I've been in a relationship for 3 years, and I have friends that are males. And my boyfriend is freaking out because I still have a beer with them from time to time. They are just FRIENDS that I can talk to when Me and him are fighting . Am I wrong? Or is he insecure or guilty of something? He's accusing me of sleeping with them when we are alone . Which I'm not nor ever have. They are just friends!
2006-12-25 01:15:10 · 10 answers · asked by giggleswsb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it is fine to have male friends. just tell ur boyfriend to cool it. its not like u are having a secret affair, right?
2006-12-25 01:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by tz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold fast to your friends and dont let your boyfriends insecurities destroy good friend relationships. Invite your boyfriend to join you and your male friends for some beers sometimes, it may make him feel better about the situation but I would NOT dump my friends.
2006-12-25 01:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I myself have many male friends also and I find nothing wrong with that at all. I find it much easier to get along with them--no offense to my female friends of course--they're there when I need them too. Sometimes a guys perspective is nice to have when we are having a difficult time with our own guy at home--it can help us overcome an obstacle much easier.
2006-12-25 01:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't trust u.There is nothing wrong with going out with male friends.But u shouldn't only do it when your fighting.Go out with them and another girl when u guys aren't fighting.Let him see that he should trust u. If he can't then u might want to find someone that can.A relationship is based on trust.Merry Xmas
2006-12-25 01:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your point of view they are just friends, (I don't believe that either), from their point of view you are a sexual target. Yes, it is wrong unless you don't care all that much about your boyfriend, in which case you should tell him so and stop playing games. (Ha) Like anybody doesn't play games. You would be out of my life like yesterday.
2006-12-25 01:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by bestbet77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not. But let me say: somebody likes somebody....mmm. You put a male and female in a room long enough, something is going to happen.
2006-12-25 01:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by WANT TO DELETE THIS ACCOUNT 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys know guys. they are your friends because they can't be anything more right now but they would all love to bed you as their own.
he's young so he is jealous. If he didn't care about the relationship he wouldn't care about you partying with the boys. Do you let him party with his old female friends?
2006-12-25 01:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this: Are you attracted to one/any of them? Are they trying to get in your pants? And would you care if your boyfriend did the exact same thing? If you wouldn't care if he did the same thing, I think you're in the clear.
2006-12-25 01:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he keeps giving you the name, you will play the game.
2006-12-25 01:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its ok ton have guy friends, i do and i have a bf
2006-12-25 01:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by freedreamer_100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋