we were best friends for about some 4 yrs until one of my friends came in between us. One day without my knowledge my "friend" went over to my best friend's house. After that my 'once-upon-a-time-best friend' has been sticking around more with the other girl.I'm heartbroken.
2006-11-02 23:07:46 · 9 answers · asked by jasmine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
A friend cannot be 'stolen' because one person cannot own another. There was nothing wrong with your longtime companion going over to another friend's house. The question is: Why would she feel it necessary to do it on the sly?
Is it possible that you were being too possessive and excluding other people from what could become a circle of close friends?
Try widening your horizons. Different people can bring different perspectives and talents to a friendship.
Also remember that true friendship leaves room for tactful and gentle honesty. Leave an opening for friends to let you know if something's bothering them, and small problems can be worked out before they become big ones and cause the end of relationships.
2006-11-03 03:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself one thing. Would a best friend really desert you if they cared about you??? If you answer no then what are you worrying about? You are worthy of something more than these people. It can be hard to make friends but in the long run you will find someone better.
Email misslizzieadvice@yahoo.com.au for further information, she is a rather good advice columist (im on her account at the moment, she is a friend of mine) she could give better advice than I could
2006-11-02 23:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Lizzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, depending on your age, sometimes that doesn't always last. I'd ride it out and hang out with them when you can and find new friends and interests too. You know sometimes friendships and relationships can become stale and boring because you see each other all the time. This might be a new thing that doesn't last.
2006-11-02 23:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by SheRa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless your heart, I am so sorry. Instead of stealing your best friend-your friend should have been a friend to you -neither of them are true friends!
2006-11-02 23:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Neither of them were true friends
2006-11-02 23:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by johnno K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry think that its only some days as his precence is new
heor she willnot missu difinitely
as i once experienced it
be happy
2006-11-03 00:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by swaroopstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
........life is like that.........It's a constant progress of change and alteration, that basically touch's everyone from time to time.....Pretty much par for the course........
2006-11-02 23:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me 2. theyre scum
2006-11-02 23:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by NoBody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go elswhere
2006-11-02 23:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋