yeah so basically my mom just split with my dad and she had a alot of stress in her life. she gets angry really easily now and becomes really unreasonable. like go back on her word and when i tell her she goes back on her word she says she dosent care cause she owns the house and she can do what ever she wants. Because of the divorce she didnt want to keep our house anymore so we live in an apartment now. because of her anger problems i get really pissed at her alot of times, when i do i get kicked out of the house. so any recommendations on how to pacify a angry mom? thx
2007-03-01 18:43:43 · 2 answers · asked by aznju 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ouch buddy, really a painful situation. The only hope is if you can get her to communcate her pain instead of the anger. Anger is an emotion we reserve when we want change. It helps to drive and motive us to rise above the stressor that causes the anger. Unfornatly for your situation the stressor is the whole situation. She most likly is feeling betrayed, abandon, and my even fear lossing you too. I don't know your family dynamics so I have no clue how much your clan expresses love and all its forms. Which is always the easiest way to pacify anger in anyone.
2007-03-02 06:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your mom and you are pretty stressed out.Stress causes you to do all kinds of things. Mostly you take it out on the person who doesn't deserve it . Give it a little time. Time heals all. A little love and understanding can't hurt either. Good luck!
2007-03-02 08:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by kk bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋