, though, may mean there is hope for you yet. I just hope that you take some of these answers to heart and consider changing your outlook.
I hope this answered your question. Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, etc. I hope you bring some fresh ideas to your list of New Year's resolutions for 2007.
2006-12-26 09:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by CrackityJones_83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me people have the right to their own opinion but if you are beautiful, gorgeous, pretty, cute or whatever be that, but make sure you are also that in the inside not just on the outside, because people will look at you diffrent and they will think diffrently of you. I know I am cute alot of my friends & family tell me but i dont get a big head and go around shuting it out loud and putting it on the internet if someone asks I will just say I'm a cute girl and tell about myself you sound concieted and you need to look at your inner beauty more than your outter beauty because you are making your self look ugly
& to the people with the rude comments if the girl knows she is gorgeous then let her know because you guys are making your selves seem like you hating or jealous dont answer or reply to what she puts on here if it's gonna upset you this much, to disrespect someone.
2006-12-25 13:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In any case if a girl is beautiful and she knows it she usually dosen't advertise the fact that she knows it because that is a unatractive quality. Being confident in yourself is a good quality. But the most beautiful girl can soon be ugly to people with that attitude. Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If your personality sucks you will not be as preety to people. Let people give you the complement and say thankyou, keep your opinion of yourself to yourself and see how much better that works. Last but not least, you asked the question but are having a bit of a problem excepting the answers, see what i mean?
2006-12-25 13:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have some modesty about yourself no matter how great you may think you are, people just don't want to hear someone saying how great they are it sounds self centered,and not many like self centered people. Just ignore the people who may say some bad things about you, but do tone down your opinion of your self. And always remember looks do not last, and you will come to a point in your life where you are no longer as beautiful as you were at one time in your life. It does happen and be prepared for it.
2006-12-25 13:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Urchin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe beacuse you think you're the center of the universe; but the rest of us know that the Sun is the center. 14 year old Paris Hilton wannabes that talk about how great they look and how the world hates them for it are one of the MOST annoying kind of silly B!tches on the planet. If you were all that hot, you would at least have a profile pic or something. Why don't you log off of Yahoo Answers and go back to your homepage:
www.stuckupstupida$$b!tches.com
2006-12-25 13:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you get a life, you won't have to worry about what others think at all. That really wasn't a question you asked was it?
Truly beautiful people don't need to talk about how they look, it's the aura they give off, that makes them beautiful inside and out. That is true confidence with class. Telling others your beautiful, that just comes off as arrogance...there's a very big difference!
2006-12-25 13:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You say don't judge people............
You said that your friend is jealous and that she isn't gorgeous.......
That is an understatement and a judgement........
She might have a good soul and she might not be jealous.
Grow tf up girl friend..... your just waisting your time to try to find people that agree with you. I am more of a friend than you are to this so called "best friend" of yours, you are talking bad behind her back and atleast there are people in the world that stand up for her.
Tell her I said to keep doing what she is doing.......she must have a pure heart and a kind soul compared to yours!
2006-12-25 13:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by **(:Cady:)** 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They may be jealous. Don't let other people's opinions affect your confidence. On the other hand, don't hang out with people who bow down to you because you are gorgeous. The best thing you can do is hang out with other people who are self confident, and use your confidence productively - in addition to helping you feel good about yourself.
2006-12-25 13:06:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be gorgeous on the outside but blatantly referring to yourself as gorgeous does not say much about you on the inside. I am trying to teach my daughter that right now. It makes you an ugly person because you have no regard for others feelings.
2006-12-25 13:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Life is SOOO tough when you are beautiful...I'm sure you are completely miserable. Maybe if you throttled back on narcissistic tendencies, the peeps wouldn't give you so much grief. Try being a little more humble.
2006-12-25 13:03:34 · answer #11 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋