Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

My boyfriend- Brad Buerk- he left me for some blonde who can't even walk in a pair of high heels. she's turned my life into a complete disaster. I need some ideas. I'm lost and i'm sad. ;) HOT GUYS????

2007-03-25 13:55:38 · 6 answers · asked by Lefty 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 13:55:28 · 8 answers · asked by ally_oop_64 4 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I deal with my father who is 74 and tells women that he is rich just to get them in bed but neglects to tell them he is married and the truth is he barely has a pot to piss in and a window to throw it out of he keeps taking out loans so he can give them money that he doesn't have. when he dies every thing will go to pay off his loans. He also tells them he has water front property to impress them. and that his property is worth 7 hundred million dollars. The house is falling down around them just like the barn and garage did. I haven't figured out if these women are stupid or just gullible. He also smells like the inside of a barn and never takes a bath unless its saterday. Even his own brothers will not admit they are related.

2007-03-25 13:55:22 · 5 answers · asked by gur6sul 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this annoying kid at school. His name is Teddy. My name is Daniel. My girlfriend's name is Kyoka. Teddy is in love with Kyoka and so am I. I took her to the dance and she said that she liked me and gave me a kiss. Then Teddy e-mailed me and said that she liked him not me. Then I asked Kyoka and she said that she hated Teddy. I e-mailed Teddy back and I told him that Kyoka hated him. He said thougth I was lying. What should I do?

2007-03-25 13:55:18 · 8 answers · asked by Daniel 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so there is this guy, he’s soooooooooo gorgeous and he just happens to be the guy all the girls want, he has been my friend for some time now and I have never really thought as him in that way because he hasn't dated girls in a long time because he doesn’t think most of them are worth his time, but I heard about 2 months ago he liked me, I have never been afraid to tell him how I really see him and I think he likes someone who isn’t so clingy with him. Anyway we have been flirting for the past month or so off and on and then last week we ended up making out for a bit. I think he likes me but he is so inward, my friend talked to him about it and he told her he didn’t tell that kind of thing, he has no respect for girls who just sleep around so do you think he wants a relationship? Or does he just want action?

Oh the other thing is he is three years older then me...

2007-03-25 13:54:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 13:54:17 · 5 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-25 13:53:54 · 10 answers · asked by ? 4 in Friends

I don't know what to do. My brother is so mean to me. For the simplist things he hits me. My parents don't see him hit me and if they do some how it turns to be my fault. If he was my father (which he isn't) The school Would have called the cops on him and some other crap. He's hurting me! I don't know what to do. The lastest thing that happened is my mom and my dad went out and he wasn't doin to dishes and I called my parents and there like He needs to do the dishes now. Then I told him, then he started to walk towards me and he slaps me and twists my arm. Now there is a bruise. I hate him so much. I don't know what to do. Please Help me?

2007-03-25 13:52:59 · 8 answers · asked by volleyballis4ever 3 in Family

In 2005, I dated someone briefly and broke up with her because I had strong feelings towards someone else. She really liked me, but I just didn't appreciate it at the time because I was so hung up on this other woman (who she knew about). Time went on and we stayed friends, though not close friends. At one point, I didn't see her for about six months.

Now, she's single again and has been hanging out with the group once more. I sense that she's still attracted to me, and I'd love to ask her out again. But I'm not sure how. There's a definite "distance" vibe that comes across when I hint at wanting to see her again, though she's been game for group activities and our interactions are positive in that setting. The distance is understandable, as I didn't give her feelings too much thought in 2005 and hurt her. But I want to tell her that I'm sorry and that my feelings are a lot different now (without making it too awkward).

How to proceed?

2007-03-25 13:52:45 · 1 answers · asked by Blenderhead 5 in Singles & Dating

What was the turning point that led you to make the decision you had to move on and leave? My husband is very controlling and acts like a spoilt brat - when I talk to him, he ridicules, repeats what I say, then punishes me with silence and would never admit if he is angry or whatever. Passive-agressive.

"Linda M": please reply too, it sounds like a similar situation.

2007-03-25 13:52:29 · 17 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-25 13:52:26 · 1 answers · asked by Panda 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so angry, hurt. I just got back from spending the day at the beach and what was supposed to be a beautiful and relaxing day was ruined. Am I worthless and without character because I chose to ignore a group of loudmouth kids who were splashing and laughing and being annoying? I was studying and tuned them out because I just wanted to enjoy the sunshine and fresh air. I honestly didn't hear what they were saying, and I did ask them to stop throwing rocks at the ducks and geese. But my husband said I was a spineless coward for not getting up and going over to where they were to tell them that their language was offensive. I only heard one of them say "fat azz" a couple of times, but my husband says they were dropping "F-bombs" and I should have straightened them out. He says he can't stand cowardly doormats, and he won't be with anybody who has no character. He kept cussing at me in a loud voice and there were other people around. I told him to shut up, and now we're not speaking.

2007-03-25 13:52:06 · 6 answers · asked by Pippa A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriends parents won't let her have a boyfriend until she is 18. I want to be with her but how? We go to school together but it's not enough time to see her.

2007-03-25 13:51:57 · 5 answers · asked by chris 3 in Singles & Dating

A man about to marry, having feeling for you is he confused, He has not tried anything.

2007-03-25 13:50:47 · 1 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 13:50:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can you tell for sure? Been together about 2.5 years, lately he's just changed the way he's acting... He's distant, doesn't want to see me as much, then he goes away for a weekend with the 'boys' but y are the condoms & lubricant not where he usually has them (theyr gone). I know everyone is going to say he's cheating for sure, but how am I to know? I never thought he'd cheat on me, but now I just don't know. Am I just paranoid or is there reason to be suspisious!

2007-03-25 13:50:36 · 4 answers · asked by idk 3 in Singles & Dating

yahoo personals & totally clicked. He used to text me & call me everyday. I know he had his 3 yr. old this weekend, that he adores, but is that a reason not to call? He said he wanted to do something this Saturday but I never heard from him. Last time we saw each other was Thur. night & it ended great! I've left a message on his cell Sat., text him to say happy birthday this morning (Sun.) but still haven't heard from him. I text him yesterday to ask if everything was alright & he replied back saying, "cooking. yes." Should i assume he lost his phone & doesn't have my cell anymore? I don't think it's b/c we had sex. We really had a connection after our first time. I really am attracted to the guy & don't know when I should stop trying to get a hold of him. Should I email him with my number in case he lost it?? I really don't want to seem desperate. What if someone saw the text messages & erased them (maybe an x or someone who likes him.) what if he got in a wreck? Im 30, by theway

2007-03-25 13:50:17 · 26 answers · asked by J girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I know a girl from 7 months now but I dont see her alot maybe 1 time a month but I talk with her alot on telephone or email, she told me that she have a bf but I don belive that I don know why when I see her the last time she sat beside me and she touched my arm and she made me went with her beside window (me and her alone) and talk, I feel after I see her that she changed alot with me couz when I visited her the last time she called me 5 times that day and the last call was in 2:30 am and said that she cant sleep, but when I didnt see her she didnt call at all.. me just callin. I know that am crazy but what can I do to know
sometimes she talked about her bf to me and there is one time she asked me do u love me but in that time may be I didnt interested on her so I said no and for over 20 days she kept ignoring me and dont talk to me even on the net when she saw me she signd out but now we back as usual just on da telephone, I wana to know if she love me and his bf is a fake help plz

2007-03-25 13:50:06 · 3 answers · asked by lololo 1 in Singles & Dating

is this the reason i cant get guys?


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2007-03-25 13:49:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-25 13:49:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i need help with my BF!! HELP!!!

2007-03-25 13:48:32 · 7 answers · asked by Kewlio . 1 in Singles & Dating

What Should i do..okay i live in memphis im 16 im in 10th grade im a basketball player i go to church dads a pastor..okay i have a really smart mouth and a terrible attuide Problem...i stay in Trouble 24-7..i get kick out of school alot..teachers call everyday..get Suspend and fights every other week...Should i move to Spokane WA with my 25 year old brother..and finish school and play basketball...or just stay here and deal with it..i am putting to much pressure on my mom and dad...while im at school...my dad gave up on me one day i felt really bad and i stop doing every thing..but it just follows me please help......Should i move with my brother in spokane or what

2007-03-25 13:48:27 · 4 answers · asked by playa_rod_200609 1 in Family

he hasent used since last year, but now he went on a bender last week. he has gotten so paranoid that he thought i was out to get him. (im half his size) unfortunately, i work for him. he recieved a large down payment on a job so he has alot of money to blow. he told me he was going to an a.a. meeting tonite @830pm.i know when he is using. and tonite im pretty sure he is. the thing is im really tired of making up some type of bullshit to get him out of his lies to the customers.and if i dont,he'll take it out on me.by either not paying me or throwing me out on the street for speaking up. does anybody know of a way i can get out of this whole situation.without becoming homeless,im really tired of walking on eggshells around this guy. i guess it all boils down to myself moving in w/ this guy. we were both in recovery now he is going to dictate my life / future for me???signed very very mad

2007-03-25 13:48:25 · 7 answers · asked by mikul515 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have not spoken to Moms side of the family in 5 years because they chose that. Lets say my Aunt who has not contacted me or my my mom in 5 years dies, do I have to go to her funeral?
I dont want to at all. but shes being buried in the same plot as my father and where my mom will be.

2007-03-25 13:48:25 · 10 answers · asked by tbo 1 in Family

i will try to call him, but he'll hang up on me. we haven't talked in over a month, and i'm kinda worried that something has happened. he said that he was going to leave home since his brothers/sisters and his mom didn't want him around. he said he was going to either move in with his friends, or he was going to leave the country. and i'm afraid he has moved out of the country. can anybody help me on what i should do?!?!?!

2007-03-25 13:47:51 · 4 answers · asked by princesstocrown 2 in Singles & Dating

Who is harder for you to get over

A woman/girl you who never knew how you felt

Or a woman/girl you dated for a short period of time (like a month or so)

and WHY?

2007-03-25 13:47:37 · 14 answers · asked by LuvUrGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend might dump me cause:
1.) on the phone, i barely talk about anything cause i barely do anything. sometimes we just dont talk.
2.) i compliment her only 5 times a week and she wants 7.

WHAT DO I DO? please, shes the only one who will ever go out with me. shes my first. no one has ever loved me like she has. i dont want to lose her.

2007-03-25 13:47:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

During the Fall time of year, what is your favorite or funnest or fondest memory?

2007-03-25 13:47:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My roommate comes from a rich family and is used to not having to do anything. Lately she has been trying to get me to do everything around the house. We alternate chores, but she asked me to clean the house and cook a few weeks ago in exchange for $20. I am always short cash and gladly accepted. Over the last couple of weeks this has become the norm. Our friendship also seems to be more distant as well.

This morning I thought things were better because she gave me a present. It was a black skirt and white blouse - the same uniform her family's maid wears. I thought it was a joke and laughed it off, but she said it would keep my regular clothes from getting dirty. She even had me try it on.

I felt like an idiot, but was not sure what to say. Her father pays our rent and I cannot afford a place on my own, but this seems a bit extreme. Is Beth really being my friend? Is this a joke?

2007-03-25 13:46:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What are the traits of a good husband when it comes to the dealings with his family?

2007-03-25 13:46:45 · 17 answers · asked by Duke 2 in Marriage & Divorce