He acts as if i'm unattractive sexually and when i do the first move his reaction is unbearable. it's as if i was about to punish him. I never had this problem with any of my ex bf .
now we have sex like once a month (not enough!!!)
he has cholesterol can it be it?
no i'm not fat i'm not ugly
sometimes he tells me i have bad breath but i always have a mint in my mouth
i dunno i'm really confused the wedding is soon u know
i love him he is great to me what am i going to do?!
he has had a lot of girls . women like him. he says he loves me becoz of my mind not my body... and he thinks that we are gonna have a solid marriage coz we understand each other etc etc but i mean come ooooooooonnnnnnnnn
2007-02-27 22:33:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I doooo!!! many times i did bad stuff to him... it's like he's not even interested in sex at all....
although let me tell u .... when we do it .... he is amazinnnng!
2007-02-27 22:40:14 · update #1
i tried to talk to him about it ... he says that i have more sexual needs than him... it's no big deal to him... he says he loves me...
to him once a month or every 15 days is normal !!!!!
2007-02-27 22:44:28 · update #2
Yep, that doesn't seem like a solid marriage to be to me.
If you guys aren't communicating sexually, you're not going to communicate verbally/mentally.
You should talk to him about it.
2007-02-27 22:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I asked a similar question a few days ago it was about my partner masturbating rather then having sex with me, you can go to my profile and check it out. I'm not fat or ugly and I'm quite up to anything and just willing to please in the bedroom. And he was spanking the monkey behind closed doors, Now its back to normal and I can be wild and adventures in the bedroom. Some men are so unpredictable, but what can you do, Be sexy, work out for a little while get yourself nice and toned and give him a strip show and a lap dance he would enjoy that if he doesn't He's gay, simple.
Goodluck any questions email me.
2007-02-27 22:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! Although sex is not all there is to love, it is a huge part. I don't see how cholesterol can affect how he views you sexually. I will not tell you what you should do directly, but I will say there is no way I would marry someone who did not have passion and desire for me sexually. It is a disaster waiting to happen.
2007-02-27 22:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by bunnydlh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are having doubts if he really loves you or not, if he doesnt want sexx now, what do you think it will be like once your married? marriage does not fix your problems it just creates more self doubt and questions then it is very expencive to get a divorce. think loooonnnggg and hard and be sure you are ready,,if there is only sexx once a month now hunny wait till your married a few years and you'll wish you got it once a month!
2007-02-27 22:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your marriage is going to be hell because he is marrying you to try to be something he is not.He is gay.Trust that.
2007-02-27 22:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!when you get married he will treat you worse than that.
he is being mean to you
2007-02-27 22:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by up4anything 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not normal.3x time a week is what i like.
2007-02-27 22:50:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its fading you bets do sumin quick be creative and blow his mind away....sexy!!
2007-02-27 22:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋