She keeps complaining about being fat and has really low self-esteem. I keep reassuring her but nothing I say is good enough. How can I reassure her once and for all?
2006-11-02 23:24:07 · 11 answers · asked by bluebottling 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Show her pictures of Rosie McDonnell and Rosanne. Tell her now that's fat. And her question is??
2006-11-02 23:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes there is nothing that you can do to reassure someone that they are not fat, especially girls. One thing I will say is that some do it for a reaction out of people, if she comments tell her she isn't and then ignore it or change the topic, if that doesn't work and she is truely convinced then try getting someone (who isn't close to her) to comment, maybe another friend of yours or someone like that
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2006-11-02 23:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Lizzie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, no one can make her believe she is not fat except herself. Apparently, you telling her isn't taking effect.
Take her to a department store and try on dresses together. Give her a dress in a much bigger size than what she is and have her try it on, no questions asked. When she comes out, and it's obviously way too big on her, tell her that that is what fat people wear, and since she can't fill out the dress she is obviously not fat.
2006-11-03 00:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one is easy! You should take her for a girls day out. Go shoping and even a little make over, then hook her up with a blind data if she not tooken, she should fell a lot better.
2006-11-02 23:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by lil_mama69smokie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make her feel good in her skin and assure her that you will always be her friend and that for you it doesn't matter what she looks like.It's not important haw you look on the outside but haw you look on your inside
2006-11-03 05:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by black_cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't matter how much you tell her, if she is to accept herself it has to come from within. I know this because I am the exact same myself!
2006-11-03 00:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly she sounds somewhat obese, perchance u ought to convince her to do a game with u, or circulate on bike rides or something lively with u, i know strolling appears like sufficient, in spite of the undeniable fact that it relatively is incredibly no longer something,
2016-11-27 01:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by wicklund 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you figure that out let me know ! b/c i have been telling my wife that for the last 6 yr still does not work!♠
2006-11-02 23:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by 32606 3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give her food, put her on a diet. Then one day you will find her begging for food
2006-11-03 00:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by POWERBS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her it doesnt matter because all people are equally important.
accept jesus so you can repent from your sins and be saved.
2006-11-03 03:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋