Anyone ever been in Love?

Question

I finally got out of my writer's block and I am trying to finish writing my book. It is a romance novel and it is going pretty well, the only thing is I have never been in love, never had a boyfriend or been on any dates, so I am writing based off of what I have seen or heard. If any of you have been in love and are willing to share what it feels like or anything like that please let me know, because I am running out of ideas...

Answer 1

Entry for January 01, 2007
I’m not a writer but I’m just trying to express my feelings about love of my life. How life plays games with us when we think that we have found that one special person in our life and all of sudden we look around all we see it pitch black room with you and only you in it. How your fate separates us from that special one and how we loose them or sometimes may be get them back.

All this started 3 years age when I first met here. I use to work in dunkin donuts where I first saw my wife. I use to be a real jack *** at that time life was all about getting more and more girls everyday. Then something happen to me which I never expected will ever happen to me “LOVE”. For me love was just a phrase that guys use to get girls. She came in my life like magic and I was attracted towards her for all wrong reasons but didn't even realized when all those wrong reasons disappeared and all I wanted to do was spend time with her and see her just one more time I try to make new excuses every day just to hear her voice and see her. First chance I got was on my sisters engagement I asked her to attend it she said she won’t be able to make it but somewhere deep in my heart I knew that she will come and she did came. She made excuse with her parents to come there. Right then I knew that she is the one for me. That was the start after that I started making new excuse every day so I can see her and she knew that I’m just making excuses but she went along with it. You know how your mind plays games with you mine played a big number on me I realized I was falling in love that scared me and I started avoiding her and broke up with her for good 2 months. I thought that way I can stop my heart from falling in love but that just made it worse I was even more eager to see her and hear her voice. It seems like yesterday when I first kissed her in MILLCREEK PARK in WILLINGBORO, NJ and I used a very lousy line I said " what’s that on your lips" when she looked at me I just kissed her and said oops I'm sorry am I not suppose to do that or you were just waiting for me to do that. She blushed and just came in my arm that was most unforgettable moment for me. Our relationship was always on and off relation because I always use to get scared of her loving nature and her passion towards me. Time passed by and our feelings for each other got stronger day by day. Then I got so scared and broke up with her for 4 months. Thanks to our mutual friend seems because of her I got chance to see her once again after my sisters wedding. I was lonely after my sister left and when I looked around for some to be there for me there she was with her arms wide open waiting for me to just run to her and hug her. Right then I knew that she is the one send to me from god my soul mate.

So without wasting any time I asked her to marry me but of course with her parent’s permission even though we knew that her parents will never agree to our relationship. So finally we took the big step of not telling her parents and get married and after that we will tell them because she was scared if her parents know about all this then they will send her away from me or hurt themselves. Oct 2 of 2006 at 4:15 pm we got married in Burlington County City Hall and that was a fresh start of my life or should I say our life. She was still in college so we had to live separate from each other till she graduates small price we have to pay for the sake of our love. We use to see each other regularly but then something happened and her parents started talking about sending her to India. I couldn't let that happen so we decide to go and tell her parents and seek their blessings. So I went with one of my friend to talk to her father and asked him to give us his blessing so we can get married. Yes you guessed it right we still didn't tell them the whole truth because that will be a big shock to them and they might get sick after hearing all this. But some how they found out that we are all ready married and they reacted exactly the way we were expecting them to react they stopped me from talking to her or seeing her. They told her that they will commit suicide if she leaves. She called me one day she was crying I tried to calm her down and asked her what’s wrong? What she told me was a big shock for me too they were forcing her to divorce me. I didn’t knew how to react so I turned to my family and told them the whole situation they understood my dilemma and decide to go and talk to them and try make them understand. Her mother and father started screaming and wouldn’t just listen to what my parents and I have to say. We left without her because we didn’t want them to get sick. I tried my best to make them understand how much I love her but they just do not want to listen to me. I haven't seen my wife since Dec 24 of 2006 9 am. We argued for hours and finally he asked us to wait till Jan 31 of 2007 mean while we are allowed to talk over the phone that was a big relief. As per our deal with her father I tried calling her house and her sister picked up the phone and told me that she is not home I tried calling her the day after and I got the same answer I smelled something fishy and asked my mom to call her. My mom couldn’t see me like this so she called and her father picked up and was very rude to my mother he told my mother that his wife had a stroke and she is in hospital because of me so stop calling their house. My mom was still very nice to him and asked him if we all can go and visit her in the hospital and again he replied that they don’t want anything to do with us and hung up. Very next day I called to see how my mother in law is doing and he told me that he has send my wife to Boston to her uncle's house.

I knew right then that he is up to something just didn’t know what. Not knowing what to do anymore I called my cop friend and asked him what should I do next he suggested that I should file a complaint against him. But I still decide to wait a little longer hoping that he might come around. But I was so wrong Today Jan 1st of 2007 I called my wife's house to wish them happy New Year her father picked up the phone and started yelling again and threatening me. Then he put my wife on phone to tell me not to call her ever she was crying I got really mad when I heard her cry but what could I do. I decide to go pick her up and in order to do that I went to local police station seeking their help one of the officer went to their house for me but they weren’t home I knew that they are torturing her and hitting her . He told me that he will kill my wife and blame it all on me I'm not scared of death or anything I just don't want to see my wife in any kind of pain. He told me that he has send divorce papers to me and I better sing them .Why should I sing them I love her too much to loose her. I don't know what to do anymore just feel like going over there and get her out of there. But I can only do so much finally she has to step up and fight for her rights.



I just know one thing that if I loose my wife I will loose the hope of living she completes my existence in this world. I just wish that some miracle happens and her parents realize what kind of hell they are putting me through. I know she is going through hell too all I wish is for me and her to be together again forever and ever. Now waiting is the only option I got. Every day seems like a year to me do not know how these 31 days will pass I'm just praying from god to reunite us.

My grand pa once told me that person who forgives is bigger then a person who punishes. I turly believe in that and i wish my father in law forgives us and accept us instead of seprating us. I just know one thing if i get seprated from her i wont be able to live.


So I Found and Lost and now hoping that I will Lost and found soon.

Ps: My good friend Officer J. Manson is being really helpful so I just want to thank him for everything he is doing for me.

Answer 2

That is good i am not a good writer but love usually is always simular in basic ways it can happen different ways but it usually happens when people become comfortable enough to show someone that they like them alot. In my case i have fallen in love a lot of times and when it happens the love is more special then how it actually happens. It is usually meet a girl at sports practice after school or working at a restraunt like panera bread. I then talk for at least 5 minutes sometimes up to hours. Then ask for their number go on a date. then we will know if we fit or not that simple. But you would probably like to make the meeting more complicated in your story. So in your case think of every comfortable situation that you would like to meet a guy and every situation that would be a very uncomfortable way to meet or hang out with a guy and use thoughs situations to put drama in your story by making it go up and down. I can tell you seing the guy you just met at a gay bar would make any girl confused and you can use a situation like that to throw off your story and then have magical events that make them come back together. or Something like that.

Answer 3

I fell in something once, though I’m not sure it was love. It was a sweet sticky substance (an SSS). I could not ever get enough, but then maybe that is because I never got any. I thought this person was the answer to all my prayers. But she was only looking for a good time. Maybe that’s what I should have been doing.

Answer 4

I have and i still am its a great feeling being inlove with someone and caring a lot about them and know that they r someone special to u and that they are all urs no one elses and that ur being loved and cared for alot by them and knowing that u have someone that is there when u need someone to talk to or to just cuddle up with when u feel sad and jsut want to be with someone you truely love and care about and at times we worry about the one we love when we havent heard from them and we would do anything to keep ahold of them even if it meant fightin someone else that wanted him and they thought they could get them with out a fight i know my boyfriend has an ex after him and i told her what i thought of her and told her to back off from him b/c he was mine and he didnt want her and she finally left him alone but we will do anything to keep ahold of the one person we love the most and that means the world too us

Answer 5

Being in love is something that everyone needs to feel. Its like you would do anything for this person and you care for them soo deeply that really words cannot explain. Love is a bond that you feel. It makes your life meaningful and it is probably the best feeling in the world. And to know that the one you love loves you back thats just unexplainable.
When you get done with your book would you mind if i could read it ?? Just wondering ?

Answer 6

Yes i have been in love when i was 15 years old. It was my first & only love, we got engaged 3 days before my 16th birthday. He sent me flowers & took me for a meal were he asked me to marry him i said yes. But when i was 17 we broke up he found someone else. I still see him we are friends so from being together we became friends & we have been friends for 12 years.

Answer 7

Hi , I'm only 14 but I think know what it feels like to be in love. When you're in love, you know you're in love.
-When you're with the person you feel like there's no other place on earth you'd rather be than with this person.
-When you're with the person you feel happy, and even thinking about being with them feels comforting .
-You think about them 95% of your day! (lol)
-Your always talking to your friends about how great that person is .
-Its never ockward when your around them ...and you don't feel funny saying : " I LOVE YOU" and when you say it , you really meen it with all your heart.

I Hope this helped, at least a little.If you have any more questions i might be able to answer, feel free!
-Alex