Well all my friends are mad at me , my boyfriend ditched me when we were walking home and I just found out my parents are getting divorced!!!! My life is a mess and i've been shedding tears for hours... anyone know what I can do??
2006-11-02 19:26:32 · 39 answers · asked by XYasmineX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What is everyone getting mad at you for?
And what does your parents divorce have to do with your relationship?
What kind of a boy would leave you when you need emotional support the most?
A freind in need is a friend indeed.
The guy is not a friend and definately not needed.
Id say good riddence to bad rubbish.
Hold on to yourself.
Be strong.
You and your parents need each other.
This is not the time to worry over hum-bugs who dont deserve your freindship, its a time of family crisis.
Be there for your parents.You may be the only link that may help them from falling apart.
2006-11-02 19:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Isha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bad times will pass. It might not seem like it, but they will.
Now, if it's true ALL your friends are mad at you, there must have been something you did to make them mad. You need to be honest with yourself about that and take responsibility. I wonder if your boyfriend was mad about the same thing, or if that is a totally separate issue. If he just ditched you for no reason, well sorry, but he couldn't have been a very good boyfriend.
Your parents divorce, that's really crappy. However they must have been fighting a lot and you will probably find in the long run things will get better, without all that tension.
There is nothing you can do about the divorce. Concentrate on the things you can change. I don't know if you're religious, but if I were you I would pray about it.
2006-11-02 19:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there's not a lot you can do about your parents" divorce, that is between them, and while you are being affected you have to suffer in silence......on the other hand.... why are ALL your friends angry with you? what could you have done, to bring this about. And most boyfriends don't just decide to dump you while walking you home, whats that all about? what are the issues the two of you are having? ask him, if you can fix it do so if not, then as best as you can move on. Believe it or not this too will pass, and you will wonder what all the drama was about. just hang in there, talk to a good friend, or your parents if you have that kind of relationship, or keep writing your thoughts, and feelings down maybe in a journal, I find that this helps me tremendously, and as bad as you may be hurting right now just take one day at a time, don't worry about tomorrow, concentrate only on making it through the day, take every other day just like that and sooner than later, one day you will wake up and the sun will be out again, then you will be back!!! P.S. you can always make up with your friends, thats what friends are for. to make us miserable from time to time. not to worry about them, think about it, you have been angry with them before right???.and you made up.
2006-11-02 20:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are religious, use your faith and pray for things to get better.
Otherwise, just take solace in the fact that in the end everything will be ok. Your true friends will get over whatever they are mad about (especially if you apologize if you were wrong), your boyfriend is a loser for ditching so you don't need him, and your parents might be happier now that they don't have to be in a bad relationship, which will be better for you.
I hope everything works out for you, I'm sure it will. Hang in there kiddo.
2006-11-02 19:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jake S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, your parents gotta sort out their own stuffs. they are matured enough to have kids, leave them to it. no doubt you are affected, but you must understand that they can and must decide on this issue themselves. no point for them to stay in this marriage if it ain't gonna work out. sometimes, divorce is for the better. secondly, if the guy dumps you, either you guys are not meant together or there's some problem with him or your relationship. there are better guys there. whearas for your friends, you must find out why they were angry in the first place. did you do anything wrong? cheer up and solve your problems one by one. sometimes, if you break up a big piece of bread, it's easier to chew.
it's only problems and upsets in life that makes us stronger. i was brought up in the school of hard knocks and my life hasnt exactly been a bed of roses. but i must admit these are the things that make me stronger. now i take a step at a time and takes everything with a pinch of salt.
start a journal, sometimes when you write down things that are bothering you for that day, it doesnt look so bad when you write it down. years down the road and you read your journal, you'll remember how you survive the knocks. good luck!
2006-11-02 19:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by blossomjade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to lay down and rest. Get some sleep and try to sort out your head later. One thing at a time hon, you don't have to fix it all within a day. Guys will come and go and if your friends are really your friends they will come around. Your parents are adults, let them work out their problems. The best thing you can do is lay low at home and understand that there may be some tension until things are decided. Good luck and big hugs!
2006-11-02 19:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like things are pretty bad right now. I am sorry to hear that. You need to find someone who you can cry to on their shoulder. Maybe go talk with a sister or a grandparent. Just tell them how you feel.
I know that is not good advice at all. I am sorry for where you are at; it is hard to know how to help over the internet.
I hope tomorrow is a better day.
2006-11-02 19:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is a mixture of GOOD and BAD things.Now it is all screwed up because you are realising BAD things.You have to wait for the GOOD time to realise happy moments.You cannot make friendship with OR live with rattling SNAKE and be happy.So,find out the snakes and avoid living or contact with them.Life is an experience.Go for the GOOD! Leave the BAD to BAD people!Enjoy &share GOOD only!
2006-11-02 19:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cast your burdens upon the lord he is always there when you need him. Things may look hopeless right now but believe me it will get better. remember that god does not make you face challenges he know you cant get through.
Read john 14 verse 1 and psalms 23 when ever you feel like the world is on your shoulders just read out loud and know that he is listening to you
2006-11-02 20:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by destiny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all go through hard times!
We all have friends and family members who die.
We all have friends that get mad at us, or we get mad at them.
We all get dumped or have dumped someone else.
It happens to us all, and the term "Time heals everything." is a false saying. Sometimes no matter how much time has passed, we still are greiving, alone, and hurt.
Life is hard! Relationships are hard! Death is hard!
I don't have any advice on how to *get over it*. I really don't know what to tell you. But, Good Luck hun. and God Bless.
2006-11-02 19:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋