I go out with my friend almost everyday. Infact even if she's busy she takes out some time to spend with me. I'm badly in love with her. I shared my feelings. But she refused to answer. She knows I have strong feelings for her but still ignores this topic. What to do?
2006-11-02 23:08:00 · 20 answers · asked by Friend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Trust me I know the feeling. My best friend and I are actually dating now because of it though and I can tell you its not easy. Thinking about a friend in ways that are more sexual can be difficult if they dont feel the same way. Have you been friends for a long time? if so, her reluctant (or non existant) response may be because she is afraid of loosing you as a friend if anything should go wrong. Try talking to her, its a lot easier if you don't do it face to face because if you get angry (or she does) you can simply walk away rather than looking at each other. You need to make sure that she wants what you do and reassure her that if anything DOES go wrong you will find a way to still be there for her.
If you want further advice I reccommend emailling misslizzieadvice@yahoo.com.au though I am on that account its really my friends and she runs an advice column in our school
2006-11-02 23:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Lizzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1, Maybe she is not that into you but she doesn't wanna hurt u.
2, She doesn't wanna lose such a good friend as you are.It's so hard to make a true friend but so easy to find a boyfriend.
3, She needs some times to think about it.
So my advice is, don't push her. Let her take her time to think about it. You should let her know that if she doesn't have the feeling towards u, u guys can keep being friends and u will keep ur emotion in check.
2006-11-03 07:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fancied my best friend for about 5 years and she never wanted me back. I spent those years very depressed and in a bad place. You need to sit her down and find out how she feels. If she likes you back then well done you, if she doesnt then you gotta get over her pronto. (and that isnt easy to do) Good luck either way.
2006-11-03 10:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by Richard L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by ignoring your question im sorry to say that she has given u her answer she sees you as a friend not as a partner and i think she dosnt want to hurt you in anyway, so to not hurt u shes prentending that its not exsisting all you can do is be her friend, try making her jelous and if she responds then ask her out, if she dosnt then be her mate. sorry if it not what u wanna here, plus im in the same boat only may best mate like me, i was just striaght and said no
2006-11-03 08:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by sarah_squidge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do but wait it out and don't push the issue. She will let you know when she is ready one way or another. Trying to force love makes enemies.>
2006-11-03 07:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time, she may not have been ready for this. She may feel the same way you feel and does not know how to express her feelings to you. I reccomend you continue to treat her special. And dont press any issue. and dont be impatient. Be patient with her
2006-11-03 07:15:06 · answer #6 · answered by MeToo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's just not comfortable around you at this time knowing that you love her. give her some time to adjust. time will come that she'll have a response. and c'mon a lot of people fall for they friends? right? sooo, don't lose any hope on her. who knows? she might be the right one for you. you just gonna have to wait. she IS your best friend and she'll understand. hope i helped yah. gud luck.
2006-11-03 07:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she KNOWS you have feelings for her and she doesn't act or answer to them. CONGRATULATIONS you are a FRIEND WITHOUT BENEFITS! Just be happy you have a kick *** friend and go find yourself a GIRLFRIEND. Maybe her seeing you with someone else will spark a little jealously bug in her to pursue YOU!
2006-11-03 07:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's either u ignor it too or u stay away from her and she will ealize she has feelings for u too coz she may have them too but not know and if that does not work then you she does not have feelings and u defiinatly can force her ,so u just carry on
2006-11-03 07:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your friend som time. Eventually the feelings will be returned. Hang in there. Don't push your feeling on her because sh will feel pushed
2006-11-03 07:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋