Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

I mean, you know, if you say it politely of course...Like you tell them that you're not fond of mind games and to just tell you if they don't want you to call or text or see them anymore.

2007-03-19 13:48:15 · 3 answers · asked by shere143 3 in Singles & Dating

So the first guy is my bestfriends worst enymys bestfriend. the other is the guy that my friends say would be perfect for me, but I dont like him as much as the other guy. This is maddening! they both dont know i like them. I dont know what to say or who, or how to tell either of the guys! gwad, I doomed! HELP!

2007-03-19 13:48:00 · 10 answers · asked by mads4u283 1 in Singles & Dating

wat shoud i do if he cheated on me, but i can tell he still cares about me &he broke up w/ all his other g/f s because i made him guilty about it? i still love him so much!

2007-03-19 13:47:45 · 8 answers · asked by girly_22 1 in Singles & Dating

we got married 6 months ago.

2007-03-19 13:47:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really could use some good advice on how we can learn to understand each other better. Everything is great all of the time until--we go out together with our friends (he does not like mine) after a couple beers he wants liquor and then he gets mean and mad verbally. The next day he regrets it and runs out for several days. I say things mean back out of frustration. How do we stop this pattern. It seems like it would be easy but it's not. I just want him to handle our problems and not run out. I love him and I really want to do all I can to fix this problem. What should I do. Friends and family tend to give bias advise!

2007-03-19 13:47:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my x-boyfriend and I of 8 years broke up 6 months ago. I was just planning on having fun, not really liking somone else so soon. but I do. What if he doesn't call me, when should I call him? why do I feel sad that he hasn't called yet? It's only Monday night! We talked so much on the phone before the date. I know he had fun also because he really showed it. He even got affectionate with me ... kissed me, held my hand. Man, I've never had a guy open the doors for me, even the car door. And I'm 30! I feel like I'm in high school again. I don't want to seem too eager or desperate or pushy, you know. Please help me and men, I'd love it if you answered also. Thanks.

2007-03-19 13:46:45 · 6 answers · asked by J girl 1 in Singles & Dating

once again thak you all xxxx

2007-03-19 13:46:24 · 10 answers · asked by lees 5 in Singles & Dating

i have a best friend and he gives me love and respect. but i think i need to end our friendship because every time we are together i feel the urge to kiss him and i want more but i know that he don't what should i do stay or go?

2007-03-19 13:45:52 · 1 answers · asked by Kylah O'Neal 2 in Friends

2007-03-19 13:45:48 · 37 answers · asked by juju 3 in Singles & Dating

I finally got out of my writer's block and I am trying to finish writing my book. It is a romance novel and it is going pretty well, the only thing is I have never been in love, never had a boyfriend or been on any dates, so I am writing based off of what I have seen or heard. If any of you have been in love and are willing to share what it feels like or anything like that please let me know, because I am running out of ideas...

2007-03-19 13:45:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in my teens and i have an on and off relationship with my mother.The other night we got in this fight and i'm not sure if i could talk to my mom about personal problems anymore. I'm not even sure if i could tell her that i love her anymore.I really do love her, its just that i'm afraid that she won't believe me and won't forgive me. :(

2007-03-19 13:44:49 · 10 answers · asked by Euphoria 3 in Family

Is it okay of a 11 year old girl to like a 9 year old boy?

2007-03-19 13:44:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love history and my fiance loves the outdoors, so we are thinking about getting married at Ide Adobe State Park on the Sacramento River near Red Bluff. It will be in the spring of course, when all the leaves are fresh and green, and while the weather is cool.

2007-03-19 13:44:37 · 8 answers · asked by JTJC 1 in Weddings

Okay, i have this amazing friend who lives across the state (2 1/2 hours) from me. i only get to see him, at most, maybe twice a year. (Generally not that often.) We talk online all the time, & i feel like i've known him forever, even though it's only been a few years. When we first met, i was attracted to him & i'm pretty sure he was attracted to me since he flirted back the whole time we were together. After that, he broke up with his gf but nothing developed. I got to see him again the next year, after we both got home, he said that i "looked real good". A few weeks after this, he got another girlfriend. This is when things started changing. We still talked, but but my feelings died, because I knew he was unavailable. A little less than a year later though, my feelings returned, & i said something to him about it. He said he was glad that i had told him & told me if he hadn't been with his gf he deff would have feelings back. This was about 2 years ago. He's gone thru another gf since then & is now dating another girl. Things just never worked out, bc when he was single i wasn't. Now he's taken again, and i still want him. I don't think i've ever really pushed him out of my head, except for when i was dating. We talk a lot, and some of the time, it seems like he wants to be with me, he'll flirt or say something that just totally makes it confusing. He's coming to be my date for prom this spring, as it's my last HS dance. I don't know how i'm going to handle it. He belongs to someone else, but i love him so much. What is he doing to me?!?

2007-03-19 13:44:24 · 5 answers · asked by shortchic070307 2 in Singles & Dating

Been involved for 5yrs, have 2 kids by him, we love each other, he helps financially but isn't involved emotionally with the kids..Still something I don't understand. Has said he wants to make his marriage work, but only stays away limited time (at most 2 weeks), I know I shouldn't see him, but my first love, he's 16yrs older, always thought the older the mature, beginning to think I was wrong, what's the best way for me to handle all of this?

2007-03-19 13:43:56 · 29 answers · asked by missing_something 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 13:43:12 · 20 answers · asked by father agnostic 6 in Singles & Dating

my bff told me that I needed 2 get a makeover!! I took it personally! what do I do? im mad at her for waht she said although sometimes I think its the truth! but im myself so she can get over it!

2007-03-19 13:43:12 · 7 answers · asked by sam! 4 in Friends

I take care of myself, I am physiclly fit, young and a good wife to my husband. But, he just isn't into sex that much with me anymore. We've been togeher five years now. I try to initiate and spice things up but it only works temporarily. Then we are back into our same old no sex rut. How do you keep the romance alive when only when person is doing the work. I feel if I stop persuing we'd just stop having sex. Why might he no longer be into sex with me ? Is it boredom, if so how do we change, we've only been married five years ?

2007-03-19 13:43:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im up in five hours for work,off to my empty bed,goodnight all

2007-03-19 13:43:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What should I tell my friend if they have gotten pregnant 2 times in a row but always had a miscarrige and she won't listen to me that she is hurting herself. She is only 16 and she says its just bad luck I have tried to tell her parents and she always drags me away and my parents don't listen to me about anything and I am really consurned because she is going to get pregnant again I just know it because she is always having sex. So does anybody have any advice on what to say or do????? PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-03-19 13:43:04 · 4 answers · asked by Have_A_BIG_PROBLEM 1 in Family

My friend is dating this boy that dated 3 of her bestfriends but she has known this boy sense September 2006 and the bff only knew him for a week and one never met him and they dated 4 2 days. Anyway she is scared to tell her bestfriends because they hate him and one girl still likes him even though they havent met... The boy really likes my friend and would die with out her. Anyway she is scared how they are gonna feel because they knew she liked him and they went out with him anyway. and my friend doesnt like him she LOVES him. They are the perfect couple and how should she tel them and is it a good idea. She knows she might be risking her friendships with 3 people but she doesnt want to lose her bf.

2007-03-19 13:42:49 · 2 answers · asked by if only he knew 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 13:42:40 · 2 answers · asked by MoreInLoveWithMeYoullFall 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 13:41:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was talking to this guy in an office, for about 40 minutes and having very good eye contact, he acted as if he was hanging on to my every word. I did the same thing and I actually caught him looking down at my chest then back in my eyes...It's been pretty clear that there's a lot of attraction there. As I got up to leave, we continued talking and I went to take notes of what he was saying, writing on my paper and steadying it on my hand (because I was wearing a low cut shirt and bending over to write on his desk would have...well, been too much.:)).
When I looked up at him after taking notes (now I was standing), he was steadily looking to his left, with a half smile on his face...It was as if he had been looking at me the whole time but didn't want me to see it! It happened twice.
Do guys try hard NOT to stare at a woman they find attractive (when the attraction is clearly prohibited, as in this case)? I know he's attracted to me, just not what the looking away to his side means.

2007-03-19 13:40:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For the ladies that will admit size matters?Is 7-8 a good size or do you really need more to satisfy you, also if you are with a man that is beyond 8 inches would you be less likely to get with a man that is smaller after you break up?

2007-03-19 13:40:49 · 11 answers · asked by Nasty Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

HELP!!

2007-03-19 13:39:56 · 32 answers · asked by jake 1 in Singles & Dating

for the past few weeks ive been calling her during the weekend and the weekdays, but she never picks up her phone. she lives a town away from me so i dont get to see her at all. i call her house and her mom tells me shes not home and i ask her to tell her that i called and to call me back, but my friend never calls me back. i text her and she never texts me back. and i asked her other best friend which is in my school today and she says oh well i told her that youve been calling her and she said, oh i dont know...ive been busy and apparently thats all she said, but i dont know if the other best friend is telling the truth....anyways i dont get it, i thought i was her best friend or really good friend, but i just dont know what happened......im really upset by this, please help. thanks

2007-03-19 13:39:16 · 6 answers · asked by jerzeygrl420 2 in Friends

2007-03-19 13:39:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am in a class with this girl, and we talk all the time, (friendly conversation) and were always saying that wee gonna party together or drink together sometime, she has a bf of 2 years and she flirts with me, we were at a hockey game and i put my arm around her, gave e a big hug right away, and told me that her bf was boring. she ran up to me initiated the first hug to say hi and the second i told her to come and watch the game with me and i initiated it

2007-03-19 13:38:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever felt like you couldnt do anything? When you wanted to. People distracted you and you tried to tell them to shut-up, but in a good way? I need YOUR ADVICE! I WAWNT TO CRY OR FALL OUT!!:( :( :(

2007-03-19 13:38:23 · 2 answers · asked by Kaybee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships