How do I deal with my father who is 74 and tells women that he is rich just to get them in bed but neglects to tell them he is married and the truth is he barely has a pot to piss in and a window to throw it out of he keeps taking out loans so he can give them money that he doesn't have. when he dies every thing will go to pay off his loans. He also tells them he has water front property to impress them. and that his property is worth 7 hundred million dollars. The house is falling down around them just like the barn and garage did. I haven't figured out if these women are stupid or just gullible. He also smells like the inside of a barn and never takes a bath unless its saterday. Even his own brothers will not admit they are related.
2007-03-25 13:55:22 · 5 answers · asked by gur6sul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My 74 year old father is having an affair with women that are younger than his children my mother has alzheimters and for the past 38 years she has taken care of this man because he can not work due to black out spells. This man lies and tells everyone that he is rich but barely has a pot to piss in and a window to throw it out of. Every time we try to talk to him about his behavior he throws a tempertantrrum like a two year old. if he was tow i would stand him in a corner until he behaves. Also the farm that they have was inherited from my mothers father so why should he put her in a nursing home and move someone into her rightful inheritence. he is letting the house fall down and will not let any of us kids try to help do repairs instead we are accused of stealing because we do not feel since mom took care of him for so long that he should treat her like this. bad me the shed roof is falling in right above the entrance to the house. but we get told that it doesn't need to be
2007-03-25 15:38:27 · update #1
Tell him how disgusted you are with his behavior and that it is wrong to acquire all that debt because your mom will be stuck with it. Tell him he will lose you as a daughter if he keeps cheating on your mom and he will die a lonely old man. He also sounds out of control if you know about it and you should keep your children away from him. It's wrong to stand by and do nothing when he is hurting your mom who needs help.
2007-03-25 14:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 70 years old, if his wife has no issues with it, why are you so concerned? Give the women his number and have him deal with them. He's a big boy.
2007-03-25 14:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
per chance that is the total "interracial taboo" (or some thing like that) that promises a spark or some thing to the sex? because, definite, I have heard white women say black men are extra valuable in mattress, yet i have also heard black women say white men are extra valuable in mattress.
2016-12-02 19:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your mothers problem, not yours.
2007-03-25 14:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't
2007-03-25 14:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋