Family & Relationships - 1 March 2007

2007-03-01 18:59:08 · 11 answers · asked by yen 2 in Friends

My boyfriend (of 2 years) left his backpack here today after school. I seen some notes in it the other day when he was going through it, so i took it down to my room and read all the notes. They were from his ex girlfriend. They said things like "you were right, i got so lonely in the shower last night. but you would have enjoyed the show afterwards.. i was walking around naked!!" and things like that. He also ditched a class a couple weeks ago to go drive around with her, and he seen how hurt i was, and yet he still continues to talk to her like that? He tells me shes like a sister to him. I just feel torn up inside over it, and whenever i see her in the halls i just want to burst into tears. I feel in the wrong for reading his notes and getting into his buisness and everything, but he's cheated on me before, and i'm scared of it happening again. I also cheated on him afterwards, but we both came clean. Should i tell him i read them, and try talking to him about it?

2007-03-01 18:58:50 · 13 answers · asked by JaggedLittlePill 4 in Singles & Dating

i want to bang in the buttocks how?

2007-03-01 18:58:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is the situation. My roommate and I have been having problems for the past 3 months due to the fact that he is immature and has his rude girlfriend over 3 nights a week. This frequent overnight guest (she pays nothing) has been the major cause of problems, mostly because they've both been disrespectful to me. We recently had a huge fight when he gave her his key to the apartment without my prior consent and she let herself in without warning and she blew up at me when asked to explain herself. Things have been very tense here since. Her mere presence is stressful to me, as she continues to be here without apologizing for her behaviour nor expressing any concern for my feelings, despite many talks with my spineless roomie (it is MY name on the lease. My roomie is a sub-tenant)

I terminated the lease & have 2 more months til I move. How do I deal with the horrible girlfriend for that time? Speaking to her logically is not an option. Ignoring her creates tension. Help!

2007-03-01 18:55:56 · 4 answers · asked by Star 1 in Friends

me and my boyfriend are thinking about moving into a 3 room apartment with his dad who is real cool and his brother. is this a bad idea?

2007-03-01 18:55:07 · 7 answers · asked by KDUB100 2 in Family

2007-03-01 18:54:48 · 19 answers · asked by zashigh 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 18:54:21 · 3 answers · asked by Rio 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

hello ladies I got an intresting question for u while accually a couple. Can A Guy Be Too Nice? Is The Saying: Girls Only Like Bad Boys True Because from my experience all girls who date bad boys always get treated like crap and there are so few true and genuine nice guys out there that a girl that when a girl find a genuine nice guys because of the way she has been treated she thinks he is lying and doesnt believe him or say oh i have heard that before but girls acuually want a genuine nice guy how come when they find one they go off and dump the nice guy for a hot bad boy then they wonder why there arent any genuine nice guys around. i am just asking because i am one of those genuine nice guys but i have been used and cheated on so many times i dont know what genuine girl is anymore. I would love to hear ur opions on this subject

2007-03-01 18:54:11 · 4 answers · asked by ColoradoGuy21 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 18:53:15 · 8 answers · asked by noga 3 in Marriage & Divorce

with me for awhile..i've got nobody n im crying...

2007-03-01 18:51:52 · 6 answers · asked by swap 2 in Friends

2007-03-01 18:51:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a crushand he had also because he always getting pictures of me and he is always looking at me and talking to me

2007-03-01 18:50:31 · 5 answers · asked by arlo_chickadee16203 1 in Singles & Dating

Marrage isnt anything but a piece of paper and one day where you spend way to much money on a wedding when 90% of the world gets divorced anyway....why risk it?? love doesnt exsist! your just gonna get divorced so dont waste your time or money!

2007-03-01 18:50:12 · 10 answers · asked by Morbiddoll 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I bring this up because of that valtrex commercial. If someone I was dating told me they had herpes, I'd get out quicker than a kid at michael jackson's house. My wife said i'm narrow minded and that's not how the real world is, if you loved them, it wouldn't matter......what would you do in the real world?

2007-03-01 18:49:48 · 8 answers · asked by alberthastings3 4 in Singles & Dating

His name is Nic/15/New Zealand...here's his pic.

http://vampirefreaks.com/picview.php?pic_id=14755874&user=gothicguy05&uid=754317&title=useless&c=0&x=3&d=&g=1&s=0&fid=0

and that's me

http://vampirefreaks.com/picview.php?pic_id=15835966&user=XxEmo_SweetheartxX&uid=1792442&title=&c=3&x=10&d=0&g=1&s=1

2007-03-01 18:49:34 · 1 answers · asked by ~○~Linkin_Park_Lover~○~ 4 in Singles & Dating

okay about 8 mnths ago me & my ex gf broke up she left me and i was devastated it was horrible! anyways 2 months after we split i met this amazing grl and we were perfect 2gether..even tho before all i wanted was for my ex 2 come back..well then she did and i didnt know what to do and i handled it bad i just seen them both trying to decide on what to do..well i couldnt take it! it was driving me crazy so i stopped talking to both of them so i could figure out what to do..the decision that would be so easy for me to make now i totally fd up..im so in love with this grl and shes with someone else already (its only been a month n a 1/2 since we broke up) i broke her heart and now she says she'll never get back with me ive tried everything! im an emotional train wreck just like before and i feel like i let my true love slip right threw my fingers..i know she loved me she wanted to marry me but she says shes in love with some other grl...what should i do?

2007-03-01 18:49:20 · 1 answers · asked by lonely heart club 2 in Singles & Dating

write down your views in respect of the parents which have given birth to you and have shown you this beautiful world....how u can be friendly to dem...

2007-03-01 18:48:45 · 9 answers · asked by rishi 1 in Family

my boyfriend and i are ready to start kissing, but he's got a brace around his lower teeth... will this potentially affect the kiss or hurt me? is french kissing possible with braces?

2007-03-01 18:46:03 · 5 answers · asked by sher 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering.....why aren't you asleep, already!?

2007-03-01 18:44:47 · 8 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Singles & Dating

yeah so basically my mom just split with my dad and she had a alot of stress in her life. she gets angry really easily now and becomes really unreasonable. like go back on her word and when i tell her she goes back on her word she says she dosent care cause she owns the house and she can do what ever she wants. Because of the divorce she didnt want to keep our house anymore so we live in an apartment now. because of her anger problems i get really pissed at her alot of times, when i do i get kicked out of the house. so any recommendations on how to pacify a angry mom? thx

2007-03-01 18:43:43 · 2 answers · asked by aznju 1 in Family

Im not much of a club hopper or a bar person. Nor would I want to meet someone under the influence of a few drinks.

Currently Im involved in a lot of hobbies... a martial art, art classes, theater, and other artistic venues like gallery openings and open mics.

Im a regular to a coffee shop... but Im not bumping into any guys there.

A relationship isnt a HUGE priority or anything but I certainly wouldnt mind being open to one.

I dont want players, wanna be gangstas, wanna be rappers, wanna be pimps.

Im not looking for some monk either... just a well rounded guy.

Any ideas?

2007-03-01 18:43:13 · 2 answers · asked by justicespeaks321 1 in Singles & Dating

What are the obvious taboos and what are ridiculous things to get mad over?

2007-03-01 18:42:53 · 5 answers · asked by Noodles 2 in Singles & Dating

BARRY (i know ? will read this and i am sorry i didnt't want to hurt her)
I was only young when you did things to me that a dad (stepdad) should not do and i have waited years to say something to you but never had the courage even though you are miles away, I know that i was not your own flesh and blood but what gave you the right to do it to me you took away my childhood, i only contacted you again not because i love you but because i wanted you to say sorry but you never did, i have nothing to gain or lose by doing this so here goes , when you sneaked into my bedroom even knowing that i shared a room and asking me not to say anything to mum and when mum had a suspicion something was going on you told me i didnt have to say anything and i never did ( i was a youngster and didnt know it was wrong) it was your dirty secret , i grew up hating men because of you unlike our ? i didnt sleep around i didnt trust men but i met paul and told him after a while what happened to me

2007-03-01 18:42:46 · 34 answers · asked by margaret 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

so willingly?

2007-03-01 18:41:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-01 18:40:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mr. "You Are My Valentine" wants a promotion to Mr. "Bedroom".
My crush came to visit me tonight...what he said kinda sounds interesting.
He was in my room and we were working on the computer. He saw the cat laying on the bed. He mentioned my pillows. Then he mentioned he would need more pillows for his head. Then he asked if the cat always sleeps there. I said yes. He said something like he couldn't sleep with a cat or there would be no where for him or something. I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."


So is this bombshell #1?

He's been in my room before but this is the first time the bed came up in conversation.

Remember...the focus of my question is the comments...

I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."

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What just got said here tonight? Did he throw his feelings out on the line or I'm I over analyzing?

2007-03-01 18:39:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my sister gave this guy my phone number and we have been taking for about a week and have to decided to meet in an open place where people are at....i guess my question is do looks really matter in a first blind date????i told him what i look like and have sent him pics through the internet to give him a clue on what i look like so its not totaly a blind date....is it a good or bad idea i am just worried on what he would think.....and what are some fun ideas after we eat????we can't decide what else to do???its really cold where i am at and i work crazy hours and i am just plain nervous about every thing........he seems really nice and i haven't went on a date in so long just out of the game....any advice would be appreciated....thank you for your time

2007-03-01 18:38:32 · 4 answers · asked by wendy p 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 18:36:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was always under the impression she's been with a larger than normal number a people but 30+ was still quite a shocker. Guys but mostly other girls she says. I don't even know what to think at this point. Looking for some advise outside the bubble.

2007-03-01 18:36:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I thought courting was what happened before you started dating, but a vague statement made by someone who was answering a question on this board made me think other wise.

2007-03-01 18:35:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating