he hasent used since last year, but now he went on a bender last week. he has gotten so paranoid that he thought i was out to get him. (im half his size) unfortunately, i work for him. he recieved a large down payment on a job so he has alot of money to blow. he told me he was going to an a.a. meeting tonite @830pm.i know when he is using. and tonite im pretty sure he is. the thing is im really tired of making up some type of bullshit to get him out of his lies to the customers.and if i dont,he'll take it out on me.by either not paying me or throwing me out on the street for speaking up. does anybody know of a way i can get out of this whole situation.without becoming homeless,im really tired of walking on eggshells around this guy. i guess it all boils down to myself moving in w/ this guy. we were both in recovery now he is going to dictate my life / future for me???signed very very mad
2007-03-25 13:48:25 · 7 answers · asked by mikul515 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's obvious that you've become a co-dependant for this person. He has no feelings about what he's doing to you, the business and what's really sad....he has no feelings for himself. He's more than likely hurting inside, and needs emotional help and to go into detox ASAP! The best advice I can give you, is to prepare to leave. If you've both been in the program, you both should know that being together is not the best plan...even if your roommates. It sounds as if he's abusive mentally by threatening to get rid of you. Again, you should plan to move out quickly, and get yourself some help also. You deserve to be treated with respect, dignity and worthiness. Believe me.....been there, done that.....finally woke up.
2007-03-25 16:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by Pixie48 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i grew to become into going to signify which you do away with the roommate. He would have performed some thing to her jointly as you weren't around which you do not understand approximately. canines are stable at determining the character of persons and perhaps she senses somthing approximately your roommate that she does not like or feels is a probability to you and/or her. If he's dropping staying power along with her that may not stable. Abused animals want specific care in rehabilitation to learn the have faith of people returned. It takes specific human beings to undertake and win back the have faith of abused animals. I applaud you for taking the time to help her out and supply her a loving domicile. this is unlucky which you have a roommate who isn't so variety and loving.
2016-11-23 15:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The news isn't good. Until your roommate hits rock bottom, he will use. If he uses, he puts not only himself, but you, in jeopardy. Having that stuff around the house and getting caught is immediate arrest for him and YOU. Also, if you are in recovery, isn't he jeopardizing your sobriety? You will both be homeless if he continues. My advice: move out right away and find another job. I'm not trying to be heartless, but I, too, am in recovery, and I know I couldn't do what you are doing without grim results. Good Luck.
2007-03-25 14:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a local YMCA that offers boarding and get a new job.
2007-03-25 14:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id rather be on the streets than with a drug user how about you get a decent room mate
2007-03-25 14:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a better room with a better room-mate!
2007-03-25 14:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new roommate.............
2007-03-25 14:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋