I am 27 and I have decided that I want a Relationship that could hopfully lead to a marriage. I really need s

Question

I really could use some good advice on how we can learn to understand each other better. Everything is great all of the time until--we go out together with our friends (he does not like mine) after a couple beers he wants liquor and then he gets mean and mad verbally. The next day he regrets it and runs out for several days. I say things mean back out of frustration. How do we stop this pattern. It seems like it would be easy but it's not. I just want him to handle our problems and not run out. I love him and I really want to do all I can to fix this problem. What should I do. Friends and family tend to give bias advise!

Answer 1

This is not good.

He has a real drinking problem that needs to be dealt with.

I'm sorry.

Answer 2

people have to deal with their own baggage before they can truly commit.