My girlfriend might dump me cause:
1.) on the phone, i barely talk about anything cause i barely do anything. sometimes we just dont talk.
2.) i compliment her only 5 times a week and she wants 7.
WHAT DO I DO? please, shes the only one who will ever go out with me. shes my first. no one has ever loved me like she has. i dont want to lose her.
2007-03-25 13:47:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you are better off without her.
2007-03-25 13:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-08-10 21:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by brandl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 1st off women do love to be complemented, its just a woman thing we want to know were beautiful every day of the year. Thats just something were born with. So yes you tell her all the time but just add a little you look nice today or something like that when you can. Even if your just going to the store or driving in the car. 2nd the whole not talking on the phone thing. I did the same thing with my fiance when we were still just dating, one thing you could do is just play 20 questions, talk about your parents and how they drive you crazy, or just stupid stuff it doesnt have to be about anything important. You could even talk about an animal you like or something ya'll have in common and its a perfect time to give her a complement:) kill 2 birds with one stone ya know. hope this info is helpful to you.
2007-03-25 14:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joey,
You seemed to know your problem already, now resolve them.
You say you barely talk... well find something to talk about :), I'm sure there are plenty of things you can talk about... talk about yourself and let her know you and listen to her and get to know her.
To be honest here, if you said she loves you like she does, then I don't see why she would want to break up...
It seems like there are a lot of miss communication in your relationship and you know what happens when there are no communications? The relationship starts to drift off.
Talk with her, open up, what have you got to lose?
If it doesn't work out at the end, at least you known you've done your best.
Good luck.
2007-03-25 13:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you compliment her 5 times a week and SHE wants 7, there is definately a problem. She must be very insecure. You need to be yourself, and I know you will find a true love. I don't know how old you are, but if you are young, under 18, then just take your time. Don't play games with a person who "needs' compliments. It just isn't worth it....
2007-03-25 14:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by barb b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Joey, forget the bird, you need to do some work on yourself. You need to learn to like yourself and get some self respect. What are yout thinking taking that kind of crap from anyone? There are millions of women in the world don't worry about that. Build your own character, be yourself and you will attract a woman you can be comfortable with. Don't look to other people for approval, get to know yourself.
2007-03-25 13:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by beachloveric 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh. I'm curious to know how old you are. It sounds like you are still in high school. Most people don't talk on the phone they go on dates and talk there so they can hang out with one another. There is something wronf with her. Demanding compliments every week?? Honestly who does that? I would never expect a guy to compliment me every week. That's immature. I never expect complimetments because that's asking too much. You can find someone better who you don't have to catter to.
2007-03-25 13:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-01 11:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships die: they die- if you don't feed them!
MAKE UP YOUR MIND.
Put in the very little effort it takes to demonstrate that you value another human being's existence and especially, their presence in your life. That person chooses to be with you on a daily basis. What you do and what you don't do, but should do, is what influences the other 's choice. When she leaves, finally, it is a s a result of your treatment of her. YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE.
Love, cherish, show compassion and support her.
She might stay, as long as you feed her needs.
2007-03-27 00:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't make her feel appreciated. First of all, compliment her 10 times a day, not 5 times a week. Tell her you're really happy to be with her. Give her lots of spontaneous affection (run up behind her and kiss her, that sort of thing).
2007-03-25 13:51:02 · answer #10 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
flowers, lots of flowers
a song wrote especially for her
do something! so you have something to talk about
tell her all the time how beautiful she is
tell her all the time how much you love her
tell her your thoughts, dreams, ambitions, etc.
a romantic dinner, then a nice hotel suite afterwards
jewelry
and most of all: gain more self esteem. She may be your first, but worst case scenario if she does dump you, she won't be your last.
2007-03-25 13:52:48 · answer #11 · answered by Crystal Rene 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋