Basically, i've got a cousin who's got a dilemna and doesn't know what to do about her friends:
She's been homeschooled all her life, and last year her parents tried to put her in a private school. She went, and made friend, but only staid a year because of financial problems. When she left, she wanted to stay in touch, but the friends stopped calling or emailing.
Lately however, she's been getting lot of phone calls from them, and she's admitted that her 'friends' were just claling to ask her to do their homework for them. She told me that she doesn't mind, because it's only english hw and it's quite easy for her (she's smart!) but she was really hurt that they only called for hw, she feels she's being used.
She's got a choice between these solutions:
1)Should she tell them right out 1 day on the phone that they've hurt her and explain why,
2)Ignore their calls and/or emails and simply cut off contacts like this
3)Should she go on pretending and stay friends even if she's hurt?
2006-11-02
22:48:51
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