Mr. "You Are My Valentine" wants a promotion to Mr. "Bedroom".
My crush came to visit me tonight...what he said kinda sounds interesting.
He was in my room and we were working on the computer. He saw the cat laying on the bed. He mentioned my pillows. Then he mentioned he would need more pillows for his head. Then he asked if the cat always sleeps there. I said yes. He said something like he couldn't sleep with a cat or there would be no where for him or something. I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."
So is this bombshell #1?
He's been in my room before but this is the first time the bed came up in conversation.
Remember...the focus of my question is the comments...
I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."
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What just got said here tonight? Did he throw his feelings out on the line or I'm I over analyzing?
2007-03-01 18:39:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe he was flirting with danger...or flirting with trying to figure out your feelings for him, for a more physical act, or fishing for a possible *slumber party* in your bed. His comment of, "No, I'm just saying if I was..." indicates he hopes for you to hook and reel him in. You have to guage if he is into you emotionally or just physically. I've had guys who were emotionally into me that did not even flirt with the idea of getting in my bed...they respected good ol' fashioned *getting to know you* first dating...and if he is a respectable guy, he will wait for when the BOTH of you are ready. Trust me. OR if you're mutually just physically into him, you could run with it and have fun...either way, safety guard yourself emotionally and physically! Even if I really liked the guy and he said that TOO soon, it would definately raise and eyebrow and scare me off and maybe even turn me off.
2007-03-01 18:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by Noodles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to sleep with you-
but fears being rejected-
so this is his way of feeling you
out on the subject,
wtihout having to experience any
possible rejection in case you're
not interested.
2007-03-01 18:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold the phone ! No room for the cat ! Bomb shell #2 :)
2007-03-01 18:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying to judge you and get your reaction and see if you are interested in what he is thinking. Ya, he is thinking of taking you to the bed.
2007-03-01 18:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by gsha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he is trying to give you hints that he would like to sleep with you some time. but it's up to you to decide when the right time is!
2007-03-01 18:45:48 · answer #5 · answered by chantelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are young and sexy...and every guys wants some. if you are ready for it then he definately put out the invite.
2007-03-01 18:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by HOCKEYGURU 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yup that he did if YOU want him then GO FOR IT. but don't you forget the cat
2007-03-01 18:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're spot on honey!!
2007-03-01 18:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE IS JUST SILENTLY REQUESTING U TO..... U KNOW DON'T U
2007-03-01 18:45:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
bingo,i think you've got it right.
2007-03-01 18:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by nohorseflis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋