Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

guy 1- a good friend
guy 2- my crush, who i think might like me.


I was talking to guy 1, my really close guy friend. Now guy 2 knows were really close, and he's known to be a bit jealous. Once he sees us talking, he runs over, jumps on top of my back friendily, and then wraps his arm around my waist and says "Heyyy [guy1]" and left it there. He usually touches me a lot but never wraps his arm around my waist. I heard that wrapping of the arms around the waist shows protection over someone. Is this right or what does this mean?

2007-02-27 22:53:42 · 9 answers · asked by lalabooboo 1 in Singles & Dating

why? why do guys fall so fast for the most stupiidest boys I MEAN GIRL LIKE TO BE PLAYED OUT BY STUPID IDIOTIC BOYS WHY? SOMEONE EXPLAIN PLEASE

2007-02-27 22:52:31 · 4 answers · asked by nana 1 in Singles & Dating

I have some things already taking care of. like the flowers my aunt is doing. grandma is doing the cake. soon to be mother in law doing the food. i really need help with decorrations and brides maids dresses.and ideas of where to have the wedding and reception. please help!

2007-02-27 22:50:50 · 15 answers · asked by Kimberly wood 1 in Weddings

2007-02-27 22:48:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I and my boy friend have been together for more than 6 months now. When i am with him, i never doubt that he is cheating on me or he is still having unfinished business with his ex. When you stepped into his house or out and arnd on the street, I can tell that i am the only girl he is with. We are happy together. However, one thing about him that i dont understand is: when he is with me, he would turn off his phone most of the time. When i call him, occassionally his phone would be turned off. For example, he said tonite he would be at home and doing nothing, but when i call him at 10.45pm, his phone was off and the voice msg was on. I am so confused. What does it mean? Is he cheating on me? if he doesnt want to be interrupted..but from what??

Please share with me ur opinion. how do u look at it?

2007-02-27 22:47:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

y cant i meet a great girl in the south of london who is meduim size likes doing sports not wacthing coz that is so boring like around 18 (like16-21) who just wants to go out and have fun im 18 and romantic and flirty

2007-02-27 22:46:35 · 16 answers · asked by kezz247 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 22:46:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 22:45:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...others like to keep something in reserve. Do you go all out on the initial connection, or do you make the guy wait because of some false sense of demure, feminine 'class'?

2007-02-27 22:44:54 · 5 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 22:43:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had a particular best friend for about 10 years now. We get on great because we have same interests, both nice people etc - but there has always been a marked difference between us; popularity. It's like, she's my best friend, but she's everyone's best friend. I am easily as nice a person as she, but she is the one who everyone loves, always being asked to visit people... I know the same people too and they don't ask me to visit. I can't think of doing anything wrong... the only difference between us is she is outgoing and loud, I am shyer. Is this just going to be the story of my life or can I change? Should I change? Or am I worrying over nothing?

2007-02-27 22:43:28 · 6 answers · asked by Sultana Of Swing 1 in Friends

2007-02-27 22:43:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend 32 and I 29 have been together for 8 months.We are very much in love.He really shows me his love and I have no complains.He has already told me a lot of times without proposing that we will get married and made me believe that he meant soon e.g (a year).But a week ago he told me that he has set a time limit to himself not to do anything(get married,live together e.t.c)for the next 1.5 year(which means that we may get married in 2.5 years) because he wants to pay off his car loan.His salary is 1600euros and his loan is 500.He is very careful with money. Should I trust that he will keep his word?He has promised other not really important things (like doing something)and sometimes didn't keep his promises or postponed things.That's what worries me and to tell you the truth I do not want to waste my time with someone who isn't worth it.I did that with my ex for 6 years and have been really hurt.How can I tell if he means what he says?Thank you in advance for your replies.

2007-02-27 22:40:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she was less then two when i dated and married her mother. then we had two kids. my wife and I had two children and after a short marriage we got divorced. I always stayed close to my kids and my step daughter..now she is in her 30's has two children and twice divorced too, so it started out innocent but we got way past that a long time ago. the funny part is we used to fight like dog and cats when i was married to her mother but she has ripened in body and mind and has seduced me quite often as I live alone...
she is not really blood relation but I feel like Woody Allen..is this legally wrong or just not in good taste?? It sure is hard to say no to something like this>>my real kids don't like there half sister very much and stay away from her and for a long time before this they stopped seeing me...just like their mother..

2007-02-27 22:40:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-27 22:40:27 · 6 answers · asked by tarek 1 in Singles & Dating

wat can girls do to get noticed by men?, wat do guys really look for ? is it all about looks and does personality really matter?

2007-02-27 22:39:52 · 5 answers · asked by k h 1 in Singles & Dating

Dear freinds,

Would appreciate if you would be a approprate advice. I have a freind who is married and to be divorced. He is gem of a person i have ever met in my life and he is so caring and loving. But unfortunately he is so depressed because of the bad thing that happend in his life. He thinks that there is nothing more in rest of his life and very often he gets angry. When i try to explain that this is life - he ends up yelling at me. I like him a lot and want rest of this life to be happy. What should i do?

2007-02-27 22:38:06 · 3 answers · asked by krish_preethi 1 in Friends

2007-02-27 22:37:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 22:37:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...and offered me £25 for my brother. I agreed and the man took him away. I now miss my brother. Should I phone him and apologise?

2007-02-27 22:34:41 · 12 answers · asked by G P 2 in Family

I have just split up with my boyfriend of six months. Things had been a bit rough and he cheated on me so it's over. I still love him but cannot go back to him. Need some quick fixes to get over it!!

2007-02-27 22:33:48 · 14 answers · asked by galatosgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

He acts as if i'm unattractive sexually and when i do the first move his reaction is unbearable. it's as if i was about to punish him. I never had this problem with any of my ex bf .
now we have sex like once a month (not enough!!!)
he has cholesterol can it be it?
no i'm not fat i'm not ugly
sometimes he tells me i have bad breath but i always have a mint in my mouth
i dunno i'm really confused the wedding is soon u know
i love him he is great to me what am i going to do?!
he has had a lot of girls . women like him. he says he loves me becoz of my mind not my body... and he thinks that we are gonna have a solid marriage coz we understand each other etc etc but i mean come ooooooooonnnnnnnnn

2007-02-27 22:33:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been freinds with guy for 6 yrs, have bf who am engaged to going out with him 4 yrs recently started meeting freind behind bf's back ended up kissing ... now thinking i like freind not sure what to do he keeps going hot and cold now i think we might of f***ed up freindship yet cant have relationship as we live in different countys and i wont leave bf unless im sure he really wants me i wonder is it just sex he is after or does he really like me?

2007-02-27 22:32:12 · 4 answers · asked by lucy l 1 in Singles & Dating

Like, if a man gets fed up with his woman talking about and to other men even after he says he doesnt like it.

2007-02-27 22:31:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 22:31:50 · 20 answers · asked by piak_philips 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother died on 9/11 every time i think about my mother. I wanna break down but also i feel this rage like i wanna go out and hurt this people i was never racist Ive got all kinds of friends who are black but any ways when i see this people on t.v i feel this rage that scares me like its crossed my mind to go out and really hurt these people i spoke to my friend he told me i should go to counseling to help me get over the loss of my mother its been 7 yrs but it still hurt it hurt worse cause that day we got into a big argument i told her that i hated her and when ever i think bout her that's all i can remember so the question is is it wrong for me to wanna really hurt these people i mean these arabs. Put em to sleep am i crazy cause its been 7 yrs but it still hurts me baddly
its a pain that wont go away.

2007-02-27 22:31:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is it good?

2007-02-27 22:31:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok my ex broke up with me and he said we could stay friends etc...So i didnt know why he did this cause I thought everything was going so well between us even tho we only saw each other twice a week(hidden realtionship my parents whatever)anyways he broke up with me(hes 18) and he didnt even say it to my face he told 1of his friends(a girl in my class who also knows him to tell me!)so I was mad i insulted him saying "I need a real man etc..."and "anyways I wasnt gonna sleep with you bcause I would be ashamed and too embrassed"etc. so I then told him I was dating sum1 else he got mad calling me a slut and he said he was gonna beat this other guy up etc...but why if HE broke up with me is he acting like this(I dated this new guy 5days after my ex dumped me)then I told him he even said he was gonna beat my dad up why did he say all this crap?
the last thing i told him was "I beg of you leave me alone im sorry i wish you a good life"
he just replied "yea ok ok the same for you"
whatsup

2007-02-27 22:30:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...stay the night, hold you for a while and then tell you he has to be up for work early and leave, or just wait until you fall asleep and sneak out after leaving you a little note?

2007-02-27 22:27:11 · 10 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend 3 year i have a little girl from a past relationship. my little girl calls my partner daddy and loves him so much and he loves her. my little girls real dad used to see her from time to time when he could b bothered. the last year or so there has been countless times he said he was coming to take her out then would not turn up not even a phone call to say why. he has even told me that his priorities lie with his new girlfriend. she is 3 now and the last time asked to take her out i told her she was going and he didnt turn up again, and all day she was asking when she was going out with him. he has never gave me a penny towards looking after her. So i told him that he could see her no more And now he keeps texting saying that he wants to b a dad to her and that i have no right. i just dont want it messing my little girl up. she doesnt even really know who he is just someone who takes her out once in while. Wot should i do?

2007-02-27 22:25:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships